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Hello ladies,
I have been with a loving wonderful partner for two decades. She knows about Caty but "does not want to know".
In years gone by, with a much smaller collection of "luvly lingerie", I did not seem to care much how often they got washed.
But in recent years I have grown not only to love lovely freshly washed bras, panties and cami's, but also feel "unwashed" if I cant have the above.
Obviously I cant do my "unmentionables" when she is home. So I am forced to wait until she goes out, hit the laundry then when all of my frillies are clean, (but wet...) I hightail it to my storage unit 30mins from here where I have pegs and a collapsible drying rack. I return in a day or two to collect the dried garments.
What do other do in this situation??
Of course a sideline to this is I have the cleanest male undies on the planet. To "keep the peace" after she has washed them, I wait a day or two, and back they go through again without a stitch touching my bod!!!
LOL
I think she suspects this, but we work on "DADT" in this house
Last but least, whilst on this subject. "male me" could not give a moldy old pair of yfronts in terms of keeping it all nice and neat and tidy.
Caty's lingerie draws are a picture of neatness. everything folded ever so carefully...Another lovely example of my "feminine side"
Here I should explain again that beloved and I sleep in separate rooms.. We are both lousy sleepers so.....And she never goes much past the door of my room at any time..
Happy dressing, (If the Bug hasn't stopped you)
Caty
Hi Caty I do all my fem undergarments my self. My mother in law does all the laundry in the house. I will say she has accepted my clothing preferance. I have no problem with her doing my tops and jeans even my leggins..She did find a bra and panties on the floor in my bathroom and washed and folded them and put them in my drab underwear draw. I could not find them for weeks.. I prefer doing my own undergarmemts. There are just somethings that should remain private. Luv Stephanie
Hi Caty…………...I gladly do the laundary……..only so I can wash my girl stuff..........As for your bras...…since you sleep in separate rooms...…..maybe hang them between the window curtain and window? Might have to frost the window pane with wax paper so not to be seen from outside?? Just a thought.....hope it saves you time ….....and gas! ….....karley
Hi Caty I guess im special my wife does all of the laundry around here even Stephanies as I work 6 days aweek 12 hour days not much time to. Like I said shes getting more accepting of Stephanie all the time . I get to sleep in a sexy night gown most nights and usually get Saturday evening to get out at home and enjoy my femme side of life . love my wife beyond anything in my life we have been together 39 years married 38 of those we new it was right as lasting this long and she met Stephanie 1 rst year we we married enough about me .(HA HA ) go get laundry done hugs and kisses .Stephanie
Thanks for the responses ladies,
1/. Bobbi, I hand wash everything....... We have a dryer, but dont use it. Besides, I cant run the risk of that still whirring away if "The Boss" gets home. I have two lovely laundry bags as a gift from when I purchased some up scale lingerie. When the charity shops re open, thats where they are headed
2/ Karley/Bobbi Waxed paper on the window. We live a in a retirement village unit. My bedroom looks out to the clothes line, so waxed paper would be noticed in a heartbeat. Plus by necessity, this place aint got that many private "hidey holes" for drying things.
I'm pushing the limits with my lingerie in my dresser drawers as it is...
Caty
I do all of the laundry in our house, so it's not an issue. Bras are hand-washed and dried on the shower curtain rod; panties and socks go in a nylon bag and are washed with the regular clothes, but dried separately on the Delicate cycle.
How about the trunk of your car?
I drive a SUV station wagon. Yes it has a cargo blind,but not enough room for "hanging things".
Besides. my storage unit/lock up is quite comfy. natural light, power, carpeted and I dont mind driving down there at all. What also helps is 3/4 of my wine collection is also stored underground at the same location...
Caty
Thanks for the comment, Bobbi; I thought I was doing it right, but it's good to have it confirmed.
Hi Caty....……….darn...……..how about this...……..set a couple of bras on a hand wash dish drying rack and set it by the window? Maybe hide it from line of side with "stuff" around it? ……….karley
hi ladies, i have a similar situation like you sweetie, its really hard to wash our clothing, i undestand you very well, kisses to everybody and a lot
Have a nice time and God Bless you always all the time
I guess I'm really fortunate in some respects in that as a dedicated singleton, I dont have any problems like this. I just wash my stuff and put it on frames to dry - no issues.
I knew there wa a plus side to being single.
Take care girls
Anne-Marie.
You've let us know that your wife has knowledge of Caty but prefers it to remain DADT.
Well, since you do reside there and your laundry is going to need tending to from time to time over the next while, howsabout you pick a day and respectfully tell your lovey that you WILL be doing laundry and that if she doesn't care to know about it, please don't watch or ask. You can still dry it off site if you want to respect her? space.
Bobbi,
With the amount of Caty's washing I do there's not enough floor space in the back of my car to lay it all out. with the "Bug" around, she does not go out enough for me to even think about small "production runs". So I have to wait for things like her weekly supermarket trip to have enough time to do it all then run it down to my storage unit
Caty
Launderette for me.
My wife and daughter do most of the laundry, and the house is never empty.
I don't care what the laundry people think - and they never comment. It's only clothing!
Love Laura
