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Hello, all you ladies. Wanted to share a story from the weekend. It had been a while since I dressed. On Sunday, my wife said it's your day. She is tolerant of my dressing. She does know that I dress, but still has some problems with it.
So, this day was a surprise to me. We went to lunch and after came home. It was raining, so zero outside activates. She said what do you want. I stated the works. She set forth doing my hair, with a wet set and did my makeup. After, I asked her what you would like to see and to pick something out. After a bit she came back and stated there are four outfits in the bathroom.
I went to the bathroom and to my surprise two outfits were dresses and two casuals. I started with one of the dresses. Did the whole ten yards, with new shoes, she had not seen before. She was great, unrolled my hair and styled it, to say the least I was in heaven. She was so loving. Later, I dress into one of the casual outfits and we relaxed for the night. She was very calm and into it. This was a little different than sometimes, since she feels, I would like to push the boundaries.
Now after that great night, I really have a problem. I have the erg to dress every day and I do some, but I would love to relax at home with her at night dressed, not just a little in the time before she gets home. Just asking anyone else have this problem?
Wish I had your 'problem'. I've been alone for 16 years now. Sure, I can dress however and whenever I want, but there is no one to share it with.
Your wife gave you a gift. Cherish it. Show your appreciation and she might do it again, maybe even more often. If it became an everyday thing, well, it would become an everyday thing. Savor the moments. Be patient.
My advice is to hold off on the urge. Wait for the next time your wife feels like it. Its sounds as though she really invested herself in the process and was comfortable with the result. If it was enjoyable for her, then chances are the next rainy day will be just as much fun for both of you.
Thank you, you might be right.
Sorry you have not been able to share for so long. Love the statement. those times are special.
Lynne -
That is so nice that she did that for you.
I have had similar experiences recently. The first one caught me by surprise but I enjoyed the day. This past Easter as we were getting things in the morning for dinner my wife said it is a shame people don't dress up for Easter anymore. She then said maybe Suzanne would like to come for dinner. I agreed and went and changed. I wore a pretty flower print dress with earrings, necklace and bracelet, heels and wig. Needless to say I had a bra, panties and pantyhose on as well. It was lovely spending the day dressed with her. There was another day she asked if I wanted to dress and we had a conversation where she said she never had any real girlfriends growing up (she was a tomboy) and that she enjoyed our girl time. There have been a few other times as well. I take her lead as to when this will happen but have on one occasion mentioned to her that I could use a Suzanne day. The following day she said I thought you were going to have a Suzanne day and encouraged me to get dressed. She even helped me with my make up. I love her for doing it for me and do show her my appreciation. I also have my private time to dress. Especially in the morning when I am on here, as I am now.
Hope you continue to have opportunities to enjoy spending time with her dressed.
XOXO
Suzanne
Suzane, it is nice, when we receive some kind of acceptance.
Lynne
The simple answer is to ask her. She may be fine with it, or prefer it to be an occasional all out type thing rather then a bit daily. Either way, you know where she is at and can adjust accordingly. We spend entirely too much time trying to figure out what our spouses are thinking, when we can just ask and find out.
Good communication and compromise are key.
First off your wife was amazing to do that for you and I know that feeling of wanting more after a nice day dressed femme. My wife has been really good with me dressing in front of her and normally doesn’t have a problem with it but at times wishes will mention it been a lot or as I do little bits daily and have meant to ask her if she’d rather I didn’t do the full in dressing around her as often. Oh well until the bomb drops I’ll wear my panties and bralettes daily.
