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Hiding the equipment

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(@mallorybp)
Estimable Member     Alaska, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Seems like the most appropriate place to ask this…

So I have bought some very nice Gaffs, (so far we’re good)

Figured out how to tuck the testicles (on the right track!)

but here’s the challenge. The general “pull it back” instruction for the penis seems to be good for “show-ears” but what if you are like me a “grower?”

My particular part of the anatomy shrinks up such that Any real movement means that he escapes the tuck back and finds his way back into his usual spot.

I’m researching taping as an option. Do any of you have better suggestions??

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(@michellecaton)
Trusted Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I'm all ears... Or something.

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Duchess
(@mollyg)
Reputable Member     Alberta, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Oh, yes... This is one topic that I have been watching, for years. I've come to the conclusion that there's no one right way.

Well first of all... if you are a grower, then you have some advantages.. Tape wise I'd recommend you try unclockable product at least once (or more correctly twice as you'll learn alot with the first attempt)

I've found that once the bits are pushed up, then the spare skin can be pulled a little and folded around the ....twig? .... and then a tight thong is usually enough to hold it and the small extra space may possible by the retraction of the bits is usually enough to hold it without its end being caught between the bone and any seat (which is quickly painful). Looser panties do give it a chance to escape, but not tighter ones. This is not possible if you are a show-er apparently. (The local girls have discussed it a time or two)

Both experiences are different but satisfying in their own way. If I was ever to do a paid photo shoot I can assure you I'd be using the tape, but getting used to holding things in place as you adhere the tape is definitely a learning experience.

-Molly

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Lady
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(@mallorybp)
Estimable Member     Alaska, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Molly, Thank you for the answer.

It’s something to try anyway. I have so far been able to get things in place, and I’m fine… If I just stand. Sitting, bending etc… and the twig shows the mind of his own… Honestly, I really compact up.. so It’s not hard for him to find a way to move.

 

I have a different brand of Undies coming today, so I am hoping that maybe this will hold everything in place better.

 

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Lady
(@michell)
Active Member     Oklahoma, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I have been tuckin those suckers for the past 10 yrs. I wear small full granny panties, so they fit tighter and then I pull em back between the checks, pull my panties up and tada. in the beginning I would wear panty girdle to hold them in place, was a bit uncomfortable at first but now its second nature. I can wear bikini or full or whatever and they stay put.

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Lady
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(@mallorybp)
Estimable Member     Alaska, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Stephanie,

there’s two generalizations when it comes to the male... appendage.

1. show-er: essentially shows the final length when in the non erect state. It pretty much just firms up.

2. grow-er: There is a substantial difference between erect and non erect.

in some cases, the non erect version can really go compact and that means that the standard tuck isn’t going to necessarily stay in place.

hope that answers the question. I’m off to look for the resources you mentioned ! Thank you

 

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(@paulaf)
Noble Member     Pampa, Tx, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Way back in my teens when I was getting the hang of hiding things, it was not easy to figure out (I think dinosaurs were still around, so no internet).  Trial and error and lots of ingenuity and even a little pain, I finally got it, also learned that tape friggin' hurts.

Tight  bikini panties and/or panty girdles held everything in place quite securely, and learning to sit down like a lady kept it all pretty comfy.  After many years, 'things' just sort of stay in place once I get it all where it needs to be and I no longer need to wear undies as tight as I used to.  Also, for added comfort, I have found that a feminine pad is very useful to keep everything flat and presentable.

PaulaF

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Lady
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(@mallorybp)
Estimable Member     Alaska, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Michelle,

I’m in the boat that on a normal day with everything relaxed, it’s not going to be between any cheeks. We aren’t even going to be getting far enough to round the corner and even try to point behind me.

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(@danielle1982)
Estimable Member     Rochester, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I'm no expert... My one experience going out en femme I wore a Maidenform body shaper with athletic leggings. So, multiple layers of tight clothing. I was able to tuck myself in the body shaper and make a camel toe illusion with my balls, and things held in place just fine.

I don't have a gaff yet.

Taping just sounds horrible and cruel. No way Jose.

Xoxo, Dani

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Lady
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(@mallorybp)
Estimable Member     Alaska, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Lisa,

Please don’t let it bother you. This has no bearing on size of everything once it’s in action mode.

I think of it as a way that nature kept the equipment safe on my caveman ancestors. With less out in the open, there was less in harms way when they hunted with rocks and sharpened sticks.

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(@Anonymous)
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There was a time that I was perplexed as to why a CD would be wearing a feminine pad, we don't have periods. Then about a year or so ago I read a post here on CDH as to why. Why wear a pad because it keeps your male parts flat and there is no protruding male bulge. Problem solved.

I don’t wear a pad everyday but I do wear them and I find that a Poise #4 works great for me.

Kathleen xxxxx💋❤

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Duchess
(@btwimrobin)
Reputable Member     In the middle of nowhere. On the corner of Podunk and Bumble., Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

I am far from an expert when it comes to tucking.   I have found slipping the meatballs into their cocoons then pulling the spaghetti as far back as it will go.  Slide on nice pair of snug fitting control panties with a pad and you are good to go.  If you need a little more support try cutting the legs off a pair of control top pantyhose and slip that over your panties.   Once you get everything all tucked away, pray you don't have to pee.

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(@lovelylola)
Honorable Member     Norman, Oklahoma, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

As a "grower" myself...thanks for that by the way, didn't know there was a term for my teenie weenie...really tight gaff panties has been good enough.   And yeah, I think he'd slip right out of any appendage restraint device anyway. 🤣 Tape, ummm, no.  Not me anyway.  But if you try it please let us know how that works for you!

💖Lola

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(@Anonymous)
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If you are going to use Gorilla tape, may I suggest a Gorilla gag and Gorilla eye wipes. You will need both when you remove the Gorilla tape!!!!

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Duchess
(@mollyg)
Reputable Member     Alberta, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Love the euphemisms, definitely going to remember them as descriptions... Just thinking limp noodle used to be such an insult.

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