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She says she does not want to get on here with strangers in the SO forum although I told her only they would understand what she is feeling.
I came out pre-marriage and tried to quit many times. 27 years later it has come out in the open again and she doesn't understand why I can't just quit. I thought she was opening up to it but apparently I was wrong.
Are there any articles or books that you found helpful?
I forget which book I read that scared me more than I already was.
I don’t chat much but reading the S O forums and all of the others were so helpful to me. I was just talking about this with my spouse. I had so much mis information from conclusions I had drawn. After spending time reading here, I really did understand it all so much more. What cross dressing is & what it means but more importantly what it doesn’t mean! Being exposed to other wives and all of the cd people & their stories really calmed my fears that he was looking for something or someone that wasn’t me.
Sorry, I'm late to the party! Living with Crossdressing - defining a new normal by Savannah Haulk was extremely helpful for me AND hubby (we read it at the same time and it was good to be able to talk about things we had just read).
I keep meaning to re-read it now we are further down our journey together and more settled.
