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Crazy question but will ask it. If your 100% straight when not dressed. Would you sleep with a man if you was dressed as your female side.
no, Im not 100% straight, Im a lesbian😊
I have never been attracted to the male form, whether in drab, or femme.
Hugs, Regi👸💕
That's a no for me...I have never been attracted to a man in that way. I don't see anything wrong if someone feels that way but it's not for me.
Sandy
Hi Olivia There are many crossdressers attracted to men. Our sexual preferences are totally separate than our gender Identity If you think about it society would be a lot more accepting of crossdressers if we were all attracted to men. Some of us have fantasies of being with a man when dressed but not attracted to the male form when not dressed. In my opinion these crossdressers are looking for affirmation that their thoughts are real. You do not need a man to confirm you identify with a female Keep sex and your gender Identity separate. If you are attracted to men dressed or not then just enjoy being with a man. There is a whole lot of people that find men attractive so you are in good company luv Stephanie
Not my cup of tea; my gender identity and my sexual identity are separate and independent of one another.
Bettylou
No, certainly not, 100% heterosexual , coudnt fancy a man in any circumstances whether dressed as a male or female, crosscrossing and being gay are 2 totaly different things,
Seems like I see more attractive men then women , kinda makes me wonder why
Rhonda
Olivia,
Its a very good question, one I have struggled with for some time. I think a lot of it boils down, for me, to my identity, who I tried to be versus who I am. I've crossdressed since I was a kid. I wasn't ready to accept, hey, this is a part of me. When I identify as Kate, it's not like some stranger inhabits my body. It's an aspect of me that deserves nurturing.
Sexuality, while separate, ran a parallel line with me. There are moments in my life I look back on say, that was you attracted to men. It wasn't anyone else. I now identify as bisexual. My wife knows and accepts me as I am.
I think its tempting to connect the two, but ultimately I think, labels aside, its just a matter, for me, of saying look, you can pretend for the rest of your life (goodness knows I have for decadrs) or you can let yourself just be whomever you are. It's been pretty magical for me.
Xoxo, kate
Hi Lisa,
I completely relate. Its not anything I imagined happening, but then again I was pretty heavily deluding myself for a long time lol.
Olivia,
I am the same person (mentally, emotionally, and physically) whether I am wear a dress and heels or a suit and tie. My clothes do not determine my gender or my sexual orientation. Regardless of what I may be wearing, I am attracted to women in general and my wife specifically.
MacKenzie Alexandra
YES
Probably not, but you never know. 🙂
I'm bi. Doesnt matter if I am dressed one way or the other.
Yes, because I'm bi and have always known this. That doesn't mean I chase men but I wouldn't turn down George Clooney either.
If not attracted to a straight man, would you be attracted to another cross dresser?
Hi Olivia
Personally no.
I know it’s women I am overwhelming attracted to. Whether in my male attire or full on en femme raging lesbian Bianca❤️ Getting intimate with a man leaves me cold whereas getting intimate with a women leaves me🔥
No offence, just the way I’m wired.
❤️Bianca