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My name's grace Scarlett, I'm a crossdresser....I haven't been into this forum before...
I just wanted to say, I'm ashamed how some of the girls on cdh have treated you... it's beyond belief how self centered and me me me some people are. I have been in contact with the wonderful Zoe north and Mandy wife...who are so distraught about the way you have been treated and I totally agree.
I have probably been a bit too forward tonight on Mandy's post...if i am kicked out, fair enough, but I can't sit and read this crap.....before I go, Eleanor is not a dinosaur, she's lovely....thanks for bothering to read this, huggs, grace xx
Aaaww Grace my lovely, thank you for your post but please please, don't be upset, I'm sure you will not be kicked out (I don't see any reason for you to be) and you have nothing to apologise for in the slightest.
I wasn't around much yesterday as I had a hospital appointment but I've asked Samantha to temporarily lock my post as I dont want it dragging anyone down either, I will post on it today and speak to Samantha about whether it should remain locked or not as the last thing I want is it upsetting you or anyone else and I think the points have been made and well received xxxx
Thanks Mandy.
I totally agree....I think it's all been said now and hopefully we can settle down and do what we all do best ...give support, give advice and have fun!!!
Grace xx
Nothing to be sorry for, Grace. We are a resilient lot, the GGs in here. Mandy was completely right, the toxic masculinity displayed by certain members was shocking, initially, and laughable eventually. Seems like wearing a skirt isn't enough to rid someone from a lifetime of faulty thinking. Who could have guessed? My main concern are always the GGs and those who want the best for their relationships. Those who feel they are owed something just because there is a wedding band around their finger are not my concern. I never viewed any relationship as a way of imprisoning anyone just because a signature went on a piece of paper but always knew that with that signature I had made a commitment to not assume that I could do anything I wanted either. I think all of us sacrifice pieces of ourselves when committing to another human. The GGs here know this well. I have said it before, ask any GG here and she will tell you that crossdressing was definitely not in the list of desirable traits in a partner. Some can see some value in it but others can't. Both valid points of view. I am here to both celebrate and empathise with those who sit on either fence. Those who are here to bully or think they have a leg to stand on by some misled rightousness are to be pitied. I will give them though that they have been a source of tremendous entertainment in some ways 🙂 So don't be sorry, we can laugh it off most times!
one word...," Beautiful" x
Hi lovelies....I'm closing this....a point has been made.....
onward and upward xx
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