First visit to a makeup counter?

Depends on how nervous you are? I have been going out a long time. Each time you go out it gets easier. Believe me they will help you. They want to sell their product. Personally I like Estee Lauder.  MAC is good, but I think is overpriced. I went to a Mary Kay girl years ago at her house and was happy. The key word is enjoyment.  Try to relax and enjoy.

Huggs Terri

Thanks for the reply Terri, I have been thinking about this a lot & I finally read a post in the forums titled "A journey of a thousand miles" in it Georgie writes about her trip to a makeup counter, dressed as her male self, the person working was so helpful that I have decided I can do this, since tomorrow is a holiday I have put it on my calendar for Tuesday, a trip to the mall & either Macy's or Ulta. I can do this!

Thanks again,

BillieJo

I've been wondering the same things. I think I might plan my 1st makeup counter trip this week. I plan to go in dressed in drab male attire but with Halloween fast approaching I will have a good excuse I think.

It gives me the good butterflies in the stomach just thinking about it. I have been many times in drab pretending to be buying as gifts and purchased that way. However  a couple of times the assistant came and I've been looking at lipsticks and foundation, she said is this for you or as a gift? I always thought what will I do? It's always out there and bound to happen and secretly I wanted it to happen I was just unsure how I would answer. First time was the lipstick I responded to the girl politely and playfully "do I look like I wear lipstick?" She responded no but you do have nice lips for it... maybe? Second time was at MAC for foundation and I really wanted good coverage and the right shade and when asked nervously responded it's for me and the assistant didn't think twice and was fantastic about it. I haven't been outside as Glory but admire those who possess the courage and those who educate and not descriminate. Let us know how you go or went.

I feel like a trip to a sephora in drag is something I could manage, my biggest fear going out is someone I know seeing me and recognizing me.

Going out in public enfemme is a big step.  Go to a place not too close to where you live. I remember being so nervous the first few times,  but each time it got easier.  The people behind the counter want your business. There is no need to be afraid of them. Even after all the years I have been going out in still get excited each time I go out.

Yours Terri

I had the same dilemma, I wanted makeup and advice for my coloring; wasn't sure what would make me less uncomfortable drab or en femme sans the makeup...coincidence came up when I had to go to the cable tv retail center (in drab); noticed a Sally Beauty store conveniently next door; since I was there anyway I went in and when the saleswoman asked if I needed help I simply responded with the truth - I'm gender curious, I want to try makeup and wanted advice.  She was wonderful - smiled politely and proceeded to show me what colors looked best, and even though I was drab, she made me feel like any other girl.  I've had similar experiences trying on clothes with woman sales clerks - they are usually very professional, friendly and understanding!

If you go in drab the counter person will probably apply some foundation to your face to see what shade is the best shade for you. My first time I went enfemme and just wore light makeup.  It is really of how comfortable you feel. Try to relax and don't worry about what other's think. I know I'm making it sound easy but just try to relax and enjoy the experience.

Good question. When in doubt go as the "person" you feel most comfortable as. I haven't been out completely yet.  Everything I have bought thus far has been as my manly self and I overcame that embarrassment and shy feeling  early on. I roll right up in Victoria's secret and head straight where I need to be, tape measure on my pocket and all. Point is this. When you are out buying things and getting advice on something as important as makeup. You should be able to get what you need without all that worry clouding your mind. Buying something that doesn't fit, not getting all that you needed or not retaining the tips from the makeup counter. Because you were so nervous. That's tough.   Take your wig with you and put on at the counter? I tell my self; I see a lot weirder shit on TV everyday than a guy trying on high heels at Ross or a guy with a wig on at the makeup counter. I'm only 35 and everyone I deal with is younger. I go to forever 21 and show the young sales person what i want on my phone. "I need a romper like this in my size." They give it about half a thought and show me where to go. And then right back to wishing the didn't work at forever 21.  Pull out that phone and show them what looks you are going for. Being confident and precise will get you through anything.  Coming from someone who hasn't gone out yet. This is just how I have tackled buying fem things as my everyday self. Hopefully this same advice will help me as I take steps out the door.

Sam

First time was when I was 14 or 15 years old,it was set up by my mom setting up an appointment.I was a little nervous at first and this make up artist taught me well.Told me the tips and said take my time on this.I was dressed as Hannah  at the time when it happened.I remember my mom was amazed how I learned quickly and this was even at home.Mom saw I am a quick learner and everything soaked in.After this I have always done my own make up ever to this day.I still see a make up artist for the newest tips to this day

I buy makeup en femme but mostly in drab, just cos i'm in the shop for a pint of milk or phone adaptor. I found makeup rather bewildering until I downloaded a makeup your photo app for my iPad, and then supplemented this with watching a bunch of makeup videos on YouTube. Now I'm good to buy the makeup I need without an assistant.

Oh do I wish I had the strength of you ladies. I can't even shave my beard for fear of someone finding out at work. I would love to learn about make up. Someday, everything comes in time.