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do you ever think what's going to happen to my cds stuff when i die?
my stuff will probably be found by my family when i die. if i die fast it will probable go to goodwill or some thrift store. if i die slow i will probably give it to another cd. i'd like to be buried in some of my things and have my nails painted.
I talked to my wife about wendy's stuff when I die, I mentioned I'd like to be made up as wendy (closed coffin as no one else knows about wendy) as I'd like to go into the afterlife as my femme self rather than my drab self.
My wife would probably donate all my stuff to charity.
My wife, who knows that I CD, would be totally freaked out if she found out how much girl stuff that I have hidden around the house and my 2 storage lockers. I have a GG friend who runs a women's clothing consignment store. She has informally agreed to pick up my stuff, sell what's sellable in her store and donate or trash the rest.
I need to formalize that arrangement with her, sooner rather than later. After all, I'm not getting any younger.
I would like to think I would have some warning when my time is close so I could do a final purge. My family doesn’t know about my alter ego and I would like to keep it that way.
My ex-wife and the administrator of my living trust both know, with instructions to donate "those bags" without the kids knowing if something were to happen to me.
I've thought of this before...I guess my family is going to find all my stuff cause I am NOT purging again as long as I live. I thought of leaving a note explaining it all somewhere, I will probably do that as it would soften the shock of finding all my dresses and bras and lipstick and breastplates, etc. They would deserve an answer as to why I have a closet full of large fake boobs. In addition to that, I have a few friends I've come out to who would likely come forward and talk about what they knew of my dressing. Yeah, the secret would be out, I guess. I think writing a big manifesto about my feminine desires and why I crossdress and how I've wanted to be a woman my whole life would be a super freeing experience, and helpful to anyone trying to understand. Including myself.
My wife and I have discussed this. If I go first she will offer to our daughters whatever they want and the remainder to be donated. They currently borrow items from my closet fairly often. Hopefully they would want to keep something. If she goes first I'm sure my enthusiasm for dressing would dimish or even disappear and I'd hope to donate it all while still able. If not, may daughters will take care of it. -So gloomy for a Friday 😔
This has been a discussion and was told don’t ever look in the boxes just burn them I’m sure the ones that where told just in curiosity they probably look lol but least I won’t be here to have to explain
Charity shops. My wife might take some, but charity shops. I said to my son that I would leave it all to him in my will. I won't say what he said, but the last word was "off" 🙂
It is a very large collection, so bagging it up for charity is the easier option. Most of it came from charity shops, so it's win win for them. They get it back to sell again! 🙂
Cerys
Caty's "unofficial will" nominates charities who assist women who have experienced domestic violence and also another couple that look after women with little assets returning to work. That covers most of my "day wear". The rest I would imagine will go to charity shops. Cant see a lady returning to work wearing one of my ball gowns or 3 piece "Mother of The Bride" outfits. LOL
Caty