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Megan left me a lovely note this evening, that got me thinking how much more we are than the label ‘transgender’ or ‘crossdresser’.
We are doctors and painters and engineers. Mothers and daughters, lovers and confidants.
We are people, some trapped in the wrong body longing to get out, others with a duality that brings them joy.
We have fears, and triumphs. We experience love and loss. We hope, we dream. We are human.
Who are you, when your identity is not confined to be transgender?
First and foremost, I am a husband and father. I'm retired from a career in information technology (data storage and data analysis) working as a government contractor (space and agriculture). I'm a leader in my local church teaching adult Sunday School, serving at times as a worship leader, and volunteering with the churches outreach to the homeless. I'm an egghead/bookworm with a love of religious history and development, philosophy (especially that of mathematics and science), cyclist, tennis player, and lover of the weird and exotic. The last one gets expressed in listening to music most people hate, watching movies that get limited viewing because they are weird, and reading fiction that blends reality with unreality (which is different from fantasy).
I am an executive with a global company, husband, father, and ex-military.
I am a golfer, avid gardner, and most importantly, a T-girl!
Hugs and kisses, Angela
I'm a husband to a wife who I love more than anything, father to 2 wonderful daughters, son, brother, friend to a close circle of friends. Former jock (college rugby), business executive that escaped the rat race and now owns a manufacturing company. Most importantly I'm me, after a life long journey to figure out what and who that is.
A husband, father with a daughter in college and a son in high school. Currently, I am a member of my local planning board and the at home parent, though that role is diminishing. Before that I was the senior photographer for one of the most well know auction houses. I have been and still am an avid rock climber, backpacker, competition rifle shooter, competition bicyclist and a fly fisherman. I am also known for my cooking, baking and skills at old house restoration.
This question is somewhat of a difficult question for me to answer for I don't really consider myself as Transgender. I dress to different degrees on a daily basis but come the weekends I'm a Drag Queen, a gay one at that. I only work part time as a waitress and hostess at a gay bar whereas I'm also a part time escort. Haven't really thought too heavily on going all the way as Transgender although I am considering HRT only for some of the benefits physically.
I am son to two amazing loving parents, who love me dearly. I love them more than I can say. Love my brother and sister. I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area. Graduated from college with a BA in Speech-Communication.
I am a retired airline flight attendant. I worked in the airline industry for over 25 years. A serious leg injury ended my airline career in 2014. So, I had to reinvent myself, by starting my own airline flight attendant consulting business. In addition, I am a Miami Marlins (baseball) fan, Oakland A's (baseball) fan, Los Angeles Kings (NHL Hockey) fan. Despite my leg injury, I maintain an active and healthy lifestyle. I do not smoke, rarely drink. Never even attempted any illegal drug. When I was able to travel, I used to visit Australia as often as possible. Usually in October/November which is the spring time in Australia. I flew into Brisbane or Cairns (Queensland). Visited The Great Barrier Reef. Plus, Australia does have professional baseball (Australian Baseball League).
I love cats (and dogs too). When I moved here to Florida, I had two cats. My male cat, Panda died in early 2013. One evening, Panda went out in the yard, but never returned. My guess is, a coyote, or some other animal attacked Panda. My female cat, Little Kitty, passed away in March, 2016. I adopted Little Kitty in 1996. So, we shared 20 wonderful years together.
So, I keep busy with my airline flight attendant consulting business. In addition, I just started another business, assisting hotels, restaurants, and retail stores, in improving their customer service, and customer satisfaction ratings.
When i dont cross-dress i am a husband and a member of the Military. Being in the military has presented allot of complication with crossdressing. Even before and still after the repeal of the dont ask dont tell its very difficult to be a cross dresser. This is not the military fault and i dont hold one bit of a grudge or bitterness towards the service. Its a complicated to allow crossdressing freely open in the military because of the vast personality need to make a successful military. This is just not a male but females in the military have these same personality traits. I am not out to make a statement and have kept my crossdressing a secret even from my wife. Now i am one year out to retiring i am not sure if i will boardcast who i am or at the very least tell my wife that i crossdress. In time as i get more distant from the military i may do that we will see.
Nikki
I am a husband to the woman that i love more than anything (but she wouldn't understand my want to dress). The father tof the brightest autistic son.
I don't get to dress much or for long when i do. I would like someone to help me look more passable, and take me somewhere that i would be acepted.
Thank you Nikki, for your service to our country! Enjoy your retirement!
I am a 40+ truck driver retraining as an electrician. I dress when I can and have discovered a piece of me that I have been repressing for ever.
I am now comfortable being an amalgamation of who I was and who I repressed. I believe I am a better person and better to be around now I am whole.
I am much better than just me now, I have a secret inner me that makes me feel good about myself again.
I am still a sissy maid 24/7. I dont have a job and am always dressed like a girl, totally all the time. I used to work in a dress store as a girl but when the owner sold the store, the new owner didnt want a sissy girl working with them, so I had to stay home and become a good sissy maid.
I am a father to four kids, just found out that I am going to be a grandfather for the first time. Recent divorcee trying to put my life back together and an IT Sales Manager for about 45 people. Only started down this road about 1 year ago and trying to figure out where it's taking me. Love this site and the support from everyone here.
I am a divorced father of two daughters, a military veteran, and have worked at a variety of jobs since I was 12 years-old. I was once in law enforcement until I lost control of my car during a pursuit and was injured and eventually medically retired much sooner than I had hoped. I am now single, date occasionally, live alone with my dog, and work in a warehouse where I go to work as Gina.
Hi. I am a father of 4 children, I live in Greece, I am divorced and in love with the woman who marked my life 25 years ago and who is temporarily now living in the US. I am a civil engineer with Masters degree and I love painting. It's only a few months that my diversity came out and I can say that I'm excited. I like ..Sasha even if she can't be shown everyday. The unknown scares me a little, but the support I get from the woman I love is great and I'm going in small steps but ahead. My life has gained new interest and I am grateful to this site. Thank you