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A bit of a light hearted kind of story and possible question. So for those who don’t know, my wife is accepting of my cding, doesn’t participate, takes more of a out of site out of mind kind of approach, etc. I love her to death, but she isn’t very perceptive of her surroundings, always has been. Anyway, a year two ago I bought a trench coat on eBay for like 5 dollars. I don’t really have a spot for it, so I just hung it up in our entryway coat closet along with a bunch of other coats and jackets that stay in there until they are needed. Anyway, it fits me but is a little tighter then I would like. Well the last few weeks the weather has been a little cooler particularly in the morning and evening, and she has been coming home from work with my coat on. She didn’t say anything so I assume she thinks it’s hers. The question is, do I tell her she’s wearing my coat or just let her keep wearing it. She wouldn’t care or be offended either way, it would be me more teasing her then anything if I tell her. But every time I see her wear it I have to chuckle to myself. Side note it does look good on her.😁
should be the other way around what is hers is yours HAHA. but i would say to her one day the coat looks good on you but it is mine , i hung it in the coat closet for winter, but do it slowly may be as a joke and see what expression she gives you, then from there if it is a good one then let her know it is your but she can wear it. i wear my wife's blouses and she seems OK with it, for they don;t fit her no more. i don;t hide my female clothing she knows where they are put. but still she will not let me sit in same room as her or see me even tho she has seen me getting dressed up.
Yes the, this is new should be other way around thought definitely entered my mind. I do keep most of my things out of sight, but that is more so for kids sake then hers. She knows where I keep most of it so not really a issue. This however just struck me as funny. I’m sure when I tell her she’ll just roll her eyes and tell me she’s going to continue to wear it lol.
Your wife should join, turns out she is a cross dresser too🤣
Would that be a crossing of the cross dresser who crossdresses😜
Rachel Ann, perhaps you could borrow one of her coats in return.
I am fortunate that my wife is ok sharing our clothes and enjoys girl shopping together. It can be a lot of fun.
Its all part of the elusive search for happiness perhaps.
Big smiles, Gianna
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Just the mere fact that she knows of your dressing and is still with you...let her wear it all she wants. And tell her that she looks good in it.
Hi Rachel Ann.........I would not saying anything, except, smile. I could not fathom that she hasn't said anything.......women are hawk eyed for things new, missing or out of place.
Heee Heee
Dame Veronica (My pantihose got missing of mine by how and then in my drawers.)
I've absolutely no answer .....but it's put a huge smile on my face 😁😁 Tiff
RachelAnne,
I always thought "borrowing" only worked the other way; but you may get your chance someday, so I say to let her wear it in good health!
Let her have it, you already have a big victory, you should pay that forward and that’s a very small price.
I would approach it from a quizzical point..."hi dear, you really make that coat look terrific. When and where did you get it?" Her response might be precious. Assuming she really likes it very much, you will always have that as a reference, if she ever questions your taste in clothes. I would certainly let her continue wearing it and use it as confirmation that you know what you are doing when choosing outerwear. 🙂
That’s a good one, I may have to go that route
