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Unisex facilities?

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(@valentina16)
Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Politics aside please (or the Q risks being taken down), how many genders are there and how many should we cater for?

I will not spoil the debate, but I was staggered to see how many there are listed under one of the searches I carried out.

Even with only two sexes (not my word), surely there is still a problem, as it Shirley doesn’t stop the subjective opportunity to cross and use the adjacent rest room?

Why not be bold and have facilities for just one gender.

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Lady
(@sashabennett)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 803

@valentina16 That really depends on your viewpoint & you will get different answers depending on who you ask. I can think of SO many reasons not to be bold but it's difficult not to be political with a question like that so I will leave it there.

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(@marleneroberts)
Joined: 5 years ago

Honorable Member     Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 573

@valentina16  Many places have one bathroom for all genders, airplanes for one. Never a problem that I have seen. Best, Marlene.

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Lady
(@joannajoy)
Joined: 2 months ago

Reputable Member     British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 203

@valentina16 here in Canada, a lot of places have unisex bathrooms , some have his,hers, and family . The number of genders?? That seems to change regularly and I don’t know where we are at with it now. I’m of the belief that you be you, and I’ll be me. And that’s how it should stay… hugs … jo

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 762

@joannajoy I actually saw 42 (or was it 47) listed. I will capture and share the list as soon as I find it again. 💚

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Baroness
(@dianas1960)
Reputable Member     South Central, Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

I have seen several stores and restaurants lately going the direction of Unisex Bathrooms.  There is also an app called "Refuge Restrooms" that will help you find a friendly bathroom.

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Lady
(@prettytoes)
Prominent Member     alfred, Maine, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

i think the schools in Maine are unisex now. i gets some kids don't know if they are male, female or trans.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Here in the U.K. there are plenty of so called unisex rest rooms/toilets and always have been. Smaller businesses have limited space so can only have one cubicle. Outside events have those portaloos which are singular, lockable and unisex as it were so where ever you feel on the spectrum you are catered for.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1807

@ab123 As someone who has run in a lot of events, I've encountered some very grim portaloos on a race day.

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 762

@annaredhead Very grim. Very grim indeed. 🤮

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

For 99.99% of human development we did have unisex everything, and at times still do. It has only been in the last few thousand years, and in some societies that the whole gender thung became an issue, so we can obviously survive as a species without all the complications we have created.

There are two sexes, but even that is complicated by anomolies and evolutionary quwirks.

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(@coloradog1)
Honorable Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

The main reason there are separate men’s and women’s bathrooms are because us men can’t keep the dam things clean !!! Lol

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 762

@coloradog1 …unfortunately, very true. Especially as we get older, and Percy tends to dribble. 😌

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Duchess
(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 2150

@coloradog1 I don't know about that. I used to, back in the day, do cleaning in the store where I worked. Often the ladies 🚺 room was much more disgusting than the men's. 

Cassie 

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(@coloradog1)
Joined: 2 years ago

Honorable Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 281

@loneleycd lol I’ve actually been told that before!

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Duchess Annual
(@robertaf)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Louisiana, United States of America
Posts: 1060

@coloradog1 so true, I for one don’t want to use the same toilet as men, when I’m dressed. Their filthy men don’t use the seat and treat it disdain. I don’t Cary enough disinfectant to want to try using it. I don’t like squaring either. 
keep them seperate please. Single stalls are ok but just keep them Male/ Female.

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(@coloradog1)
Joined: 2 years ago

Honorable Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 281

@robertaf cant blame you there Roberta!!

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Lady
(@petersmith)
Eminent Member     Birmingham, West Midlands, United Kingdom
Joined: 7 months ago

Hi Valentina; You were wondering how many genders there might be.  I did hear once that apparently the Eskimoes recognise 27 different genders!!!  Now how true that might be I don't know.  Perhaps it includes those that enjoy the company of Polar Bears or Seals, but 27 is stretching it a bit, eh?!   By the way, I love your picture. May I ask please.....is there any special or particular reason for it being a mermaid??

 

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 762

@petersmith It’s lovely isn’t it. TY. Yes, I have written an article which will be published 1 Feb which explains all… I won’t spoil the surprise! ☺️

And I will share that one article I happened upon while doing my research on the internet actually listed 42 (or was it 47) genders. I was going to wait until the question ran itself out and then share. Thank you for coming back on the first part of the Q 😇!

See ya later!

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