Wives/SO's on the site are welcomed

for those of us who don't know, the Wives/Spouses/SOs have their own private group on the site.

Eleanor Holburn is the SO Managing Ambassador, but as she has been working on relief efforts for some time, I am helping with the management of the group.

Before anyone asks, I do NOT go in there unless requested for some... reason... and then only to the extent I need to be. I do not go in there "peeping".

for us CD/TGs, I like to keep that a place where the group can talk among themselves about the feelings that we cause them... many of us "changed things up" by "suddenly becoming a CD" after some extended period into the relationship/marriage, and I like to give them that freedom.

Occasionally I get a CD wanting to check out the group to see if they want to recommend it to their SOs, and to them I say no, leave them alone, let them have their space.

If y'all have an SO who wishes to join and be a part of this, please let me know when they join so I can ease them into it easily.

and, if y'all CDs/TGs are thinking that would be a good group to infiltrate, well, let's say members in good standing are no longer for trying that...

BillieJay

Managing Ambassador