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.....spring and summer will be a bit more of a challenge.
During the winter months (although it is not very cold here in the SF Bay Area, it is easy to dress and wear jeans, tights and such. I've been thinking however, come spring and summer it will be a bit more difficult to dress, even in hybrid mode.
Last summer I was shaving my legs, but pretty much let me calve hair go, as I would wear long shorts. A few times however my legs were completely shaved. I'm planning and hoping to wear capri length pants/jeans. I have 3 or 4 pair, but I'll need to muster up the courage to actually wear them out. I usually never wear sandals (man or woman), just never liked them but shoes will be a bit easier I believe. I'm hoping by then too I'll be able to wear some blouses out and about.
How about Gurls, any sage advice or ideas on this?
Love and hugs,
R.
I agree that the cold weather of winter does allow me to wear more without notice. In my case, wearing a sweatshirt allows me to easily mask my bra and breasts. However, I have never let that stop me in the summer. I just can't usually wear a bra in some company. As for shaving my legs, that has never been a problem. As a cyclist and swimmer since middle school, my family has seen me shave my legs on and off since I was a teenager.
MacKenzie Alexandra
Just different dilemna for different seasons i guess.
I'm not public yet but take every opportunity to be dressed in and outside the house, we have a very large yard. I love my summer clothing; dresses, skirts, bikini tops, etc. But its a tad cool for those in Canada over the winter so i go with more slacks and jeans. The cold does make underdressing constantly easier to disguise when at work, which is more difficult in warm weather.
I'm looking forward to summer with excitement and anticipation.
Not sure when I'll get the opportunity, but will be sure to take it when it arises.
I love summer dresses and swimsuits, and now that I no longer care if I pass or not - I'm happy for people to think I'm a harmless eccentric gender-bending man if it helps them deal with it.
While I cannot dress around my family, I can dress how I like in non-familysituations without fear of retribution from my SO - this is the major milestone that this site has helped me achieve.
I've never subjected members of the public to my hairy legs in a short dress - and I probably won't shave them as my SO doesn't like the scratchiness - so I will work within my boundaries to enjoy much-needed Laura time.
It is scary to think about - but I am sure I will be accepted for who I am, and hope to enjoy every second.
I will make sure to post at least one picture here, and would welcome honest feedback - I need to know if it looks really awful, as I don't want to inflict myself on people, but to bring a smile to their faces and hearts.
Ladies, I hope Santa grants you more freedoms and acceptance in the new year - I'm excited about summer, and I want you to be as well - can't wait for summer stories of CD fun in the sun!
Love
Laura
