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Lately I've been giving a lot of thought to the idea of truth, specifically my own life's truth. I don't think my story is too different from a lot of the other people out there. Started dressing young, didn't really understand that it was a part of me, tried to bury it, couldn't, finally came to a point where I couldn't deny it any more. It's like, of course I remember the truth of my life, my details and experiences that I have lived. But I couldn't see (or accept, or whatever) what the capital-T Truth of what it all meant. and I gave myself plenty of evidence, believe me. My life simply got better when I was willing to say, both to myself and other people, this is me. It's not like my life changed radically as a result. Still the same life I've carved out for myself. But I'm immeasurably happier.
So I say all of that, to say this. Don't be afraid to let your little truths guide you to your big Truth. And dare to be who you are.
Xoxo, Kate
Hi Kate If you take the time to remember back when your desire to wear girls clothes and then woman's as you got older. You have to come to some conclusion that we are different. Some of us enjoy expressing our selves in the feminine part time and in private then there those of us who want it full time all the time. If you identify were you fall under the spectrum then you can begin to accept that part of you as the truth it is real. You then can choose if you want to expand on the new truth. If it feels good and feels right then expand on it. Then you have to figure out how to incorporate your new truth into your everyday life. That becomes the challenge for all of us. Acceptance of this part of me is real came very hard for me as you said you have to be honest and truthful with your self first. Then you can be honest with others. I believe most of the members here at CDH are honest and truthful with them selves otherwise they would not be here sharing there truth. The old saying "The truth will set you free" applies here also .Just another opinion.
Luv Stephanie
Hi Kate,
Wonderful post so happy for you.
Mikala xx
Stephanie,
there is a lot of truth in what you stated. We all have similarities but also differences on why, how and when we dress. As well as the purpose for our dressing. For me, as well as many of us here, we wonder why and how did we start dressing? Why is it so strong of a need/desire? Were we born this way? was it due to how we were brought up?
I know many of us can vividly remember certainly times in our dressing up history that stick out in our minds. For those of us that have a sportive SO, I think our dressing will evolve deeper as we figure out our sweet spot of where we want to be with our dressing. For me, I wonder at what point will it be enough? While I have zero interest to transition, and do not feel like a man trapped in a ladies body. I do enjoy getting dressed up, the primping and picking out my clothes as well as buying lingerie and clothes.
At the end of the day, we need to accept this is the way we are, explore as you need to do, and hope our So will be ok with it. If not, you need to decide what is acceptable to you. Life is too short to not enjoy it...however that may be!
Ahh. You are such a cutie. I'm glad your happy.
