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On my way to the office today (dressed up), I was thinking about the little things that make cross dressing fun. We all know how great it is to get dressed up and see the complete look in the mirror, but what about some of the smaller things and reminders that enhance the experience. It's those little things that happen when you're dressed up that you do automatically, but the instant you do them you think to yourself, "That's what women do!" These little things are a gentle and joyous reminder of your feminine side. Here are a few of mine, in no particular order of importance.
1. The sound of heels clicking down the hall, and knowing they're yours
2. The way the seat belt in the car goes across your chest between your breasts
3. Brushing hair out of your eyes or reaching up to adjust your pony tail
4. Looking down to watch your step on rough ground and seeing the smooth profile of a pencil skirt or skinny jeans
5. The feel of the air (and fabric) on your legs in a dress or skirt
6. Feeling long hair on the back of your neck
7. Reaching into your purse for things, instead of into your pockets
8. Hearing someone refer to you with feminine words (ma'am, Miss, Ms, her, she, etc)
9. The gentle press of bra straps
10. Catching an unanticipated glimpse of yourself in a reflecting window or small mirror as you're going about your daily business
Thanks Sarah, I have to say that I share all those small things that you mentioned on your list. For me, feeling my natural long hair on my back going past my bra strap is wonderful. Have a lovely rest of the week, Hugs, Krista.
Thanks! I envy you your own hair. I'm growing mine out, but it's pretty stiff and naturally curly, so I only have the "Bob Ross" look going right now. With my strong Widow's peak, I'm not sure the look is going to work. Trying to be patient! We'll see how it goes. It would just be so fun to swim or kayak en femme without worrying about my wig coming off!
thanks Sarah, You made me chuckle with your "Bob Ross" comment. That look was certainly quite in style some years ago. And hey, it is still in style these days where pretty much anything and everything goes. Being patient is a good idea and it is definitely fantastic never having to worry about a wig falling off. And your natural hair color will definitely go better with your skin tone than the color of a wig. All the Best, Hugs, Krista.
My SO swears by a treatment called KeraStraight (done every three months) that takes the curl and the frizz out of her hair. It isn't cheap but the results are well worth it.
-A.
Thanks for the tip. Sarah is on a budget so I'll probably wait a while for that.
One little thing I adore is how lipstick leaves a smear on a glass or a drinking straw, even a cigarette. Kind of a little reminder of that side of myself whenever I notice it.
I love that when im in conversation with someone I twirl my hair. Never had a chance to do it before I started going out at Kate :).
Yes Sarah all 10 observations are right on sis. Glad to see others noticing the same things I have felt as well.
The wonderful feel of ear rings dangling from your ears.
Even if they are clip ons.
Looking at you feet in a cute pair of open tied high heels or sandels with polished toes.
Huggs Patty
When I walk into my bedroom now and there's the gentle smell of perfume and body spray, seeing my lingerie on the clothes drier and adverts for womens clothing keep appearing on my computer.
So true! I love all those things too.
Yes I guess that I am just an old fashioned girl, I love my lipstick as well. I even wore it when I still had to wear a mask, JUST BECAUSE USE I WANTED TOO!
Wearing the most beautiful hosiery and lingerie when underdressing and no one knowing or even dreaming of it when I was a drab man. All they had to do would be to pull my jeans down and my secret would of been out? It never happened. I used to wear borderline clothes in the 80s and they could of looked good on a woman or a man? It used to give me such a buzz sneakin around being a girl until I got it that im no man I'm a woman that has the body of a man and I think and do so many things a woman would do. Like many blokes would be right up for one night stands but not myself I would always wanna chat about anything a woman likes chatting about. I'd even tell a woman how beautiful she looks in her dress and tell her if she had the right colour make up on to suit her clothes or eyes. People would say there is something very different about me? All the girls wanted to chat to me and many even said it was like talking to a older sister or a fav auntie. That's when it hit home I'm not supposed to be a man and I have these deep feelings that ain't male feelings they are female ones and from then on I just knew, took a while to sink in but once I began amassing female clothes and wearing them more and more and even acting like a woman would it hit me like a freight train. I'm a woman and I should be a woman always
Oh I luv all those things! 🌸 and the way the silicone forms bounce when walking in heels 👠🏳️⚧️🌸🎀
