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Hi there, wonderful GGs!
I'm curious what you all might say to my wife if I were able to convince her to join CDH. I'm pretty sure she would basically open with saying that she is totally in love with me and is trying very hard to come to grips with this part of me and really wants to be supportive but is finding the whole thing very difficult.
Any GGs input would be valuable and welcome.
Thank you very much,
Catherine
My husband encouraged me to join right after his secret was revealed. It took a little while before I digested enough info from him before I was ready for more. I’m very much a “ all cards on the table “ person so of course he shared the name & so did I. This site is where I learned more than anything. Some things scared me, some put my mind at ease.
She’ll absorb this at her own pace. Don’t rush her into it. Some SO just read & never post. Reading about it all took some of the” weird “ out of it for me.
Ohhh, so you took the time to actually read my profile and posts?! Just like a woman!
Please know that I mean that as a compliment. Women are so much more careful and observant than I - good for you.
Yes, it’s true that a big part of me would really love to become a woman, but there was that big IF. That’s not my reality, and so I play the hand I’m dealt. I love my wife as best I possibly can.
Thank you very much for your GG perspective and careful consideration.
Sincerely,
Catherine
Every GG is on her own journey. So all any of us can tell her is our own truth. Mostly though, we support new members in finding their own truth. So the answer to your question is two words really. The truth.
Every GG has different feelings towards finding out their SO is a CD. I relate to your partners feelings towards it. If you feel like her being here will assist her with understanding, give her a space to share her feelings or just hear others experiences then theres no harm in suggesting it to her. However just like how every GG has a different experience, every CD has a different experience. I had to understand that my SO does not feel exactly like the other people here who CD. Everyones experience is different. If you really want her to join then be honest about that with her but if shes not ready to, give her that time.
