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Girls with only a few days left in 2024 it is probably that time when everyone starts bringing out their New Year's resolutions. I was thinking this morning what next year might bring for my female side and what things I might work towards and what progress I would like to make with my SO's acceptance of Olivia. I then thought let's simplify this. What is one thing next year I really want to do as Olivia. It didn't take me two seconds to have an answer.
Last year I when I was visiting Melbourne I attended a roller skating night put on by the Queer Sporting Alliance as my first outing meeting people as Olivia. They are a group here in Australia that organise sporting activities to help LGBTQIA people both socially and health wise. (Sadly they aren't active in Sydney) I found out about them when I saw a roller disco for Pride Month advertised. I attended the roller disco with a few friends from my roller skating fitness class. They all dressed up in rainbow coloured stuff while I went very drab. Like jeans and brown T shirt. I think I stood out a bit with my lack of flamboyance.
I have heard they will be starting to promote this year's roller disco in March. So my one thing I'm doing next year is I'm going to that roller disco as Olivia. (so looking forward to picking an outfit) It'll mean my secret will be out with my friends from my fitness class. But I figure they go to events to support the whole Pride movement and knowing them I can't see them being anything but supportive.
So that's my one big thing I want to do as Olivia next year. No matter at what stage you are on your female journey from totally in the closet to female 24/7, the one thing you would like to do is really important to you and it would be lovely if you could share it with us.
I wish all of you the very best for the New Year.
Olivia
One of my goals has always been a lingerie sleepover with some other girlies. We'll see if this is the year!
Hi Olivia,
The one thing i would love to do in 2025 is attend a venue, there are a few in the UK that i might be able to get to, the big one is Keystone but that might be to big of a deal, my last years resolution for 2024 was to have a makeover which i finally managed two weeks ago, I'll keep everyone posted if i manage to make it to a venue, it would be nice to spend some time in the company of some like minded girls,
Hugs Roz X
Having been out of work since August, my priority for 2025 is to find work. My wife works seriously hard. Long days in a very stressful job. I feel guilty, sitting on my arse all day. For various reasons, I only want part time, and nothing too physical. I'm not the person I used to be.
I need to get fitter. I nearly died a couple of years ago. Almost a year off work, and the limitations caused by my illness, meant that I deconditioned. I wasted away basically. I lost muscle mass, and got to look skinny, even though I'm still overweight. I need to get this muscle mass back. I currently look like an old man!
Other than that, on the Cerys front, I'm quite content. I have a visit booked on the 3rd January with the hairdresser to finally cut my hair shorter. It should have happened a couple of months back, but things got in the way. This is a big step as currently my hair is long enough to wear in Cerys mode, but I am able to tie it back for male mode. This won't be an option. I'll have a female haircut no matter what mode I'm in.
I'd like for my wife to allow me to have a name. This would make life so much easier at times. I'd also like for her to allow me to have nails. My hands, and my nails in particular, really give the game away. I can dress as a woman as much as I like. I can have a female hairstyle. I'm out to all, yet I can't have nails. I'm not sure why. She just doesn't like them.
I'm not going to put too much pressure on resolutions. I'm happy to see 2025. I nearly didn't see 2024!
Cerys
Hi Olivia.
A great post and it will be lovely to see what others hope to achieve in 2025.
For me, as Jenny, my one hope is to gain further support and acceptance from my lovely wife (and maybe even some “involvement” in small ways).
But the bigger ambition, if I can make it happen, would be to go for a transformation makeover at Femme Side. It’s definitely on my must do list, maybe this year it could be the time. We’ll have to see!
Good luck everyone with your femme goals in 2025! Olivia, I hope you make it to the roller disco, it sounds like a great goal, you’ll smash it I’m sure!
Jen x
My wife is supportive of Allison but a little hesitant about going out with me as Allison. But I feel as long as we go to a different town it will be alright. Fingers crossed 🤞
Allison
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There isn't any one single thing I want to do as Rayna, but I do want to accomplish ba few things. Overall, I want to improve my looks as much as possible, mostly by losing some more weight. I'm going to keep experimenting with different beauty products and try to find out which ones will give me the best results..I'm not worried it will make me look too effeminate as my male half, though. Jist enough so that I don't.make as freight train take a dirt road as Rayna.
I also want to venture out more as Rayna. Not full time, and not fully public, but from time to time at reasonably unsafe venues.
And aside from that, add to and upgrade my wardrobe and accessories.
Rayna
My one wish for the New Year would be to go out of the house dressed. A dress or skirt would be wonderful but I don't see that happening so I would settle for women's jeans or slacks with a nice top and female shoes. I already go out on occasion underdressed in panties and sometimes wear my ankle boots and knee high nylons. I guess I could add a camisole or bra to that for starters. My wife is becoming more accepting so who knows what the New Year will bring.
Happy New Year to everyone and may your wishes for the New Year come true.
XOXO
Suzanne
Spend more time out and about as Miss Staci.... Did not get much Staci time last year.... S
In the new year, I want to look into HRT. At 69 I want to know what the health issues might be. Being a cancer survivor I don't want to chance anything. It would just be nice to continue my journey.
First and foremost for me is a makeover. I've gone as far as I possibly can without professional makeup assistance. I wish there was still a MAC store near me since I love their makeup, but Ulta will probably work fine for me. I think my lack of makeup confidence is holding me back in some ways so it will be goo to do something to address the problem.
As I reached formal retirement age this year (66 in the UK); I've being doing a retrospective of 50 years of crossdressing, writing up some notes for my own benefit. It is only in the last ten years I've had time to crossdress regularly and been able to to buy clothes in my size (UK 24) and do the things I would have liked to have done 30 or 40 years ago.
I found my retrospective was a useful exercise; it helped me understand my 'history' and get a clearer idea of what I want to do in the future.
So what's next for me; well mostly just carry on as I am now. Enjoying what time I get to crossdress - wearing nice outfits, going out for walks and the occasional shopping trips.
One thing I do need to work on are outfits with jeans and trousers. So that's my wardrobe focus for next year. In terms of activities, if I had a day to myself, I would like to visit my home town en femme.
Great question! I am in the process of moving to a new area and plan to make it -- and the new year -- an opportunity to explore both my femineity and bisexuality. I am not getting any younger and have suppressed both for a long time. Family considerations and my own cautious nature will probably force me to go slower than I hope to right now but, by this time next year, I am hopeful I will have experiences and stories to share.
First let me say I know this is not a dating site and I am not looking for dates on this site.
But my goal in 2025 is to date more.
I am bisexual but prefer the company of men.
I have been on dates. Going out for dinner, movies, etc. And loved the experience.
I have no real plans, but would like to do a makeover and photo shoot, so maybe this year.
I have had makeover, and done my own pgoto shoots, but having a pro photog session would be fun.