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I was out today and came across a truly remarkable young transwoman. She was tall and wearing little no makeup yet the only unmistakable giveaway was her voice. Though I know most of us feel we are content to be en femme only part time do you feel pangs of jealousy when you see a girl like that? I know it's not unusual to feel that way about all kinds of women, but to see one so tall and so natural going from not too different from yourself to such a wonderful feminine creature I can't help but wonder, "what if I had done that?"
I'm pretty certain I'm happy with things the way they are, but I can get pretty distracted when I meet someone like that. Anyone else get that wistful feeling when they meet someone like that?
Not at all, but my first encounter with a trans girl, who was similarly only given away by her voice, was under unusual circumstances.
I had decided to go Christmas shopping en femme.
Some nice jeans, a very feminine pink jumper with a deep pink blouse, my 3" nude court shoes, and a green parka completed my outfit, and my makeup was OK that day.
Every shop I went into treated me like a customer, except Monsoon, where I was pointedly ignored by staff.
Lush was very different.
I walked in the door, and the trans girl immediately came up to me and started talking about the products and which were her favourites, and made me feel like a special customer.
She took me to a chair, where a GG massaged some lovely powder onto my hands, and both invited me to smell and sample other products that they liked.
It was a delightful Christmassy experience, and I found myself admiring the trans girl for simply being herself, and part of the team in the store.
I came out with an absolutely perfect present for my wife that she loved, to cap it all.
So only admiration from me, for what must be an incredibly difficult experience.
Love Laura
Unfortunately there is never a shortage of reminders of how hard their experience is. At the same time as a person whose duality has prevented them from ever committing too much to one thing that full embrace of the feminine makes me wish I felt something stronger about being one way - not necessarily only in terms of gender.
No Need to be jealous, If that is how you fell then we are the only ones that is stopping us from going full time XX
Just be you, and do you! Jealousy is a waste of time!
I'm jealous when I see a crossdresser or drag artist who looks utterly amazing, although I know that the main reason I don't also look utterly fantastic is simply that I'm to lazy to put in the effort 😀
But a transwoman? No jealousy there. I've read enough of others' experiences (and seen two friends go through it first hand) to know that there's nothing to be jealous off . The life of dysphoria and prejudice is something I am in no way jealous of, no matter how good someone looks.
However I am jealous of any woman - trans or otherwise - who looks amazing in a particular outfit.
