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yesterday evening I was relaxing in shorts and a T shirt with my usual underwear and my bra filled with my homemade boobs ( stocking ends filled with rice) when friends popped in for a chat. I completely forgot about my filled bra, 38A, which show quite prominently under my T shirt and of course my shaved moisturised legs.
The friends said nothing and nor did I. I am in the process of coming out, which is lovely, but gauging when to tell people is a little difficult.
@randia Randi, I guess it was a risky ‘mistake’ but I think you have great friends who took it in their stride. I have often read that we sometimes want to get caught - it is comparatively stress free way of coming out. And if the response by our friends is nonchalance or indifference, so much the better. So congratulations, I am sure this will help build up your confidence even more and help with the process of coming out. Again, congratulations. Hugs Christine
@randia Considering that they noticed and said nothing, it is probably a good sign that they will be accepting and understanding when you do come out to them. It might wind up being one of those "we figured as much" situations.
@randia My legs are shaved the whole time and I wear shorts most of the year. Nobody has asked or commented yet, though I am sure a couple of people have noticed. It's likely that nobody noticed.
Try bright nail varnish or a skirt next time?
Don't think you will have to tell them now .
I'm sure they will have noticed even if nothing was said. And if it didn't seem like they were in any way different with you, then I think you can relax. Maybe have a skirt on next time they come round?
Sarah and Fiona thank you both for your replies, I'm not having a good day and you both made me laugh
I am not so sure they noticed. A 38A boob probably just looks like manboobs. I know my small forms do unless I am wearing a tight, solid color shirt. As for shaved legs, I have had shaved legs for well over thirty years with rarely a comment.
