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Greetings sisters . . . . . I am a new member, here, but have acclimated myself to my 'new home' and family. My daughter and her husband [a French doctor] are visiting with me, from their home in France; she is five months pregnant, and will bear my first grandchild just before Christmas! Their happiness, readily demonstrated daily, is so obvious that I'm almost jealous; during the course of my two unsuccessful marriages, I don't ever recall being as undeniably happy as they are. Which got me to thinking: "What would my life have been like, if I'd been born a woman?" What I do know is that I would've gladly accepted the role of wife, to a wonderful man, and happily bore his children; I can think of no other way, in which God's love is better represented, than for a woman to undergo the pain of childbirth! And to have that fragile, little human being eagely nurse at her breast, to obtain the nourishment necessary to grow and develop . . . . . ah, to experience that amazing feeling of bonding, between mother and child--that, my friends is the quintessential embodiment of love itself. All of the 'fashion makeup' in the world cannot match the beauty of a mother's face, as she cuddles her newborn baby; we, as men, are excluded from this life experience--which may account, to some degree, for our desire to dress ourselves, and strain to become a woman. I only wish I could be there in France, come December, to witness my daughter's elevation to the wondrous role of a mother; she is sure to become the loving parent and caregiver, that her own mother never was--to her. Love to all, Tamera
That's is question that could not be answered, but I would believe my life would be hell of a lot better born a woman, would not have to hide dressing up as a female. Being born as a woman would make my life better for myself, buying all types of sexy dresses, perfume, make, jewelry, all the things to make me look pretty. Just thinking about it is a dream come true. Having a man treat you well and have a child. Being a mom. But could you I angina being a woman in a mans body , I feel like I am a woman in a mans body that wants to come out for who I should be and that a female, I have to dress up when no kids are home, wife knows but it's not a thing where I can share my fem side with. Fir dressing up as a woman is like its a normal thing for me to do when I get out of bed. Put on lacy panties, pad, nylons, lacy bra and a dress, then make up and perfume , but I seem that I can't fir I am make and kids are still home. There is the question WHAT IF. But we all have dreams that can nit come true. I have a can I call it a dare , who would jump into a small pool filled with Charlie or design perfume? I would do it for free just to smell pretty and have that perfume smell.
Excellent thought Tamera, an idea that has gone through my mind many times. On the selfish side it would have taken away the years of struggle and torment I went through just trying to figure out who I am. On the realistic side it definitely would have been different and not all to the good. Look at the struggle women have and still are going through in the workplace for equality and menstruation doesn't look like a real party to me. My wife went through a lot, I watched as our 4 children were born and her having a hysterectomy a few years after, not a good time. Yes it would be great to have my body match my brain but as the old saying goes, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Don't get me wrong, if I could back up the hands of time, I would choose to be a woman in a second, but it's not all pretty dresses and perfume.
Thanks for a great topic, Heather.
Tamara.....if at all possible.....go be with your daughter and grandchild. I am sure they could put you up and airfare is cheaper to London and chunnel to Paris and Eurorail passes are cheap enough. Congratulations Tamara.
Lady Veronica
I have been in a lot of dangerous situations in the past. If I have been a woman, I know I would have gotten more injured than I had in those moments. Then again, if I had been a woman, I wouldn't have put myself in those situations.
I have learned that it is better not to worry about "what if". All your experiences, good and bad, have led you to this moment. It's what you do with the present that matters. Personally, I am glad to be where I am. A guy who finally accepted that he likes to dress like a woman and wants to learn everything he can to bring out his feminine side.
It would of been wonderful been born as a women because as a kid I played with barie dolls dressing them up in cute outfits,played with other girls with skipping ropes when i was 7 i liked boys,and started wear my mom's clothes,at 14 I started shaving my body,later on in life I won't to make the full transition as a women but it was because of health problems I could not I was depressed for a while but I got through it and I ok with it
