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I just got home from Vacation last night and was greeted by my 2 daughters only to be told my brother had passed away on the weekend. Seems he went for a walk and had a seizure, lost consciousness and for to death, we live in Canada. His wife passed away in November and he hadn't been doing very well but I never expected this, he was only 59. I find myself in a state of confusion and shock and trying to figure out the ultimate question, WHY.
Hi Heather. Please accept my condolences for your loss.
Heather, I'm so sorry honey. *hug* I don't have any answers for you, unfortunately. I do have a comfy shoulder (I've been told) should you need somebody to lean on for a moment, and I have a sympathetic ear should you need somebody to talk to.
My deepest condolences for your loss, Heather.
Your brother passed too young at 59. I can listen if you'd like to talk
Sadly, death often seems senseless and unfair. My sympathies on your loss.
With your brother's wife passing away in November, the poor man probably cold not take the stress and anguish from the loss of his soulmate.
There is many who believe, our time on earth is just kind of a passing through phase of our existence. When our body dies here, our life energy and spirit lives on. We rejoin those who have moved on before us. Psychics and mediums claim to or seem to be able to communicate with those who have moved on.
If we assume for the moment that this is true, then you brother has moved on and has been reunited with his wife and other loved ones. They are both happy and at peace.
Thank you all for your kind thoughts and words, I had a really good nights sleep last night and the world seems a little clearer today. Nobody will ever know the big why now it just comes down to, time heals all wounds I guess. So here we go, on with the show, time to pull myself up by the boot straps and get on with life. Today is going to be a rough one, I have to go tell my Mom what's happened and I'm not looking forward to this. Mom's 83 and has dymentia and I don't know if she's going to be able to comprehend this. Thanks again girls for your support and I'll be okay, this one just really blindsided me.
Take care all, Heather.
So sorry for your loss Heather. Losing loved ones always leave you stunned.
Prayers for you and your family.
Hugs,
Samantha
So sorry to read about your brother. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Hugs, Jacquie
Thank you all again for your kind words, at times like these it really does help. His funeral was yesterday and I delivered the eulogy, it made me feel better to talk and let my feelings out. Plus it was a great turn out for the visitation with lots of old and dear friends, some we hadn't seen for a very long time and that made us all feel better too. No one will ever answer that big question why, but now it's time to gather ourselves and move on as our loved ones would want it.
Thank you all once again and take care, Heather.
PS. Hug someone you love today!
