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I have never cross dressed before and am asking if anyone can help me with some advice on how to start?
Here are some questions, but please feel free to say anything, even if it's in regards to my questions.
1. How do you deal without a pussy?
2. Is it worth it to get man boobs?
3. How do I get rid of my manly face and the shape of it?
To answer all of your questions in one statement, HRT and SRS. Sounds like you have a bit more of a gender dysphoria rather than just an urge to dress which is totally fine! I know I fall into this category as do some of the other girls on here
With respect to the male bits below, learn to tuck. It should be as natural as putting your panties on in the morning. It’s super easy and actually comfortable once you’ve been doing it for a while. And if you plan on reworking your plumbing, surgery is the option. I personally don’t care to go under a surgeons knife so I’ll keep those extra parts if I make a full transition.
Man boobs? “Man boobs” are typically not very flattering (at least to me). I’d rather go on HRT and let my breast tissue develop (which I’m seriously considering) rather than gaining weight to have man boobs.
As for a masculine face, start taking care of your skin. Your face doesn’t magically change shape without plastic surgery. I was blessed with high cheekbones, naturally arched eyebrows and a fairly subdued jawline so I may not be the best for explaining this, but really take care of your skin. Shape your eyebrows, facials, I use exfoliating masks and good lotions. Facial hair is another dilemma. I used to shave, then tried waxing. Wax hurt like hell but it was so worth it. I don’t get stubble for weeks at a time and when it does come in it’s pretty light.
I can't go on HRT or do SRS and as for man boobs you don't need to gain weight. There are creams, sprays, and other ways to grow your boobs. I was thinking about buying a full female face mask made out of silicone that I could wear over my head, much like the one that was worn by Robin Williams in the movie Mrs. Doubtfire, but not that old, and a body suit as well...
Totally understand where your coming from. But those sprays and creams are typically a marketing gimmick. Just like the “ovarian glandular” pills. They’re just designed to get your money. They are far too low of a dose to do anything real for you. Please dont waste your money on things like that. Everything I read from medical professionals is that they are typically placebos and are really good at emptying your wallet lol.
Unless someone here has some incredible experience with these things??
i can understand some girls liking the female masking thing. For me, I couldn’t do anything like that. I prefer all natural (minus my makeup of course lol)
OK but even said it yourself that you were born with high cheek bones and women like eyebrows that help you look mor feminine, where as I have a much more wider face and plastic surgery isn't possible either because I am unemployed with a disability, and makeup I am allergic to and that includes facial cleaning masks, and other soaps.
Hi Jessica, if you haven't cross dressed before it may be best to start off small rather than going all in and making significant purchases or taking medicine to alter your body.
For me just start shopping for some good quality clothes in a look that you quite fancy and go from there. In my experience ive started wearing women's clothes just for the thrill of it, when I started to take it more seriously I started exploring nice shoes, a decent wig, breastformers etc and just shaving the right bits and wearing make up to make yourself presentable as a female.
Like Skylar says, if you just jump straight in you might find you end up paying alot of money for gimmicks that you don't necessarily need. Just get dressed and have fun with it and see where it naturally leads.
Mandy x
Hi Jessica,
If that mask is your thing go for it. The main thing is that you find what makes you enjoy you the most.
Hardest part is figuring out how you want to look. That can be any way you imagine. Starting simple help you save time, money, energy and make for better enjoyment. All IMO.
Last I think we all have girls traits, before now I hated hearing I have nice eye lashes or nice nails. Now I've hear about my nails.
Jessica,
I wear a full face mask and I enjoy it very much. In guy mode, I have a full beard which I do not want to shave off, so a full face mask works for me.
I've been out and about in it and pass okay with it. I'm at the upper end, size wise, so the eye holes sometimes show up but I wear glasses and have amber clip on sunglasses which help to hide the eye holes.
Message me if you want specifics of brand and price. The mask was expensive, but I do enjoy the ability to put it on quickly and become Leah any time I want.
Leah
@ Leah, I'm so glad you posted. I love all of our sisters for this reason. Someone to have your digital back.
Hugs
Sera