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- Frist thanks for crossdressers heaven. My wife came to me Saturday and said I mite as well see doctor about sex reassignment surgery. Said if I'm honest with myself I would be happier living as a woman.Now my emotions are all over the place I've not ben able to think straight or sleep since. I guess I'm going to have to see a siciakrus now. Does any body have adverse or help
@dawn04 Hi Dawn, have you talked to a therapist specializing in gender issues? That would not only be my first suggestion, but is likely also to be the suggestion of a surgeon's office. It doesn't mean you don't know what you want to do, it only means you might need some help from someone trained in helping people ask themselves the right questions.
@melodeescarlet thank you I kinda thought that was the frist thing. Kinda overwhelmed lol
Hi Dawn,
It would appear that your wife has seen something in you that needs to be addressed. Naturally your emotions will be all over the place after a lifetime of dressing as she may have exposed something you may have thought about but not been in a place to admit it.
I would consider sitting with her and finding out why she sees this as an option but also just talk with her to delve deeper before making any decision as her feelings are just as important.
Whatever the outcome you decide on do it carefully and do not rush. Yes a therapist or counselling is an option but get yourself settled first and try to straighten your mind first.
You know we are here to offer support or suggestions but as is the case you decide how to proceed as there is no one fix for all.
@ab123 thank you and yes the wife's feeling mean the world to me. You are a ever wise person 💕
