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Wore panties in front of wife for first time.

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My wife recently found out about me enjoying woman's clothing. She hasn't been very happy about it but were still in the early stages of discussing it.

This morning when getting ready for work I decided I was going to wear panties to work. So after I shower I start to get ready for work. My wife was in the kitchen going about her morning. So I grabbed my solid black silky Victoria Secret bikini panties and put them on. After that I go to brush my teeth with only my panties. My wife walks in and looks down and says "You seem to be awfully comfortable wearing panties in front of me all of the sudden huh?" I didn't say anything and kept brushing my teeth. She then goes to ask "So are you planning on wearing panties all the time now? I told her " No, I just felt the urge to wear them and I actually wanted you to see me wearing them so you will understand its not that weird they are just underwear." Her response was "Okay" with a little bit of sarcasm. She went to leave the bathroom and smacked my ass and said "Get dressed before the kids see you" I got dressed went out and went about my day. She hasn't mentioned it but I'm sure she will tonight.

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(@alicent)
Honorable Member     Poole, Dorset, United Kingdom
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good for you 🙂

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(@kmsmst)
Honorable Member     South of Omaha, Nebraska, United States of America
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If I did something like that when I was still with the wife, I probably wouldn't be alive right now.

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(@toofine4me)
Honorable Member     Cincinnati, Kentucky, United States of America
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The smack might be a sign of acceptance. Or perhaps interest. Please follow up with the rest of the story.

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(@ohlivialivin)
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Exactly my thoughts Lorie.

Both parts lol

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I'm with Lorie , really keen to hear more , hopefully the smack is a positive 😊/playful one

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This is not about being caught wearing panties but about a nightie. My wife knows I dress (privately) en femme but recently she saw me going to the bathroom during the night (we have separate bedrooms). I was wearing a rather nice ivory coloured satin one and she asked “is that a new nightie?” I hoped  she might follow that up with “its very pretty/ feminine (or even sexy!) but there was no further comment. Sorry to digress, back to Sammy’s tale about her smacked bottom. Gilly.

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(@yellowpumpsgurl)
Eminent Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

I only came out to my wife last month and after the initial shock she's been very accepting, in fact yesterday before going out to one of my local area cross-dresser meetups yesterday she picked up makeup removal wipes and nail polish for me at CVS.  I've started wearing panties most days and she just washes them along with the rest of the wash -- including my skirts and gurl shorts and tops.

I think maybe the slap on the bottom *was* a sign of the possibility of some level of acceptance.  Will be interested in knowing how further talks go.  Hope you get to wear panties everyday if that's what you'd like.

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(@kyle)
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Good for you sounds like she is ok with it so far.

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(@kcqueen)
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I’ve been wearing panties everyday for a few months now.  At first my wife made a similar comment about my comfort level.  Then I started making sure she saw them every evening.  It got to a point where she would be waiting to see what today’s panties looked like (she prefers me in a thong). The other day I wore boxers for some reason and she was actually disappointed!  Gently push the envelope and see what happens.

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Well last night was interesting and a bit uncomfortable but actually wasn't as bad as I was expecting and turned out pretty dam good.

So when I got home we went about our evening. I didn't think much about my wife seeing me in panties until it was time for us to go to bed. She was in the room as I undressed and again I had my black panties on that she saw earlier in the morning.

My wife asks "Did  enjoyed wearing my panties to work today? I responded back " Actually I did but hun its just like any other day of wearing underwear. The only difference is I prefer woman's underwear. Underwear panties its all the same." She kind of  smirked and asks " How many panties do you have and where do you hide them. I told her "I don't hide them I keep them here." and pointed to a plastic tub that holds my older tee shirts I don't wear. So I went over to the them and pulled the 3 pair out that I had there. They are all the same but either black or silver. Very similar to the men underwear I wear but these are woman's panties. She then asks "So when you buy me panties and under garments do you buy yours too? You always want to buy me new panties and now it all makes sense. So now I have to ask you how many panties have you bought for you that I ended up with?" I didn't quite get what she was asking. She then goes to say " I know the Naja panties that you ordered for me weren't for me. They are all a size to big and you know I don't wear that style of panties. I also know that you have worn some of them because my panty drawer was moved around and they were on top. Can you explain that to me?" I was caught off guard she was 100% correct I had ordered the panties for me but when ordering them I sent them to my home and not my office. I tried to play if off but now I see it didn't work. I told her " Yes I ordered them for me. I'm sorry I didn't expect you to get them. I really don't know what to say other than I love the way they fit and I loved the pattern on them so I bought them. I know that's not what you want to hear but I'm coming clean." She says "Since your coming clean why don't you take the panties out of my drawer and keep them, I don't want panties that you have worn. You bought them for you there's no reason I should keep them. I have to be honest I don't really care about you wearing panties. You will not wear mine ever again is that clear? I'm not sure how I feel seeing you completely dressed up as a woman again you better not wear any of my clothes. As of now I don't want to see you dressed up but the panties I don't care as you said they are just underwear. I do not want anyone to know about this. This would cause our family a lot of embarrassment and I don't want to have to explain this to my Mom your Mom or our kids. All your secret keeping has to stop I can't be lied to or deceived because you want to act like a girl. Be a man and tell me these things. I had started to think there was someone else or you weren't interested in me and come to find out it was only about you wearing panties. We are stronger than that no more lies OK?" I told her I wouldn't lie any more and that I loved her for understanding. She then says I don't understand but I will accept it because your a great husband and father."

I was shocked at what I just heard. She is ok with the panties but not dressing up. I don't ever dress up when she is around so this won't really make a difference I don't want to dress around her so she made this easy than I expected.

After our conversation I got in the shower not long after she got in with me. We had sex in the shower after that we got out went to bed and today I wore my Naja panties!!!

All I can say is I have an amazing wife.

 

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Still wearing panties everyday. Wife hasn't said anything since last week. She did laundry this weekend and put the panties I wore last week in my regular underwear drawer. Now Im going to see if she wants to go get some together!!!

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(@toofine4me)
Honorable Member     Cincinnati, Kentucky, United States of America
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The boxers remind me of a little thing that I learned as a life coach. In my experience, we all need to feel both a pull and a push in our relationships. In other words, if one of us in a relationship receives or gives TOO much attention and affection, the other person will resist at some point. We have a tendency to pull away for a while to breathe. So, if we intentionally back off, then the other person has a feeling of space and freedom and interest and attraction to re-engage.

In other words, disappointment might be a great thing!

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