What happened to bring this sudden change in my life ?

Very happy for you Rachael.

Those same feelings happened to me 2 years ago and my female side has exploded exponentially. I love it!

Just go with it Rachael. A new you may blossom.

Wishing you all the best,

Diane

Thank you Diane.

It's certainly changed my world for the better. I'm just going to enjoy every day of it now - and buy more clothes.

Best wishes
Rachael.

I agree Celeste

but yes, I'm so happy to be where I am now. No going back.

Best wishes

Rachael.

Rachael, nothing like being embraced by the “pink fog” and expressing your feminine side.. and trying on new outfits.. is a bonus. Enjoy
Regards, Leonara

It's wonderful that you have found your true self and you SHOULD enjoy it but the exuberance of this new life can come with a cost. A new wardrobe can cost a pretty penny. I know from past purges and current situation how badly the budget can be hit. And care must be taken around family and friends, you don't want to lose important people.

I don't mean to be negative, I am truly excited for you and hope you grow only for the better.. Enjoy your journey and the release of your feminine self. But from experience I must caution  you.....BEWARE THE PINK FOG.

❤

Beth

Me too, Rachael!

I have more dresses than my wife.

Diane

Hello Rachael,

I don't think you need to worry about losing the special feeling that dressing brings. From what I've read, nobody here has reported such an experience. The only thing to worry about is a spending frenzy that you can't afford. In the meantime, enjoy who you are.

Megan xo

My "explosion", happened 9 months ago. I had no childhood experiences, save for one when I was 16 and my sister dressed me as her twin. But I do know, I have never been happier, or felt more "right" Bring on the fog, lol
Hugs, Regi👸💕

Hi Rachael

I have no childhood memories of trying things either, I had my first urge at 55 walked into Walmart for my first purchase, and haven't looked back or had any regrets.

Thanks Leonara

I fully intend to enjoy every minute of it.

Thank you Beth

Some of my clothes and shoes have been second hand - especially for a start when I wasn't quite sure of the sizes. The makeup has probably been the single most expensive part but I understand how it could get very costly very quickly.
No one apart from on here knows about this side of me yet - I may tell my brother and his wife first when the time is right. I also have a couple of close GG friends who I may tell - may even get some makeup tips off them too.
Thank you again for your kind advice.

Best wishes
Rachael.

Thank you Gaby

I have noticed that to some extent - dressing seems to be a more normal feeling - but just as exciting. I feel more relaxed about it and it's starting to feel natural which in turn is giving me more confidence.
Going out seemed an impossibility - but I'm actually looking forward to going out for the first time now - I've even decided what I'm wearing. Hopefully I'll feel just as relaxed about that when I've done it as I do about dressing now.

Best wishes
Rachael.

I’m glad you are happy in your own skin Rachael. As others have said dressing is different for everyone and it evolves for most of us. I was always drawn to certain items since childhood and that was enough for me for many years. But the tipping point was the first time I fully dressed(makeup, wig etc) that experience was moving and nothing can substitute the way I feel when fully dressed. That feeling has forced me to come to accept who I am and what I want to do in the future but take baby steps. I would suggest slowing down a little, as much fun as dressing can be it can run amuck if you let it. I try to keep a balance in my life as much as possible, family , work and Melanie all get my attention when appropriate.

Thanks for putting my mind at ease, Megan - I don't ever want to lose that special feeling. I'm keeping one eye on the finances too - all is good.

Thanks again for the advice
Rachael.