Ways to stay fem when you can't be.

I under dress a lot that way I can still feel the satin and lace even if I cannot dress up as often, Also wear lingerie to bed

Me too Leah. That's exactly what I do. A couple years ago I was tired of the male underwear and switched to panties and I have never looked back. No male underwear in my drawer. At night it's slip into a nightgown or pajamas with a bra and forms. Every night.

I would be very surprised if the "underdress clan" on CDH dont overwhelmingly come back with this response. I underdress 24/7 and add a C Cup bra and breast forms in bed at night. (My so and I are in separate rooms).

Winter means heavy duty tights as well as most days an a cup bra for my "moobs"

Caty

Jessica,

I am always underdressed with panties, half slip, thigh highs then sometimes a full bra, perfume, usually earrings. If I wear the earrings outside I wear stud earings, even at work. My hair is long, 20". If I am home I am usually dressed and with a bra and forms, 42D. I am, not that great at makeup so that is a rarity. I really wish that I could do my makeup a lot better. I do it ok for an amateur but I need to do it a lot better.

Kathleen xxxxx💋❤💋❤

As the other have said wearing panties daily is nice. In the cooler weather it’s bra camisole and pantyhose with painted toenails. I keep my body shaven all the time. Clear polish on my finger nails . And as of late I wear a touch of mascara and eye shadow!

Underdress, as has been stated. I pluck my brows, and nearly always wear brow makeup to reinforce them. I only wear girl jeans. My ears are pierced. My toes are manicured and painted. My fingernails... well let's just say that's a running battle, but I generally keep them glossed, at whatever length I can achieve.

The look in starting to really enjoy as mine is totally androgynous rather than fully femme, as I can wear that far more often.

Bridgette

Tiffany,

For the last three years that is all I wear is womens panties, even when I go to the doctors. I have have had three or four of my doctor's thier nurse's along with maybe six female medical technicians have seen my panties and no one and I mean no one, male or female has ever said anything about me wearing panties.

Kathleen xxxxx💋❤

I can't always be full-femme, but I'm never really drab. Let my hair grow and got it permed; earrings always; brows penciled and arched; and always in panties, bra ad tights.
My "guy" clothes are ladies' tees or turtlenecks and GV jeans or ladies' pull-ups. Maybe it would be more accurate to say I can't always present as Bettylou.

Count me in as another person that also underdresses when I can't transform into Wendy.  It isn't because I don't want to, mostly because of time, or lack of it.

So most of the time when underdressed I put on a woman's one piece swimsut.

I always underdress, at the very least in panties. My new obsession is boy shorts style panties. My wife wore a pair of my panties the other night and OMG, I loved that! I'm so lucky to have a supportive spouse!

I wish I could let my hair grow out, but alas, that opportuntiy sailed many years ago!

I only have one ear pierced; maybe I should get the other one pierced too!

Underdressing for me as well. Panties 24/7 now. I haven't been in the office for awhile, but when I am, I usually add a cami and some hosiery (either hold ups or a garter belt and stockings). Just knowing I have my pretty things on underneath is enough to get me through the day.

Hugs,

Emily

Hi Erica,

When vacationing recently, my wife ran our of clean underwear so she asked if she could wear a pair of my panties. Made me feel so good that I could help out. And my panties are much more feminine and pretty so it was nice to see her in them as well.

Hugs,

Emily

Hi Jessica.  As everyone else has said if you can't overdress, at least stay underdressed!  A lace trimmed camisole and panties can go a long way.  Even better if you can get away with shaving.  Hair is such an insulator to sensation, be it the feel of a  cami on your chest,or the wind on your legs.  Letting your hair grow out is such a bonus too, hopefully you can still get away with that for a long time!!

Shopping is always good therapy too, but it might be hard to hide a new wardrobe, lol. 🙂

Stevie

Kathleen,
If you want to get a running start on your makeup skills, do as I did and get a makeover at Ulta. They can do it as a teaching experience.

Hugs,
Bettylou