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Before learning that your SO was a CD did you ever find yourself wondering if any of the men you knew were panty wearers? If so did you wonder how they compared to yours?
Thanks Eileen, I find panties are very comfy and as supportive as my male underwear was provided you stay away from ones that have a narrow gusset ( really narrow). I too am no fan of thongs but am willing to give other styles a try. My ex was curious about the male fondness for panties and I told her that it seemed to stem from a feminine side and that for a gg like her I understand that panties were just underwear. Sometimes she would whisper to me that as we were going out that she had no panty lines as she was not wearing any.😊
I’ve never given it much thought. I think of myself as a fairly put together woman working in the beauty industry for 30+ years but have never invested 1/10th as much time thinking about underthings as cross dressers seem to. Comfort and proper fit far outweigh sexiness unless it’s not being worn under clothes. Childbirth, gravity & weight fluctuations give us more to support & smooth than breasts & hips that can be put back in the drawer after use. I wear undergarments that provide a flattering finished look. When women are speaking amongst themselves, that’s what we talk about. We notice when someone is wearing poorly fitted underthings , other than that- no thoughts
Thanks very much. My ex was what she said was a plain Jane for her undies so I get what you are saying and frankly I am not into sexy or things like that as I always thought my ex looked sexy in her plain Janes. I want comfy nice looking undies and I stick with the hips nature gave me.