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Hello Girls. I was on CDH the other night responding to topics in our Forums section. All the sudden it occurred to me that I feel like a female responding to other females. It gave ma an amazing feeling of joy that I was thinking in those terms. I was wondering how many of us actually think and feel the same way. Or, does gender even pop into your mind?
For me, I don't think gender too much. I see this site as a support group where I can release my inner feelings, and share with others who have enough similar feelings that I can relate or sympathize or nod my head, or think, 'wow, that's an interesting viewpoint, I'll have to think more on this.' It when I read a response to one my posts or read a question like yours, I will often look at the portrait or go to their page and learn a little more about you/them. That is the person I'm responding to and that's the image, either photo or story, that I consider when I'm posting. If I'm dressed, I'm probably a little more feeling like you suggest, but I don't need to be to respond, only in the 'mood'. (and yes, I've almost worked up enough courage to post my picture, there are enough girls here who have done it, so I probably should also.)
Gigi OMG! Girl you are spot on!!
At least for me. I come on here to talk to woman about woman things. Wether I'm dressed or not my femme hat is always on when I'm here. To be honest I use CDH mostly when I'm not dressed it gets me through those times I can't dress but need so badly to feel femme and communicate those feelings loudly as I can type them. Im a crossdresser and I LOVE IT!
So yes I do feel like you.
Whenever I am online as my feminine self, I try to interact as if I were a woman. This means using different words, phrases, ideas, opinions, etc.
Hugs, Carole
Wow Sabrina. Thank you so much sweetheart. My heart is racing from your response. You truly made me feel so feminine just now. I love you for that....hugs and kisses Girlfriend.
I will be posting a pic or two soon as well Chloe. Thanks for your response.
Thank You Carole. I try to do all of those things.
Hi GIGI
Yes I often get caught up in things and tend to forget that not only myself, but the lovely people I'm having a conversation with are actually GM's, its not such a bad thing.
When I'm online here (or elsewhere, shopping) I think and respond like a girl, and think of those to whom I respond as girls. The conversations wouldn't make sense, otherwise.
This holds true whether I'm properly dressed or not.
My rational mind tells me I am communicating with men, but my mind tends to "drift" into the posts and messages on the site and I try to picture everyone as female.
Personally, I am feeling more feminine as time rolls by, I'm sure that my feelings are assisted by the HRT and the fact that I live 24/7 as a woman. My gender, or other people's, does not necessarily pop up into my thoughts because I am participating on the site. My gender issues have been a part of my daily thoughts since puberty!!!
I'm happy to say I try to think as a woman and that I am responding to other women.
I like that I feel that way. I am who I am, but I want to be as much a woman as I can possibly be.
Love to all,
Jessica
I don't give a lot of thought to the gender of the folks I am communicating with on CDH, I just treat everyone with the respect that any human deserves. For me that's a real life thing to. However, when chatting on CDH I do occasionally stop and think, hey, this is actually a bunch of hairy (or not) men! What a great place this is where we can all come together and open about who we are!
when I'm on chat I feel like a women but then I feel more like a women than a male all the time
I have felt both ways. I sometimes feel like . a male getting advice. Mostly I just feel comfortable with the idea the others are having the same issues and we can help each other
When in the chat room, I feel like a woman having coffee and chatting with other women around a very large table and loving the company we give each other. I don't really think about gender as I see us as just us, a lot of chatty women having a good time. It's just the image I usually have when doing it.
When responding to the forum threads, I usually don't think about that I am CD, TG, or anything else. My thinking is pretty much hard wired to feeling and thinking female and that seems to be how I read my own responses when I go back and proof read them.
PaulaF