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Passable? I long ago stopped thinking about the impossible.
Because I want to be a girl, things like acting lady-like and looking lady-like are very important!
As a girl, I can be dainty, graceful, girly, pretty, feminine, delicate, and many other female traits.
I love it when people address me as "ma'am," and especially enjoy having men hold doors open for me.
Yes, totally effeminate, that's me. The total freedom of being me. I am told it is called cross dressing. It has to be more than that?
Peggy that was wonderful. I work so hard at being girlish. I study women's mannerisms, the way they talk, the way they move and I try to understand what they are feeling. That last one is so important. To be able to really "feel" as a woman does is my goal. If I can get there I think everything else will fall in place.
Hugs, Liara
Hi, Pggy.
I agree, for myself, it is much more than crossdressing, I do believe I am transgender, to some degree. I know I will never be a woman, but the more I transform myself, the more right it feels.
Hugs, Regi👸💖
Peggy Sue, I know the feeling.
You know the best part, I am not confused. I just love being a girl. It makes me feel beyond good.
It only took me 74 years to find out who I am! Better late than never?
Love to all,
Diane
I think a lot of us CD's are a little bit trans if we were honest with ourselves. If I woke up tomorrow to find I was a reasonably attractive single woman, I don't think I'd be too bothered.
The thing is, barring magic, I know exactly what I'd look like if I chose to transition, and she's not a pretty sight!
Connie
xxx
Greetings Peggy Sue.
I totally agree...
Wearing the clothes is just a part of it for me.... It's how you act, carry yourself...even think, that completes the picture. I'm sure that's why the girls that go out especially, enjoy it so much...it certainly makes me feel wonderful....and whole!!!
being effeminate is dreamy for me...I love that side of me. Why is showing I'm considerate, caring compassionate and loving pretty things and gorgeous clothes and bright colours so wrong???
and it's never about passing, to me, it's about acceptance....Ok, i try to be the best i can, but that's all I can do. I think someone holding a door open for me is charming....... just please don't slam it in my face.
Grace ❤️
Crossdressing? For me it's just a facet of a so much larger experience
I think Connie is correct, we are all transgendered, to some degree at least. I know that I would much rather be a woman but i am a man. It has taken a lot of years to say that.
Hugs, Jillian
Yes it is much more than just putting on clothes. I love the effeminate side of me which has been with me forever. I am so happy to be out acting and behaving like a woman and the interactions I have with people. It is still exciting to be called by my fem name and have doors opened. I adore everything girlie and spend most of my time enjoying the experience
Passable? I know I have a big old male frame that gives me away in a glance so I try to concentrate on how I feel and act. As I've gotten older its gone from at first a sexual fetish thing evolving into a female mindset way beyond anything sexual. I think it takes some girls like me gaining maturity before we can accept ourselves as the females we are inside. It feels so wonderful and right regardless of what others see.
Yes it’s so much more than the clothes for me to Peggy Sue.
Why are you the way you are? Does it matter? You are wonderful❤️that should be enough.
Everybody is different and unique and that’s great. The main difference is that we have decided to break free from the gender societal stereotypes laid down for us to follow.
🎼I want to break freeeeee...
❤️Bianca
Agreed and agree with the other comments.
Since we are all born of parts from two people - a male and female (for most of us), it should not be a surprise that we exhibit characteristics of both. Depending on how strong each partner was may determine how much one exhibits one type of the other.
In my case, I am clearly 'my mom'. Not in every way, but in many of the ways she was...pretty (good), smart (good) but somewhat insecure - which led her to be overly controlling (not a good trait). I learned much from my Dad and love him dearly.
He knew about Dani before he passed and was fine with her. Seems he knew a long time ago that he should have been a she.
Hi Peggy,
To me I feel incomplete unless I express my femininity.
Maybe it's a chemical transition of my emotions and thoughts, I certainly know that mentally I crave to to express and explore my feminine self. More relaxed, comfortable and emotionally stable as who I identify as, as a female than the other way round.
I am happy that's all that counts, content in the knowledge that this is the real me living in the world of my femininity no longer in turmoil but I in peace with one's self at last.
Lol Amanda xx
Hey Peggy,
It is more than that! It’s being who you want to be and living your best life.
Sally
x
Peggy the clothes are just part of it.what is in the inner you makes the woman. Myself determine to make my outer self match my inner self and become a woman. In the process now just had fem facial surgery done 3 weeks ago. Also vocal and trach shave for voice to be more fem. In November this year will be going in for vaginaplasty. Then let HRT continue it thing.
Wishing the best through your journey which any way go.
Hugs
Donna
