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I absolutely love to see myself in the mirror with a proper tuck. Everything just seems right in the world when that damn bulge isn’t interfering with anything. But I can be a little uncomfortable after being tucked all day.
Luckily, I have taken that into consideration when I have been buying clothes lately. If I am wearing a flared skirt or an A-line skirt, anything that’s not too fitted, I can still wear some nice snug panties or a thong and not have to worry about the unsightly bulge. I only have four gaffs at this time and I keep those handy for wearing pants and really tight fitting skirts.
Yeah, I do love the look when being tucked properly. But when I sit down the accessory that I am hiding is physically noticeable to me. Wearing the right style skirt or dress without tucking can be as glorious as a bodycon dress or skirt with a tuck. Sometimes, not having the constant physical sensation of being tucked can feel so good. Not noticing that thing constantly and wearing a cute dress or mini skirt all the while is one of my favorite things.
BTW, I have been catching my wife trying to see what I am wearing underneath. Some of my skirts and dresses are REALLY short. I don’t know if she is trying to catch a glimpse of panties to complain about the length but she is obviously looking when I stand up, sit down, and put my legs up on the ottoman. It’s been really good modesty practice and she hasn’t busted me yet for going too short. It’s been fun.
I never tucked a day in my life. I never even gave it a thought. If my package shows then it shows. I just don't care I guess.
I couldn't agree more, Mika. I love to hide my bulge when wearing tighter clothes and for me tucking is the best way with gaffes a close second. At least with tucking I can wear whichever panties I want. But you are right - there are times with the right dresses or skirts when being flat simply isn't needed.
I don't tuck. I wear dresses or skirts and panties that conceal my ladyboy bump. I became aware of that in college when I wore a clingy and very short dress to a party. I couldn't wait to get there and show my sexy, new dress off. I was getting a lot of attention. The dress was amazing. I hadn't realized, the dress, combined with my excitement was revealing my bump.
I hadn't noticed that when modeling the dress and my outfit. The dress was a big hit and so was I, but I also became aware of something new that can happen when wearing certain clothes. I had a few similar dresses. they were great party dresses but not necessarily appropriate for wearing out in public.
Oh, Patty! I bet you really were a hit at the party.
I really don’t have any panties that are tight enough to hide things with any kind of tight pants or skirts. And I have hundreds of pairs. It really sucks too because gaffs are so expensive. But at least I have enough skirts and dresses that aren’t clingy that I can wear now.
Indeed!
Since we’re all a bit different, I guess we have some variations in how we can do things. I literally have hundreds of pairs of panties and I have only a few that I can tuck with. I almost always have to use a gaff to tuck because the material is wider between the legs. I never wear a gaff without tucking because I am still too visible and panties are more comfortable if I don’t have to tuck anyway. Whatever works though.
I don’t think I could do that. But kudos to you! Honestly, what you do helps to break down barriers more than me trying to pass by hiding stuff. That’s really brave of you! Thank you for putting yourself out there (pun intended) and helping normalize crossdressing in the public eye.
I recently revisited tucking while dressed, and I have to admit, I am liking it. Only time it becomes a pain is when nature calls.
However, I wear enough constricting undergarments (control panty, 2 pairs of tights, shapewear) that it hides the bulge quite well when not tucked.
Oddly, when tucked all day, I don't find it uncomfortable at all, even when sitting or just daily activities.
Steph...now you've started something...
if a pair of trousers is actually just one garment but with two legs...why is a single shirt with two arms not called a pair of blouses???
Hi.
To tuck or not to tuck..ever since William Shakespeare wrote those immortal words.....
I actually failed all my exams at Rei Durdens school of tucking...I can't bear it all tight and tied up underneath...every time I buy clothes, it's usually paramount that it's something loose and flouncy...and it covers the " bulge"...
I just do not have the shape to wear figure hugging clothes...so why wear a mangle down below?...I'm happy hanging loose. I honestly think I can look pretty without needing a boy scouts badge on knottage...just to pee.....
snug panties are a totally different matter!!!
Just my thoughts, grace xx
It would be a little like painting a window shut
Patti 🥰
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HAHA wear a light color gaff can be painted over or even those silicone panties can buy. Me in few months will not have to worry about the package be taken off and going for surgery down there. Be all natural women soon enough.
Hi Mika, I don’t have enough to tuck 🙂 that’s ok. I just let them be. I do like the snug undies. I don’t mind my little bulge it’s kinda cute. Great post❤️
So happy for you! 😁
