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Hello Ladies, what are your short and long term goals as far as a CD. I'm also looking for any advice or tips on how to accomplish my goals. I come to find out that my plans are just one way of getting there and may not be the best plan, so I'm always looking for better ideas.
I'll start, my short term goal is to get comfortable to go shopping in person and buy Katey new items. I am working on it. I have completed two quick trips to the local store and purchased a few small items. With each trip I can feel the confidence building. So I feel that I should have no issue accomplishing my short term goal.
My long term goal would be to come out as a CD to my family and friends. This probably will not happen for a few years yet. My plan is to come out when I retire from the military. As of right now I'm still on track with that plan.
Thank you ladies for indulging me. I hope you have or you are having a GREAT DAY!! Love you all, Katey
Hi Katey my goal is to come out of the closet, and release Sarah so she can be free.
Love Sarah
Hi Sarah, your goal is similar to mine. I hope it works out for you. Hugs Katey
I in a similar state Katey, going out and getting anything for Amy is a little worrisome. I would like to build confidence in buying and browsing through feminine items in the short term. In the long term I think I would like to be comfortable going out in public as Amy, even if its just for a drive.
XO Amy
Hi Amy, I love those achievable goals. The same as me here with confidence. I just got keep going until I feel comfortable. Thank you for replying. Hugs Katey
Katey
I don’t really have any plans yet. I love the thrill of shopping. I love being Octavia. I don’t know if I can ever come out to family and friends. I do want to pass as being a woman. I am already more feminine than most females that I know. If I were to come out it probably would not be a big surprise to anyone. I just don’t know if I can do it.
Full make up for me. Doesn't matter if it's me or someone else doing it.
Sivvi
I would love to have someone do my makeup. Hugs-Katey
Hi Octavia, I'm in the same boat with you. I want to come out but I'm not in the right place now. I will come out eventually, I know it. I want to let Katey be free and I don't want to keep hiding her. Thank you for replying, Hugs-Katey
Darling, Sarah...
If only I could help I would be around in a flash! The more I have ‘come out’ the more confident I have felt and the more confident one feels... well, that breeds even more confidence!
If I can help...just say the word...
Hugs Polly
Hi Katey i have many goals to achieve, the first one is to find the courage to come out to my wife and family I've been hiding my crossdressing for so long i don't know what their reaction will be,
The next is to go out en femme and do some shopping, it would be nice to go into a big store and browse through the women's fashion floors and pick out a few items to wear,
The next one would be to go out to a venue somewhere and be with other cross-dresser's and spend a weekend or maybe a whole week being Rozalyne, these are my long term goals i just hope that someday they will come true xxxxx
Hugs Rozalyne x
My current goal is to partially come out of the shadows and find a GG who would share and enjoy my dressing with me.
Hi, that’s what I do, I put my big toe in and test the water before I jump in. You have nice goals thank you for sharing . Hugs Katey
Those are all very nice goals. I’m still I secret mode for now but emergency the tips time is right, here comes Katey full time. I think that would be nice to get away for the weekend end as my fem self. Thank you for sharing. Hugs Katey
Katey, my goal is get my SO to understand that dressing isn't just a sexual thing, it is a fun thing which I wish to share with her.
Debbie
