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A trip to Boots (UK)

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(@randialex)
Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

I did it! I had a make up lesson in Boots in my local city by a lovely lady called Emily. I was dressed in women's jeans, padded bra and long sleeved T shirt with earrings and eye makeup. I told Emily that I wanted my face feminised, with an app and a gizmo she checked may complexion and skin then advised what she would like to do, I agreed and she did, the result was good and if I knew how to add a picture I would ( can someone advise me please) I then went to M&S to collect an on line order, if I know what I want I find this easier as they do not stock that many sizes, so some new tights and my first non wired bra. Thought I'd try non wired as I usually tape my chest and use a wired bra but the tape causes itching and my thought is that if non wired there will not be so much pressure on the tape. Anyway now home, bra and tights are a good fit and I feel comfortable in my A line denim skirt. 

I am in my 70's and have been in the closet all my life. Following the death of my wife, after a long happy marriage,  I have taken advantage of the freedom to dismantle that closet, I have changed my name form Randy to Randi, not much but I like it. Next week I see a nail beautician to try and improve my nails. 

As I sit here en fem I am willing and happy to answer the door to anyone and show my new true self. This is one trannie who is never going back in the closet!!!

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(@katiep)
Joined: 3 months ago

Reputable Member     Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 142

@randialex Amazing congratulations, I wouldn’t have the nerve to do that.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1338

@randialex If you know how to operate your computer in as much as drag and dropping, you can just go to Photos at the top of the page, click on Upload Your Photo then drag and drop your image into the page and it should sort itself out for you.

Becca

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4016

@rebeccabaxter I have been using computers since the early '80s and I still haven't figured out how to drag and drop an image. I always did it through links or file paths. 🤣

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1338

@harriette Ah, a command-line warrior. I used to do that and resisted using a mouse for longer than I should have. I also thought the internet was a passing phase and would disappear with time. I really shouldn't take up fortune-telling, I can't accurately predict what's going to happen by lunchtime, let alone in years to come Giggle .

Becca

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1730

@randialex Randi, what a wonderful experience for you honey. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss but I've read here countless times that dressing en femme can bring some level of comfort.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@randialex 

I'll be having my fourth Boots make up lesson this month, with a fifth scheduled in February.

I think I'm an addict.

Ellie x

 

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(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@randialex 

 the result was good and if I knew how to add a picture I would ( can someone advise me please) 

To upload a photo, go here:

Upload Your Best Crossdressing Photo – Crossdresser Heaven

Bear in mind that it won't appear on the site instantly. Our Media Team check every photo after it's uploaded, approving each manually, and this can take a little time. You can upload a maximum of three photos in a day ... and, as you have Duchess membership, you can keep doing that until you reach your maximum of 1000 public photos 🙂

With Duchess membership you can also have a further 1000 photos in your private gallery.

Ellie x

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Hostess
(@misssamantha)
Reputable Member     Bromley, London, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Randi

Happy New Year! 
I have to say what a start to the year and it’s only the 3rd!!

Your article is a wonderful and inspiring read. Apart from your nails, where and what are planning next? Do tell..

Like you, I visited Boots to have a makeover, albeit an express one that was organised by the girls at work. That was an amazing experience, I still say hi to the lady who looked after me and still have the card with my foundation shade. That test they do is amazing, I’ve always felt comfortable going in and asking questions and advice.

Like my mum and my nans before her, you cannot beat a bit of Marks and Sparks. To date, my best bargain has been a pair of stilettos for £6.99 in the sales, they fit like a charm. Cannot beat their hosiery and clothes too.

Keep up with writing about your adventures and experiences. Look forward to reading about them…

Sending Hugs,

Samantha x x 

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(@randialex)
Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

thanks Katie & Samantha for your comments. I shall have my nails done next week and then restyle my hair, after that I hope my next step will be to go out in public en fem, this will depend on whether I feel that I can pass in public but after walking through Salisbury city centre today with full makeup I don't think people notice, but wearing a skirt might change that. My big problem is I have size 12 feet which make feminine style shoes difficult, at present I rely on trainers which are unisex but only suit a certain type of skirt like denim. I'll keep you all in the loop.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1839

@randialex I take the same shoe size. There are plenty of good options around. For plain shoes try Long Tall Sally or Amazon. For very bright try Irregular Choice or Hot Chocolate, then Koi do a whole range, from very high heels and platforms to flats and do plain black or offer a lot of coloured options.

To avoid being too self-conscious, try a flat ballerina or Mary Jane.

Well done on going into Boots for the makeover and walking through the town centre afterwards.

Hugs,

Anna xx

 

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

How lovely Randi a huge round of applause for you. It can never be overstated that any outlet that offers makeovers or technique advice will rarely turn away a crossdresser as they are there to sell and not to judge. 

I like Boots and also M&S although there wasn't anything that took my fancy in the sales this year. 

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(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Enjoy your new life Randi!

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Lady
(@dazzler)
Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

A year or so ago, I did a similar thing in a Boots in Cardiff.  I explained that I needed help looking more feminine, and was sat in the chair. Nothing over the top. Nothing colourful. Concealer, foundation, finishing powder, mascara , a little eye shadow and lipstick. It was an amazing experience and I follow the same routine still. I was advised to use powder foundation as it would be better to cover any beard shadow. 
Anyone in the UK wanting to do the same, I cannot recommend Boots, and their No.7 products enough. They often have 3 for 2 deals on, and you nearly always get a £10 off voucher. 

Cerys

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Lady
Topic starter
(@randialex)
Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

I also booked with the No 7 team and agree with Cerys plus that the actual consultation is free

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Congratulations Randi on your makeover at Boots!

Alice

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(@ajthairms)
Reputable Member     Poole, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Congrats on you makeover at Boots.

I pop into my local Boots en femme when I have a trip down the town, usually to buy some tights.

I have size 13 feet, so difficult to find women's shoes to fit me properly. I eventually decided to use unisex styles, lots of crossover styles in the types of women's and mens shoes.

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4016

Posted by: @ajthairms

I have size 13 feet, so difficult to find women's shoes to fit me properly. I eventually decided to use unisex styles, lots of crossover styles in the types of women's and mens shoes.

What kind of unisex shoe styles do you find that work for you?

I think a few members would be interested in getting some ideas about how to broaden their choices.

 

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(@ajthairms)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Poole, Dorset, United Kingdom
Posts: 138

@harriette

For shoes I prefer to wear flats.. (already tall enough at 6ft 4in); these are in mens shoes in crossover styles. Easy to check styles with google searches for women's and mens shoes and I pick the nearest match to women shoes.

  • for general wear I have some navy slip-on deck shoes, some black tasselled loafers and some plain black lace-ups.
  • for boots I have some black ankle boots (somewhat like a Chelsea boot)
  • for summer I have some blue canvas shoes and some white trainers (pumps)
  • for round the house I have some moccasin slippers.
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Lady
(@harriette)
Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

Thanks, Alicen!

I have yet to get cloth topped / running shoes. My big toes turn up and would quickly cut holes in them, but I will probably look for some this year.

Loafers are something that I haven't looked at yet, but I have some shoes that are close to being loafers. They just aren't androgynous.

I have lots of short boots, no long boots yet. Long boots are not really androgynous anyway. And around home I am almost always barefoot.

Flats: the least flattering footwear possible, so there is no chance of me ever getting any.

I hope lots of members get to read your post.

 

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(@kimmtv)
Eminent Member     Edinburgh, East Lothian, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 month ago

Well done on crossing the threshold of an in store make up session at Boots. I’d love to have the nerve to do that. Is there a process for booking or do you just show up and ask? 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@randialex)
Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

Hi Kimberley

 

You can either just walk into Boots and hope they have someone free or make an appointment. I suggest the best way is to make an appointment with the No.7 team, do this by going to the Boots website and register. Then search "book an appointment" and go to the No.7 section and book an appointment in whatever area you want a lesson,I booked under eyes but asked for skin care to look more feminine and that was no problem.

Good luck and do give it a try it is worth it and I found being CD they treated me just fine.

Randi 

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(@kimmtv)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Edinburgh, East Lothian, United Kingdom
Posts: 14

@randialex You ladies have convinced me that I’m going to be welcomed at Boots and I’m now going to take the plunge and book an appointment for a No.7 makeover within the next couple of weeks in the Gyle shopping centre neat Edinburgh. I’m extremely nervous but have reached the age (60) where it’s now or never and at 6’4 I’m not physically convincing, but what the heck… I’m going to semi dress for my visit and can’t wait. I’ve looked up some make up bundle offers they have and will completely refresh my make up bag with up to date products when there. Thanks for all your accounts of your experiences ladies, without this I’d never cross that threshold. x

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(@dazzler)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Posts: 829

@kimmtv They really are helpful. I've been twice now as I needed to change my foundation as I was getting to look like Trump. I needed to tone it down a little. They will also try and help you keep the cost down with vouchers etc.

Cerys

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(@kimmtv)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Edinburgh, East Lothian, United Kingdom
Posts: 14

@dazzler Hi Cerys, I’m bricking it inside as I’m a long time closeted cd who has only ever come out to my hairdresser (she’s an absolute star btw). My wife knows about my dressing but takes absolutely no part in my femme activities. I’ll be taking a day off work to really relax and enjoy the experience and will book an early appointment at Boots in Edinburgh. I’ll deffo report back on how it went. x

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(@randialex)
Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

Good luck Kimberley, I'm sure you will enjoy your visit and please let us all know how it goes - Randi

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(@kimmtv)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Edinburgh, East Lothian, United Kingdom
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@randialex Thank you Randi, the very fact that you and other ladies have gone before me and have had suck wonderful experiences has egged me on to just go for it. I’m very nervous but will go and try to enjoy it as best I can. I’ll certainly feed back to you on how it all goes. x

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(@kimmtv)
Eminent Member     Edinburgh, East Lothian, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 month ago

Well I (at last) managed to pluck up the courage and attend a makeover session at the Boots No7 counter in their Edinbugh store. It's been on my mind for weeks and to say I was aprehensive would be an understatement. A half hour car trip and safely parked in the quiet car park my heart was thumping and I almost drove home. I thought it's now or never and stepped out of my car. My own hair neatly curled and wearing some concealer and lippy, ladies glasses, a lovely animal print scarf and plain blue blouse under my winter jacket and walked through the shopping mall to the Boots store. I was greeted hesitantly initially by the stylist, although I'd pre booked, but the ice was broken within a couple of seconds. I was sat in the middle of the store make up section at the make up mirror and all anxiety drifter away almost instantly. Lots of people walked past as I was made over, but there was absolutely no reaction from anyone which was brilliant and boosted my confidence greatly. The makeover started with a foundation colour match using their camera gizmo and a couple of shades were tried out on both sides of my face before choosing the nicest one. Katie the brilliant stylist (young lady in her late 20s) then removed both shades from my cheeks before giving me a full face makeover of No7 products to include primer, bronzer, our chosen foundation, translucent powder, blusher and highlighter, eye brow tidy, eye shadow & liner and mascara. I looked and felt wonderful & Katie was full of compliments too. The makeover session was due to take 20 minutes but as they were quiet (tuesday morning) Katie spent over an hour with me talking me through the varous applications and pros and cons of products on offer. The experience was something else, a magical hour and is something I sould have done long ago. Katie displayed the product she used but there was no obligation to purchase anything. Part of the purpose of the visit for me was to completely refresh my make up bag and I did buy several things. She managed to get me 2 for 1 deals on some products and overal I spent well within my budget. So there you have it, another milestone crossed for me, I'm on a high right now and will definitely do it again. Thanks to the various ladies on here and other forums for encouraging me,m I wouldn't have ventured the without you. If you're hesitating, don't!! Just go do it, you won't regret it. Blow Kiss

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(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@kimmtv 

Hi, Kimberley, I'm so glad that you had a similar experience to the rest of us, amazing isn't it?

Like you, I sat in the chair and noticed lots of people passing (the second visit, which was in the afternoon. The first visit was early morning and the store wasn't busy) a couple of people looked but didn't stare and there were no comments.

I particularly like the more subtle colours she recommended as I can wear makeup that isn't noticeable unless really close. 

Onwards and upwards now!

Allie x

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(@kimmtv)
Eminent Member     Edinburgh, East Lothian, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 month ago

It is amazing Allie, I think I'm hooked. What a difference a professional makes compared to my efforts. I'll be going back for more soon that's for sure.

Kimberley x

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