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what if you were driving around all dress in your cd clothes. and you saw a car hit a tree and someone inside was hurt. would you stop and help knowing your secret my get out or keep going like you never saw anything. i sometimes wonder what i would do. i probably would stop and help.
In good conscience, I would stop and help. I saw what this was like years ago (in drab mode) and I couldn't just leave someone there.
Yes, I would stop to help and deal with any fallout later.
I'm a qualified first aider. I have stopped to help people on a few occasions. This when Cerys was a secret. I've given police statements on more than one occasion when I actually saw the incident. The only times in ventured out was driving to my counsellor about 40 minutes away. I saw two accidents on that drive. Another time was it saw a girl get attacked outside my house by her drunk boyfriend. I ran out to help without thinking what it was wearing. The last time was when a taxi driver into my neighbours' parked car. The taxi driver was trying to drive away with bodywork against the front wheel. Again, I ran out to do him getting away. My wife phoned the police. My neighbours were away in holiday. This was the police statement. The taxi driver later got banned from driving. He was 4 times over the sink drive limit.
Who wouldn't stop and help?
Cerys
I call for suitable help and wait for help to arrive. An injured person should not be moved because it could cause a more serious injury. Only a greater threat, such as a fire, merits the risk.
The secret is much less important than any life and not stopping to help in some way would bring me permanent remorse.
If my life were to be ruined, I'm sure I'm strong enough and I would rise from the ashes.
Gisela
Highly unlikely that I would be driving while 'en femme' but I like to think that my natural instinct would be to pull over and help irrespective of my appearance.
In reality, I was travelling on the tube 'en femme' a couple of years ago and helped someone who was taken ill as well as raising the alarm when the train stopped at the next station. The fact that I was 'en femme' just became irrelevant. I doubt if anybody really noticed or even really cared.
I had to do that a few times the same, and give First Aid & Care , first one on the seen, It made big huge difference in 2 cases I know, with the persons hurt, & surviving, once in a car hitting a tree were the person fell a sleep, 2nd time in a boat fire were there still trying to pilot the boat with engine room gas out of control with both the farther & young son, on board, I though for a couple seconds, I was not sure if I got on board, I was going to get out alive .. !!!!
The farther never said thank you, Coast Guard did, the farther call the next day to ask me if I would testify in court for him, and the lost of his boat ... ??? !!!!
But both time in Street cloths !!!
Thank you Chery ,
Stephanie
Perhaps a poor choice of scenario but understand the sentiment.
Yes stop and help, if it is of course safe to do so as to practice Dr ABC - The D being 'Danger'. No good running in blindly dive in and find a power cable over the car.
Although I am a regular driver I have not had an incident dressed where aid was required but in drab is another story......
Lesser events, such as having blown tyres, helping mums with buggies on stairs, wheelchair users through doors or helping with car park ticket machines and other casual assistance, then yes I will help out as well.
Without a doubt I would stop. The worse that coukd happen to me is a little embarassment, but helping someone in distress is far more important than my vanity. While this has never happened dressed, I have helped in such situations.
While I do not drive dressed all that often, I have driven long distances dressed many times. Fortumately nobody has crashed when I have been dressed, but it would not even cross my mind not to stop because I was dressed.
Just an aside, people actually seem to be a bit friendlier when I am dressed, but I live in California, so it really is not much of an issue here. About the only time I might pause at such help were if I were in some foriegn vpcoumtry where dressing is an issue, but I doubt I would be dressed to any sigificant degree. In such a place.
I'm a trained first aider. If someone was in need of help, I would give it. I've only come across situations a couple of times when I had to put the training to use.
I would absolutely stop to help.