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where did you think you'll never go or do while dressed

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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i can't say i have any of these places or things because i did a lot. for example:  i rode a motorcycle, gone to concerts, gone to the fair, movies, bar restaurants, visited a friend in the hospital, biker bar, casinos, tubed down a river, flown in a helicopter, walked the beach in a thong bikini, rode a Ferris wheel, walked the board walk in Atlantic City by myself after midnight, got pulled over by the cops, slept in a truck during covid. but my favorite was getting shot out of a ride they called the sling shot on the pier at Atlantic City. what did you do that you never thought you would do dressed?

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Duchess
(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
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@prettytoes I spent a lot of time avoiding shopping in my favorite Target store, one I worked at for 40 years. About 20 months ago I braved myself and did, reintroducing myself to former coworkers. Oh, and about 17 months ago I started going to my Church as fully female. Prior year I was going dressed androgynous, 100% women's clothes but style that could be male or female. 

To date EVERYONE has been either accepting or tolerant. 

Cassie

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(@beach-girl)
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@prettytoes Wow! I've only done about half those things. You go, girl!

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(@marleneroberts)
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Honorable Member     Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States of America
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@prettytoes  Well Rachel you have been around.  For me I guess it would be going en femme to a fantasy night at a clothing optional resort in Florida. A red bra with the straps down, C forms, a long red halter dress, panty, wig, light makeup and female shoes with a 1 1/2 " heel. Unfortunately it was very cold and the event was outside so we did not stay long and just has a couple of dances. Did not see any of our friends there. I did get a nice smile from the GG door person. Best, Marlene.

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@marleneroberts ya i for got about the clothing optional sauna we have up here that i went to with another cd. totally naked except my wig and some jewelry.

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(@gafran)
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Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
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@prettytoes 

 My favorite daytime experience was at pride day in Columbus, Ga. It was my first day in a dress and day makeup. I went to eat lunch at a Greek restaurant. I had to walk several blocks to and from the restaurant. It was exhilarating. 

 My nighttime adventure is our national fair. I love to ride the sky ride wearing a dress. Sitting lady like, of course! Being above it all and watching the people and lights below. 

 Fran 🥰 

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(@annaredhead)
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Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
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@prettytoes I keep my outings short so I don't have the dilemma of which bathroom to use.

 

 

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
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@annaredhead I don't worry. Most of the time I use the ladies, but if I pass an available disabled toilet, I might use that.

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(@erinb)
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Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
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@prettytoes wow 😮 you done some insane but wonderful adventures very lovely 🥰 only thing I ever don’t was came out to my SO and that didn’t go so well lol salute 🫡 to you ladys 

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(@lizk)
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Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
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@prettytoes 

Where I've been and what I've done is too long to list.  Living authentically changed everything.  Twenty years ago, none of it seemed remotely possible.

/LK

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(@juliarey)
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Trusted Member     East central, Wisconsin, United States of America
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@prettytoes This is pretty low key in comparison to your list of achievements, but I went to the same grocery store I usually go to in drab, but decided to make a trip while en femme.  One clerk called me "Ma'am" and the checkout lady told me I looked nice that day.  I don't think anyone realized who I was.

J

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@juliarey most likely not. no one has ever seen you dressed. why would they even think about you being dressed. my friend talked to a bartender for about an hour in drab. she only knew him dressed. she never knew who he was, until he told her.

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
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@prettytoes Pretty much everything!  Fortunately, I'm over the feelings and fear that held me back and I'll do pretty much anything now.  One of the biggest things for me was travel and I'd have to say being out in Las Vegas has been a highlight for me.  Truthfully, I just enjoy doing everyday things now as my authentic self.

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(@melodeescarlet)
Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
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Golfing, I suppose? I'd never had any desire to do so - I barely play much in guy mode - but I had a very good TG friend who was an avid golfer and when I asked if she'd ever played in girl mode she admitted she hadn't but really wanted to.

I could see she just needed someone to go with her, so I offered. I rustled up 2 more girls and we had a nice little foursome. 🙂

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@melodeescarlet ya i play pool 3 or 4 times a week. i don't think i ever played in guy mode. nobody else there is dressed. they don't have any problems with me and we all have fun. i know all their names. i had a place in mass where i use to play pool. they closed the end of 2024. i knew a lot of people there. now they all found different places to play. might never run into these guys again because i'm about 2 states away.

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@melodeescarlet I'd like to do that. They ought to offer a golf tournament at KS-- and tennis, pickleball, softball, etc.

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Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
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@beach-girl Keystone? Central PA in March is not very good golf weather. lol

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(@cherylt)
Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
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Well, years ago I would have said gone out in public. Then we joined a support group and they changed that quick. 

Once the ice was broken I never gave anything a second thought. I've broken down on the road and been towed, I've been pulled over by the police, I've gone everywhere I ever wanted including a week long vacation traveling New England with my wife. 

Now there's no concern, I just go.

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@cherylt why not. right? @

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(@cherylt)
Joined: 7 months ago

Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
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@prettytoes Exactly. We have as much right to be those places as anyone else. 

We dress better than 90% of them anyway, don't we? LOL.

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@cherylt yes. its not against the law to dress. we probably look better than most women over 50

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(@target)
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Reputable Member     MPLS, Minnesota, United States of America
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@cherylt 

Cheryl, I have done many things dressed that at one time we’re only fantasy’s but to actually spend a week on vacation with my wife crossdressed is without a doubt at the top of my list I’m very jealous. 

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(@cherylt)
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Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
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@target It was a lot of fun. It was eye opening also to me as someone who had never spent more than a day or two dressed.

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
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I never dreamed I would walk down a busy street in Las  Vegas.  I was so happy, I was oblivious  to others noticing me.  The feeling  of the dress swishing against my nylons in public was incredible.  🥰

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@missylinda i want to go there again. its been about 20 years now. i want to do the whole trip dressed. leave the house, get on the plane and check in the hotel and back. full trip dressed.

 
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Duchess
(@missylinda)
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Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
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@prettytoes GO FOR IT!!!  Have a great major lady there if you want one.

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 Lea
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(@lea-jhene)
Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Places I don't think I'd ever go dressed....

1) Church during mass (might sneak in one day when it's quiet, though I'm afraid I'll be zapped by a lightning bolt, just kidding for some of my other deeds in life).

2) Visiting my parents, might be too heart breaking for them and they are quite senior.

3) A biker bar feels just plain scary.

4) A date with my wife, she won't go.

Everything else seems fair game. Things I was scared off before, I've overcome. Things I'm worried about now, I think I'll overcome someday.

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 J J
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(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

About the only placr I won't go is to any family gathering. I just don't want to explaim myself. Otherwise I have been out and about in various levels of dressing.

Some day I will fo on a date with my wife dressed. She is fine with me dressing and would not have a problem as long as we were someplace out of town, but I just have not asked her out en femme yet.

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(@valentina16)
Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 month ago

Still very cautious, so won’t go out en femme unless it’s middle of the road wear with small forms, no jewellery, wig or makeup. Boring eh. 😔

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Gosh Rachel you have gone well outside the ballpark!

For me just going out of the house was something to dream of doing but since then there is a huge list, perhaps not being fired out of a slingshot though.

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Lady
(@dazzler)
Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

I live as Cerys about 80-90% of the time, so I do most things and go to most places as Cerys.

Lately, the only event that I didn't go to as Cerys, and I thought long and hard about this, was an old friend's funeral. I didn't want to take away from the event. As it turns out, her wife was expecting Cerys. She said to me later that she was expecting to meet the other me, and that she would have been perfectly fine with it. I have since arranged to meet her for coffee as Cerys later next week.

On Sunday, I'm meeting my son's girlfriend for the first time. My wife has met her, but I haven't. I'm under strict instruction from my wife to go as male me. My son doesn't care one way or the other.... My wife say male mode, so it will be male mode. The girl does know about the other me, and has seen photos. For the first meeting, and she's a bit nervous, it's probably right that I put Cerys away for the day. 

A couple of places where I was nervous about going as Cerys. My local tyre bay. This the the place I go to for all our tyre and tracking work. My car is a gold, three wheeled Reliant Robin 65.... It's stands out a little. They put the three tyres on that. I was in male mode. three weeks later, I took my son's car in for 4 new tyres (The sod never checks them, they were almost shiny). This time I was in Cerys mode. They recognised me. We had a chat about it. I got the usual "If it makes you happy, crack on" reply that most people give. I was nervous as hell. I almost got changed, but that would have taken ages, and my son wanted to drive back to his place an hour away, so Cerys went. All was good. I've been there twice more, once as Cerys, once in male mode.... They have a bet now as to who is going to turn up 🙂 My wife's car has a slow puncture. I have to top the tyre up every three days or so. One day next week, I'll be back there 😉

The other place I was nervous about was Screwfix (A tools and trade supplier for those across the pond) Screwfix shops are always full of tradesmen. I needed to get something. I placed the order online, and went off to collect it. The shop was busy. I went in, joined the queue, received my order and left. No worries. I go there every couple of weeks now, more often than not, as Cerys.

Cerys

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Baroness
(@ryanpaul)
Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 7 years ago

I would never go to/.

1/. My men's social group. 150 members. most of 'em are great blokes, but there's few bigots there, so..

2/. Out of my own room in the morning still in full femme sleep mode. "The Boss" knows but does not want to know".

3/.Out our from door as Caty. This is a retirement community and the gossip mill runs at a million miles an hour.

4/. Outside my storage unit even with after hours access. There's cameras everywhere.

 

Caty.

 

 

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Lady
(@carlafirst11)
Honorable Member     So. California , California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

1- I never thought I would ever be brave to go to the mall or any other shopping center.

2- Have attended mass at the Cathedral and my local parish many times for Sunday mass.

These are probably the top things that in my beginnings never cross my mind, just walking at of the house took me hours as I was so scared, wasted time.

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