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What's happening to me?!

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(@rebeccabaxter)
    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

This evening, I was watching a TV program. It was a quiz/game show and on it there were four tv personalities, two of which were women. The women were good-looking. One in particular had a lovely face, a long neck, firm breasts, and long legs to die for. Any normal man would look at this woman with lecherous thoughts or deep longings as to what might have been in another world. Me? I was looking at her dress and wondering if I could get away with wearing something similar!

What the heck wrong with me?!

Laugh Loud

Becca

 

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(@geniv_cd)
Joined: 8 years ago

Reputable Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Posts: 260

@rebeccabaxter  Nothing at all, you were looking at her in the same way any other woman would!

Happy Woman Face

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Duchess
(@mkat3874)
Joined: 4 months ago

Reputable Member     Northeast GA , Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 220

@rebeccabaxter 

Absolutely nothing.  Doesn't everyone think that way? 😉

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Baroness Annual
(@fembecky)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 602
Duchess
(@gracepal)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 1017

@rebeccabaxter Well for starters you’re an abnormal man.😂🤣😂

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Duchess
(@jennconn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 760

@rebeccabaxter absolutely nothing Becca, I find myself doing that all the time and now watching TV shows just to study fashion and makeup.  If it’s wrong, I don’t want to be right!

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(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3857

@rebeccabaxter 

You're only half-gone Becca.  Just wait until you want to BE her!  🤣 

Liz xx

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(@dovemtn2016)
Joined: 1 year ago

Honorable Member     Tucson, Arizona, United States of America
Posts: 313

@lizk Liz, you are beyond awesome!

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1325

@lizk Unless a friendly genie comes along with three wishes, the fortyish-year gap between our relative ages may prove a bit of a problem Very Sad Face

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(@dovemtn2016)
Joined: 1 year ago

Honorable Member     Tucson, Arizona, United States of America
Posts: 313

@rebeccabaxter Absolutely nothing, Becca. You're just a man who likes women.

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Duchess
(@gracepal)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 1017

@dovemtn2016 There are many different ways to enjoy women🥰

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(@sometimessteffi)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Reston, Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 64

@rebeccabaxter 

I think the question is do you want to be her or be with her.  Or both.

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 848

@sometimessteffi  why not have it all!

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(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2192

@rebeccabaxter 

I've been like that for ages but always pretended that I hadn't noticed. Now, I'll say how much I like her dress and would love to have one of my own. My wife will say, "Don't you think you've got enough? You've got more than me!" 

Allie x

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1828

@alexina My wife said the very same thing to me.

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Lady
(@joannajoy)
Joined: 2 months ago

Reputable Member     British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 215

@rebeccabaxter Oh good … I’m not the only one on looks at a lady with respect and admires them for their grace, beauty, and how they dress. I’m often wondering how that outfit would look on me, or critiquing it in my head… like nah… that wouldnt work for me… it’s to busy or wrong colour.  Or now… hey that’s cute… I could wear that!! She looks amazing in that… wow!!

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1205

@rebeccabaxter Nothing...you're becoming just like the rest of us.  I do this and start web searches to find the outfit!

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Lady
(@cherylt)
Joined: 7 months ago

Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 485

@rebeccabaxter Nothing is wrong with you. We must have been watching the same show ... LOL.

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(@celestecd)
Joined: 4 years ago

Reputable Member     Colorado, United States of America
Posts: 210

@rebeccabaxter I remember when I had that realization for the first time.  I had a similar reaction and just smiled to myself and said,"Wow, this really is happening isnt it?"  And these days, not only will I notice those things but about 2 hours later I find myself shopping for them online!!  Enjoy, its all good.

Celeste

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Duchess
(@laylacd2024)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Active Member     Dumfriesshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 2

I remember going clothes shopping with my mum, looking at the women on the advertisments for the female underwear and thinking I'd love to wesr something like that, maybe aged 11/12 😅 possibly a pivotal point in my path. 

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(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Nothing! I do that all the time.

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Baroness Annual
(@nickicd)
Reputable Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I do that all the time! 

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(@kimberlyannvictoria)
Honorable Member     milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

don't all of us girls do that?

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(@girlyboy9020)
Joined: 1 month ago

Estimable Member     Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 94

@kimberlyannvictoria Asbolutely, I always draw inspiration from what I see other girls/women are wearing both in person and on television 📺!!

❤️ Ashlyn 

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(@sometimessteffi)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Reston, Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 64

@girlyboy9020 

I wish that the newscasts and talk shows provided where to get the outfits in the list of credits.  Many of the shows are already selling merch.  Why not clothes?  It could be a new profit center.

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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its probably not the dress, it's how well she makes the dress look. she has all the right curves and bumps in all the right places and size. plus the long legs to pull it off. she would probably look beautiful even if she wasn't wearing the dress.

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(@juliarey)
Trusted Member     East central, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

I always do that too, I think all of us do.

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Lady
(@dazzler)
Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

All too often, when I see an attractive woman, I notice what she is wearing first. 
Being fully out in the open and having a wife that understands me, this comes in handy. If we are sat having coffee and someone attractive walks past and my wife catches me looking at her, I say I'm admiring her outfit. This isn't always true 🙂

I will often try and emulate what I see people wearing. When I'm scouring the charity shops, I'll look for items from certain ensembles I've seen . It's a bit like playing bingo. I might find the top, and then have to hope the skirt comes around soon, or I'll see a jacket, and have to wait for the dress.... It can take weeks, but eventually BINGO! I have the ensemble.... I put it on and look nothing like the woman I saw wearing it weeks ago! It's all part of the fun! 🙂

Cerys

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(@sometimessteffi)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Reston, Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 64

@dazzler 

It must be nice having a wife that understands.  If my wife saw me looking intently at some woman, she would think "Be With", and I would get an elbow in the ribs.  She would never understand the "Be" part.  But, if she did, I would get more than just an elbow in the ribs.  LOL.

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Lady
(@melania)
Trusted Member     San Jose, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

I recently found myself undressing a young woman with my eyes because I wanted what she was wearing. 

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Lady
(@denises924)
Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

It is what we do Becca! Such a natural reaction☺️

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Lady
(@lanam)
Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

If there's something wrong with you then the rest of us are a mess.  I was watching a Florida bikini fashion show and found myself criticizing their shoes.  Figure that one out!

Side Eye

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(@oliviac)
Prominent Member     Sydney, New South Wales, Australia
Joined: 2 years ago

Becca I think that's a healthy sign. I do it too but it means you are still looking for new ideas and looking how to improve your look as a woman.

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Becca -

I think all of us do that - I know I do. This is my time of year- awards shows. My wife and I love watching the red carpet especially to see what the women are wearing (and sometimes the men - think Billy Porter or Johnny Weir). There are times my wife will say "I (meaning me) would look good in that". There are other times as well when watching a movie or TV show. I think it would be odd for us to not do that.

XOXO
Suzanne

 

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(@judevderl)
Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

Sounds normal to me.

I'd probably be looking at her with both thoughts in mind. Best of both worlds!

What was the quiz show, btw?

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1325

@judevderl Richard Osman's House of Games, the woman is Karen Hauer -- a pro dancer on Strictly.

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 96

@rebeccabaxter Ah yes. I know dancer that you mean. Really like House of Games especially the 'Where is Kazakhstan?' and 'Totes Emoji' rounds.

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(@jennifergirl1)
Eminent Member     Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

When I see a beautiful woman I’m checking her out the way GG’s do. I’m looking at her outfit, makeup, nails, hair wondering if I could look like that.

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

I was just last night admiring a young lady's outfit on something we were watching on TV.  But when she took her jacket off, I decided I didn't like her dress so much, as its straps would be far too thin for me.  

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1325

@finallyfiona Yes, thin straps (or any straps) are a complete no-no for me as my shoulders are far too manly, plus my upper back is the one place I can't shave and I'm not asking my wife to do that odious task!

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