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(@delora)
Reputable Member     Torbay, Newfoundland and Labrador, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

There are two places on the internet where I hang out, CDH is one, the other is a homestead group

It is a pretty active group and mostly very nice people, however there have recently been some trans-phobic posts. In response, the owner of the group has made the background for the group a big trans flag!!!

This has generated some debate, but is certainly creating awareness.

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(@bridgettek2020)
Noble Member     Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

It's good to know there's more support out there than there used to be. There was a person at work a couple years ago who started transitioning mtf, and the company was supportive. Not everything said behind their back was acceptable, but it's getting better. In rapidly becoming "that person" at with around whom you'd better watch your mouth about intolerance of various descriptions.

Bridgette

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Hostess
(@pattygurlcd)
Noble Member     Louisville, Kentucky, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Delora,

I think our lifestyle is still not accepted greatly however it is being accepted  more every day thanks to so many brave people who have put theme selves out there to face the negative  reactions from a portion of our society.

It is making a difference every day.

Relating to people in person tears down a lot of that hate and predudice.

Unfortunately social media doesn't allow us that face to face relations and thus hate can prevail on some sites.

Thanks for sharing

Glad there are people that are courageous to stand up for us.

That is so nice

Huggs patty

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Hostess
(@pattygurlcd)
Noble Member     Louisville, Kentucky, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Delora,

I think our lifestyle is still not a accepted greatly however it is being a accepted  more every day thanks to so many brave people who have put theme selves out there to face the negative  reactions from a portion of our society.

It is making a difference every day.

Relating to people years down a lot of those prejudices and hate.

Unfortunately social media doesn't allow us that face to face relations and thus hate can prevail on some sites.

Thanks for sharing

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(@dawnwyvern)
Reputable Member     by the sea side, Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 years ago

I am an out and about member of the group here and spend a far part of my life dressed female in public.

I meet and interact with a wide range of people in all parts of my life and look at my role as one of presenting our community in a good light and educating others about our lifestyle.

I am reasonably passable and have never had any major issues, but I do not hide the fact fact that I am TG

If I come across something which I feel is degrading to any of the LGBT+ community, or to others in equality diverse groups, then I will take a stand and make my feelings known.

I am very out at work and am employed in what is considered to be a very macho environment, however have great support from my co-workers, whom you would least expect compassion and understanding of something so ‘bizarre’. I put this down to being open and honest in any discussions about gender identity, and being  slightly ‘humorous' about me being me.

So what I am trying to say is that we are all ambassadors for our ’T’ in the LGBT+ community and  have the ability to help educate others for the greater good.

hugs Dawn

(Please note - in the UK the use of ‘Transgender’ (TG)  covers all the various terms relating from CD, TV, TG, TS, GQ Transitioning, etc... )

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(@Anonymous)
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I assume our KGB.... sorry, Administrators may want to say first, so please don't anyone reply till we have permission, but (if allowable) could you let us have the address of the homestead group?  Sounds like it may be interesting......

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(@dawnwyvern)
Reputable Member     by the sea side, Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 years ago

As a member of the ‘KGB’ I would prefer you not to disclose the name of the site as their admin seems to have taken some steps to rectify the issue with the posing of the TG flag in the site header.

Colonel Dawn Wyvern, KGB, JCB, MGB, CDH,

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(@Anonymous)
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Спасибо, товарищ полковник!  Please can all ladies respect orders and not post addresses;  and please remember that not everyone remembers the KGB as being totally wrong......  Inga Robertovna Krasivaya.  (5th Guards Tank Division.)

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Lady
(@regine)
Noble Member     Simcoe County, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Lol, Colonel Dawn
Hugs, Regi👩💕

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(@Anonymous)
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Hi there, Stephanie:  no-one is trying to claim the KGB weren't far too far on the severe side - basically because they were.  But please remember that every country has it's own Security, Intelligence and Counter Intelligence services and while we may pretend that our own versions are so much better than that, virtually none of them are saints - ours certainly aren't and the US versions thereof have more than enough blood on their hands.  Shin Bet, Mossad... no comment.  I try to make NO apologies for atrocities and the like; I just don't think that the KGB were anything other than an exceptionally bad version of a horrendous occupation.  I don't think the FSB and SVR are much better than the KGB: the GRU seem to be a little more aggressive if anything.  And by the way; I have more than enough reason to believe that my wife's family provided quite a few recruits for the UB......

A long ramble; but now I'm able to be back here, it may happen again....  XOXOXO Inga.

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Lady
(@jeannie)
Honorable Member     Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I wonder if some of those who would harrass cd’s or ts’s are secretly jealous of us and would like to dress as we do and explore their fem sides we do but shove those feelings aside by going all Neanderthal on us.

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(@Anonymous)
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Oh, I don't know Jillian,

Maybe they just posted on the wrong site. They meant to go to the SSH forum - Secret Spy Heaven" - for spies who were p**d off with their need to live an undercover life and wanted to connect with like minded people.

Come to think of it I'm half tempted to tell the tale of an often missed friend, 'Moscow J', who willingly allowed himself to be honey trapped one time in Russia. His logic was "you cant trap someone who doesn't care'

Marti xxx

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