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Underdressing on weekend trip. Drove hours to my destination in my underwire bra. Took it off because i thought my ultraobservant inlaw was there.
Came back today. Ate breakfast in a crowded restaurant while underdressed. Stopping at gas stations etc.
i know, pretty mundane, right?
Got home looked in the mirror and the cup seams are plain as day thru the shirt plus headlights.
I don’t think anyone noticed, or if they did i didn’t notice them noticing. My wife didn't even notice or just kept quiet.
Been doing this a couple of weeks. I have gone from the IM WEARING A BRA!!! feeling to let’s keep it low key, and try not to forget other people might notice.
Oh, that i could do this openly without consequences….
I did something like that once. I underdressed in a one piece swimsuit before a 6 hour drive. Since it was early in the morning and I was mostly on the interstate with rest stops, I didn't have too much to be concerned about because I wasn't going to have any interactions with anyone else during and immediately after the trip.
That is usually the only way i get any extended opportunity. The cool weather over the last two weeks and a bit of daring on my part has had me in a bra for up to 17 hours at a time for most of it. At work, at home, etc.
normally much more cautious.
Good advice for all areas of life. And no i am not offended. I appreciate honesty and truth much better than someone trying feed me unicorn droppings.
some of my best things in life happened when i put my foot down and started the path, whatever it was.
Hi Pattie,
There is nothing Mundane about you sweety.
You are a spectacular human being doing the best you can.
I understand on the bra, my wife can spot the mildest t-shirt bra on me.
She should have been a detective.
You just keep doing the best you can and as you do it you will find more boldness.
And if not enjoy being happy with your feminine side we know you're beautiful.
Bobbi is so right about her advice.
Maybe one day we will be there.
Well said, Bobbi. And it recalled something I discovered 'way back in my younger "biker" days: You can get away with doing almost anything IF you truly don't a bleep about what others think of you. The concept is a luxury family life caused me to give up, but super-senior citizenship is bringing back.
