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I can't wait until I get home and can take this bra off

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(@sometimessteffi)
Trusted Member     Reston, Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I sleep alone.  My wife sleeps in the other bedroom.  Since I have some freedom, sometimes a sleep in a bra with forms.  That's what I did last night.  After she retired to her bedroom, I put on one of my favorite bras, with a racerback sports bra over it.  The I inserted one of my larger pair of forms.  I would guess that they're a 38DD.  Just as I was crawling into bed, my wife came back in my room to talk about something.  I was afraid she would see that I was wearing form, but with the bedroom lights out, she managed to miss it.

This morning she woke me up and told me that I needed to take her to the doctor's.  Fortunately, I had the covers up to my neck when she came in, and I dodged a bullet again.  I surreptitiously pulled my forms out.  But, I didn't have the opportunity to take either of my bras off.  She was practically standing right next to me.  I quickly put on a clean t-shirt over my bras and then a sweatshirt over that.  By lunchtime, I really wanted to take my bras off, but I didn't have any alone time until bedtime.  I decided to leave the bras on, and put the forms back in and sleep with them again.  But, I really need to take the bras off tomorrow morning.

Here's me commiserating with GGs.

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Managing Ambassador
(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3843

@sometimessteffi 

Yikes!  You're doing this and she doesn't know?  Or does she?  

Yes, bras can become uncomfortable after a while.

/LK

 

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(@sometimessteffi)
Joined: 2 years ago

Trusted Member     Reston, Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 49

@lizk 

You've got to be creative if you want to partake of the forbidden fruit.

Does your wife/SO know when you underdress?  My wife doesn't.  I have a huge pile of panties waiting to be washed, once I have a couple hours of alone time.

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Managing Ambassador
(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3843

@sometimessteffi 

I'm trans and single.  There is no 'forbidden fruit'.  Yes, I'm fortunate.

My SO did know when we were together.  I came out to her when my egg cracked ten years ago.  She was accepting and we had an arrangement that worked until it didn't.  We're best friends now.

/LK

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Duchess Annual
(@emmat)
Joined: 9 months ago

Prominent Member     I don't do cities ;-), Powys, United Kingdom
Posts: 324

@sometimessteffi 

I'm always trying to look at life as "both sides now", and often smile at some of the bra and breast comments.

Why?

Because my wife, by the time of life I met her, had rather large but more signicantly rather pendulous breasts. She could only wear heavy duty bras - no chance of flimsy, lacy concoctions.

At the end of the day, in the sanctuary of our living room, she would unceremoniously strip off her top and rip off her bra, to sounds of great relief. What had been an asset in her youth had become a pain in the a**e.

Be careful what you wish for girls ...

Just sayin'

Emma x

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3998

@emmat Bras can induce their own pains.

One bra has plastic stiffners under my armpits. They both quickly poked through the band material. Yeouch!

Even the weight of the silicone forms can induce costoclavicular syndrome, also known as bra strap syndrome. This can make my shoulder numb all the way up my neck and across my jawbone, which can be really annoying for hours after the bra comes off.

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Lady
(@candycross)
Joined: 9 months ago

Honorable Member     Queensland, Australia
Posts: 312

@sometimessteffi my wife knows what l have and what l wear as she was with me when it was purchased and she paid for all the things l have to crossdress.  I don't hide anything from her as my marriage is totally honest, l wouldn't do what l did if l couldn't be honest so l guess l am so very fortunate that my wife has such an open mind

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(@sometimessteffi)
Joined: 2 years ago

Trusted Member     Reston, Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 49

@candycross 

I'd like to be open with my wife, but, if I was, I wouldn't be a crossdresser.  You gots to do what you gots to do!

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(@valentina16)
Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Maybe it’s just part of our journey. Initially a stolen apple, secretly tried on, elevated to some supposed sensual authenticity with stuffing and then maybe proper forms. But then, pragmatic sets in, it becomes practical albeit female attire, we grow accustomed, and we start to get into a true female mindset. ‘They’re not a sexy sensual item, they’re just some rather restrictive and practical stretchy cloth to support something which needs supporting’.

I recall one comedian observing the journey through sensual married life, from the outset where it was “base two!”, to a few years down the line when it was just something which could annoyingly ‘hide the TV remote control’.

I do find that after constant wear, skin can go slightly blotchy. So I ease off a bit. But that might just be tmi. 💚

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