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What is your GO TO outfit?

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(@tiffany8)
Reputable Member     Ontario, Canada
Joined: 1 year ago

Just wondering what your go to outfit is when you come home from a long and stressful day at work or have simple had a down day?

Although I dont have any clothing yet as I have just brought Tiffany out again after purging all her belongings over 10 years ago. If it was the afternoon, I wish I could come home and slip into a sexy set of bra and panties, a set of D forms and a lovely romper. In the evening, I would want to put on a nice pair of cotton panties and a simple bra with a larger pair of forms and satin pajamas and curl up on the Chesterfield with a warm blanket and book.

 

I dont know why, but I used to wear a larger heavier set of home made forms in the evening and it just felt better.

Maybe it's just me.

So what are your go to outfits?

 

Tiffany 💜 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@tiffany8

I'm all about what my sister calls 'Scandi Chic' - long dresses, ankle boots, calf-length cardigans.

I've got a wardrobe full of midi-dresses (Sea Salt, Nobody's Child and similar brands).  And I mean a wardrobe FULL. 

I'll already be underdressed from the day (that's a 24/7 standard) so it's off with the drab, slip on a satin nightie (which I habitually wear instead of a slip) over the underwear and select a dress.

Then I pick a cardi to match, put on some mood music, mix a cocktail and that's me set for the evening 🙂

The day just melts away.

Instant stress relief.

Of course, it helps that I'm single ATM or I might have a bit of explaining to do.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Lady
(@tiffany8)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Ontario, Canada
Posts: 119

@ellyd22 

Single life is looking better and better these days. 

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(@melodeescarlet)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
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@ellyd22 

Posted by: @ellyd22

I'm single ATM

Whaaaaaaaat?! Do you live in Blindstown? Boringville? Some post-apocalyptic town of one?! How, in the name of all things holy, are you single?!

(there, I fixed it)

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(@ellyd22)
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Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@melodeescarlet 

*Looks around*. Nope ... still single.

Honestly my lovely, I don't MIND being single.

Not now, at least.

It gives me a LOT of freedom to be who I am.

I can dress (which I love). I can paint (which I love). I can write (which I love).

It would be WONDERFUL to share all of this with a gorgeous accepting woman who loves me for who I am ... but since when I'm not dressing, writing or painting I tend to spend most of my time huddled under a pile of sheets in a dark cupboard I'm not going to meet someone like that any time soon 🙂

And if I did, my freedom to do all of these things might disappear.

I spent 15 years in a foul, controlling relationship. Being serious for once, that's left me with major trust issues.

Even if by some fluke I met my ideal partner, I'd find it almost impossible to commit. They would have to be very, very special.

I AM a lovely person. I WAS a very trusting person. Sadly, in the past I've been too lovely and trusting for my own good.

I'd LOVE to have a woman in my life ... but if it doesn't happen then I'm also good at this point 🙂

@tiffany8 I've crashed your post ... I'm so sorry 🙂

Ellie x

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Lady
(@tiffany8)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Ontario, Canada
Posts: 119

@ellyd22 

No worries hun. Always room for friends 🧡 

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Lady
(@margprodue)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     Madison, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 1119

@ellyd22   Yes, you are a very lovely person, a witty writer.....and fun too.  You can crash my posts anytime.  Marg

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(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
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@tiffany8 

My go-to most days is leggings/skinny jeans and band tee/casual top.  I can wear what I want most days.  I prefer to be comfortable.

/EA

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Lady
(@jillleanne)
Joined: 2 years ago

Prominent Member     Renfrew, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 605

@tiffany8 I have about five full length summer dresses I can just toss on in seconds. They look great in flats or heels. Otherwise, it’s a cami with a short denim skirt.

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Lady
(@tiffany8)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Ontario, Canada
Posts: 119

@jillleanne 

Nice and simple 💜 

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Guest
(@Anonymous 94264)
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@tiffany8 Leggings Sports Bra and a comfy sweatshirt?? Paired with a glass of wine  😍

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Duchess
(@emilysouthern)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fayetteville, Arkansas, United States of America
Posts: 186

@chellycd  I'm with you at this time of year.  Live by myself, so leggings, demi bra, oversized sweatshirt, & ballet flats are my usual winter outfit i'm in.  However, it will be 80 later today, so maybe shorts will come out.

Emily

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Lady
(@jess92)
Joined: 4 years ago

Prominent Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 749

@tiffany8 Great topic Tiffany! I'm a lingerie lover, I wear it to bed almost every night and my go-to is definitely my white lace/chiffon/satin bridal negligee/nightgown. Feels *incredible* to slip into and my boyfriend and I have had many romantic nights with me wearing it to bed.

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(@raven188)
Prominent Member     Idaho, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

If the weather is cold, a sweater dress with fleece tights (also nice if I haven't shaved), with heeled boots.

When the weather is warm, a summery dress with a pair of flat sandals

For work, a gray pencil skirt with a blue button front collared blouse and professional heels

same brunette wig

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(@melodeescarlet)
Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hm...I don't know that I have a go-to. I have outfits that I think I look better in, or are more comfy - but still things are always situationally dependent.

I will say that bleepin' red jumpsuit is pretty near the top of the list though! lol

I do kinda also like the overall shorts...they make me feel cute, not an easy task for a [edit] not exactly huge, but not exactly tiny [/edit] ol' gal. 😆 

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(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@melodeescarlet 

You are NOT a big 'ol gal, and I will fight anyone who says otherwise.

Or at the very least, POKE them in an intimidating fashion and glare menacingly in their general direction until they get embarrassed and leave.

And your red jumpsuit? Yes ... very good call 🙂

Hugs

Ellie x

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(@melodeescarlet)
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Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
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@ellyd22 Awww, ty Ellie!

I'm sure watching you attempt to intimidate the calendar and the scale will be most amusing! 🙂

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Lady
(@tiffany8)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Ontario, Canada
Posts: 119

@melodeescarlet 

I challenge you on being the big ol gal. 

I'll bet I'm the big gal on campus around here. I'm 6'1" and weigh 450lbs with mens size 16 shoe.

Just call me Big Mama 😉 

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Lady
(@bluefin)
Joined: 3 years ago

Reputable Member     Brodhead, Wisconsin, United States of America
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@melodeescarlet You do look good in the red jumpsuit.....

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(@melodeescarlet)
Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
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Posted by: @ellyd22

I'm single ATM

Whaaaaaaaat?! Do you live in Blindstown? Boringville? Some post-apocalyptic town of one?! How, in the name of all things holy, are you single?!

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@melodeescarlet Yep, it’s confused me quite for a while too.

Ellie does however live in Norfolk, which is about as out of the way you can get in England. At the last count there were about 4 people living there….

 

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Lady
(@tiffany8)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Ontario, Canada
Posts: 119

@melodeescarlet 

I'd date you ... 😁 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
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Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@melodeescarlet 

Maybe people in Norfolk just aren't very discerning.

Plus, I spend most of my time hiding in a cupboard and hiding under a pile of sheets ... which makes it difficult to meet people.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Like Ellie I am also single, by choice that is, and my wardrobes and drawers runneth over. I cannot resist anything lovely and yesterday I added a dress and could barely shoe horn it in. I must review the stock or consider other options maybe, perhaps.....

My go to outfits are too numerous as is seasonal and weather dependent. I am always in some style of dress and cardi during the day. In the evening a nice nightie and cup of coffee is as good as life gets.

 

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

When I come back to home I frequently put on my breastplates, wig, panties, shorts and a tee or tank top. Barefoot. Maybe some fragrance. Then I relax. Sometimes I add some imitation jewelry such as earrings, bracelets, anklets or necklaces. 

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Lady
(@amysmissy)
Estimable Member     Warwick, Rhode Island, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I don't have them anymore, but I had a pair of Cacique double string bikini panties that were a sort of leopard print with pink trim and a short nightgown that was sky blue with clouds that had glow in the dark accents.  After a hot shower it was like heaven!  

Nowadays I dont know if I have a go to outfit.  I do have clothes I like to wear, but after my last major purge, I lost a lot of stuff I loved and I just can't get my groove back.

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
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(@margprodue)
Noble Member     Madison, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Oh Tiffany,  I'm sorry to add a very dull response here but the truth is that I'm the opposite and just put comfortable jeans or shorts on along with at T shirt, sneakers and a sweater at the end of the day.  I sit in my recliner and have a slice of pizza with a beer and watch the evening news.  Now, I know that some folks really are expecting to hear about something more exciting but I'm full time and just live a regular life wearing women's clothes.  I will share with you that I get up about 5AM and don't start working until around 6AM so during that hour I sew and alter my clothes.  So today at 5:30AM I was wearing my black pushup bra under my black lace bustier along with my black miniskirt that I had just taken in by 1/2 inch to try on for Keystone wearing.  Yesterday during the same time I was wearing my Hawaiian print black bikini top along with a high cut black bottom.  The snow was almost all gone here and I needed to see if I could still fit it for this year. And the day before that, was a black bodysuit try on along with a pencil skirt and alternate size 4 stretch jeans.  But then 6AM comes around and I have to get ready for work (I'm a lumberjack).  So I change again into jeans, wolverines, a flannel shirt and my daily Maidenform T shirt bra and am out the door.  Thanks for this fun topic.  Marg

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Lady
(@jennykumari)
Trusted Member     Andhra pradesh, India
Joined: 3 years ago

interesting topic.
The days I get to dress up is when my family is away / out of town. 
Being from india, Sarees are something that always had my love. But wearing them is quite a task. But since, the opportunities to dress are scarce... I put in the effort to dress up in sarees even though i had a long day. Infact, once i start putting on the bra and panties and blouse and pleating the saree...the stress of the day vanishes away. The type of saree depends on the mood. 
There are days...when it is physically tiring... i prefer to slip into a simple dress or a  comfy satin nighty.  

 

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Guest
(@Anonymous 94264)
Estimable Member
Joined: 1 year ago

I no longer work so most time is around our house . Go to outfit , denim skirt and some kind of jumper . Tights of whatever style I fancy that day. Relaxed , casual ,practical and still girly. Any other times it's lycra leggings/yoga pants and a sweat top . 

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I really don't have a go to outfit. I also don't really come home all stressed out and need to dress for some relief. I just dress when I feel like it and wear whatever I feel like wearing.

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(@charlottesometimes)
Estimable Member     Dayton, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Lately I've been on a dress kick, and my favorite dress for bopping around the house is a short sleeve midi in a "Ditzy Flower" pattern from Lands' End.  I usually wear a white longline bra and waist shaper underneath that and whatever panties are handy.  Sometime I wear some 2 inch heels but usually flats.  

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(@ladymakenzie)
Noble Member     Brighton, Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

My goto outfit really depends on what my intentions are.  However, that being said, my goto outfit for relaxing is leggings, a tee, and a sweatshirt.

MacKenzie

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