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Firstly, Sorry ive been quiet, so busy and just tired when I get back. But lots happened and thought I would share.
1) Told my family. Everyday I have felt mre confident, Aislenyne boosts my male side and from that the momentum has built. So the time came, first my mum knew, I showed her a picture and she didnt know it was me! Then after that sister, then brother and wife and the one that worried me the most. My dad, not for fear he would go mad, just.. well dont know thinking about it now.
2)Before that though I had already got my ears pierced and Aisleyne had gone to town, lierally. I had a nice shop, relaxing coffee and even taken the cat to the vets later on! (just booster injections). Not just going the club (my safespace) but actually out in the world. After doing this one thing left to do.
3)The world now knows. I posted on FB on Saturday that I was bisexual so come out. Sunday I posted
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Then I got my wings and I never even knew it...
So thank you for the positive messages from yesterday. I'm going keep this bit brief and explain more later. But it's time you all met someone. I didn't know they were there until a few months ago but since fully embracing this. In essence im 70% ****. But the other 30% this is also me.
Say hello to Aisleyne Stardust x "
Followed my 2 of my favorite pics.
The response has been amazing and now I can start 2020 fully out and no need to hide. I feel great and excited for the future. I know how lucky I am to have such amazing support. So now its a new chapter and cant wait to see where this leads.
I am so happy for you, way to go.
Hugs
Paula
Aisleyne,
All the best wishes now and in the New Year. 2020 will be a great year!!!
Love and hugs,
Lanna💋❤
Congrats. Hope you have a great 2020.
Hugs, Ruby
Aisleyne, That is so great and it sounds like you did a perfect job of coming out slow/fast and smoothly that it has worked out great for you. Remember if you have tough times we are here for you. I hope you the best and now you can be your true self. Congratulations.
Dear Aisleyne,
I know well the feeling of wanting to tell and fearing rejection. I am glad it went as well for you as for myself. Though I do not have any official coupling between my male and female persona, as my Facebook is solely in the name of Marianne, most people in my daily life are aware I define myself as a transgender woman, wishing to transition. With the perhaps understandable exception of my wife, they have all been accepting and supportive. My wife doesn't want to see me dressed or have anything to do with Marianne, but still have recommended me to start counselling to find out how I am to live my life and wether she can still be a part of it.
Mellen Marianne Tornander
Congratulations Aisleyne. You took some pretty big and bold steps. Glad it went well.