What to do when you're too big?

Isabelle,

I am also on the large size 6 inches "flaccid". I use a #4 feminine sanitary pads and that works just fine for me.

Kathleen

Try a girdle or two to flatten yourself out.  You can use a panty girdle if you don't want a big heavy one, or combine a panty girdle with a heavier girdle.

Try wearing looser skirts, like an A line, skater, or circle skirt.  A tighter pencil skirt is more likely to make you show.  With a looser skirt you can wear a petticoat underneath.  I'm not talking about a poofy square dance petticoat.  Just something with a little fluff to hold the skirt away from your body.  Another possibility is to wear a tutu-style petticoat, just to hold the skirt away from your nether regions, which also gives a nice shape to your bum.

Hi Isabelle There are so many ways that are available to you to hide your large imperfections and smooth out your body to get the look you always wanted. The easiest and least cost is take Kathleen's suggestion it works for me also. You can also go to YouTube and learn the best way to [TUCK] there are a number of trans people that have video's that can help you. I can assure you if there is a imperfection there is a device or piece of clothing that has been made and is sold. Jump aboard the perfection train there are so many passengers  will understand you issue and teach you how to correct it. Luv Stephanie

A skirt or dress with many folds or layers works best for me, when I need  to hide a "bone".  Skirt or dress length is another thing to be aware of, for me at least.  I find that I get easily aroused by a skirt or dress hem teasing my thighs at 4-6 inches above the knee as I walk or dance.  So if I plan to be in public and moving around a lot, then I'll wear a skirt or dress that is knee-length or even slightly longer.  Just my 2c worth.

Hugs all and stay safe, healthy and beautiful.

love, Linda Rose

I haven't thought of if a tu-tu style petticoat (especially one that shows off my bum.. I love bending over to pick things up and watching the reaction of heters trying to deny their longings). I will see what I can find on Amazon. Thank you love!

Yes that's my problem also. Another issue is that I get easily aroused while dressed up (and that's only in my room so the 'six' will very easily turn into nine 😞). I don't find the size of my weenis offensive or disappointing but wearing a sanitary pad in a swimsuit just doesn't sound like it would work (especially the one I want to wear that is very hip accentuating. I'll try your suggestion with leggings at the gym though! Thank you love!

Yes that's my problem also. Another issue is that I get easily aroused while dressed up (and that's only in my room so the 'six' will very easily turn into nine 😞). I don't find the size of my weenis offensive or disappointing but wearing a sanitary pad in a swimsuit just doesn't sound like it would work (especially the one I want to wear that is very hip accentuating. I'll try your suggestion with leggings at the gym though! Thank you love!

I once had the same "pointer" problem when wearing one of my silky nightgowns or a silky satin full slip under my male facade. As I am and always have been a "closeted" CD'er it only occurred for my then enjoyment. Since my "tool" is a tweezer style and size I only had your situation when excited. (FYI that little thing sired 3 wonderful, healthy and fantastic children who've given us 4 wonderful grandchildren. Proof that size is not an issue for procreation!) When I was in front of customers doing presentations while fully encased in silky satin under my male business attire I did have some anxious moments. I discovered that I could tuck it very well in a pair of nylon satin spandex high cut brief style panties and never had that situation "arise" again. A big advantage of being "micro" equipped. Following the removal of my Prostate it is not a problem anymore. Check out Glamour Boutique, on line crossdresser store, as they offer gaffs and other items to help feminize the male torso.

Good luck.

Tue., July 7, 2020  3:08 PM EDT

I love the GB web site! They have some really wonderful items for cross dressing at very reasonable prices (just bought a set of lovely hip pads) unfortunately nothing from them has worked as far tucking goes 😞. I really thought the hip pads would work and they actually do for around the house cleaning (or going to the gym 😊) but in end my SO said 'there is still quite a bulge'. I'm no John Holmes but WTF?!! So frustrated!! Just want to go to the community pool and catch some rays while looking like a girl without drawing any attention!

When I dress I use hip padded undies and tuck my manhood in to get that smooth look. I've also tried a pad and I've heard duct tape works if your desperate

Duct tape?! Hard 'No' on that one 🤣

I'm thinking thats a good problem to have , I wouldn't know since I'm borderline Micro , I barely have enough to pee out of , Hate it when it hits the seat cause its even with it  I also fathered children and have lots of G/ Kids too , My smallness is a big part of why I'm here now , Just feel I was missed being a women by a tiny bit , No pun intended.

Under the heading of:

Not a Shower, but definitely a Grower, I definitely understand the problem. However, what I’ve noticed is that as I became more settled in my identity, the erotic component largely slowed down . That’s not to say that rising to the occasion is a problem, because it isn’t, it’s just that I seem to be in better control of my emotions. It seems to be one of those things that you only notice after the fact, but not when it actually happened. Maturation? Maybe.

Anyway, I think all the usual methods have been covered, so I won’t comment on that. Anyway, I think the real message is that, given time, it is likely that things will slow down...

I rather fit both the whole shower and grower spectrum which makes this topic so frustrating for me. That said, surgery is out of the question. I've only recently discovered this side of myself (last 5 years-not since childhood like most girls here..or so it seems that way) so 'yes' even putting panty hose on before going to work still gets me quite aroused.