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I have a serious question about tucking. Please don't laugh. I do the normal pushing of the testicles into the body cavity thing. Then, I pull the penis downward and tuck between the cheeks. It isn't an issue until I sit down. That part is a little painful on the base of my penis. Am I doing it wrong? Any advise will be wonderful.
Hi,
Maybe just dont to try to push your "best buddy" back so far and if you are not using a proper gaff, try that as well.
Caty
The tighter the better Hon, a gaff or a body shaper will do the trick but here is a quick youtube video on the subject with some proper technics on how too
Hope this helps
Love Carrie
XOXOX
Gosh, I’ve been tucking so long that all I remember is some discomfort, but not the specifics.
Unless you have had surgeries in the area, or your anatomy is different, like others said, you are probably going too far back, but you can probably get accustomed to that as well. I do yoga and anything I want without discomfort now.
I have a difficult time with getting the guys back in their cave. Still haven't figured that part out but will watch the video.
Hello Robin,
I read your request with interest, unfortunately I can’t help you. I have been thinking for some time now about buying a gaff but the very thought of trying to push ones testes into a cavity gives me the hebie jebbies. At the moment I use tight knickers and push testes and penis down and under as far as they will go. The tight knickers plus tights do hold “things” in place and give a relatively smooth appearance but I know it’s not perfection. At times when I sit down it can be a bit painful.
i will be very interested to hear any results of your request.
All best wishes.
joanna.
hi robin. I have tried with varying degrees of success wearing tummy control panties. these are quite stretchy and tight they seem to hold things in place, true they are not perfect, but you get a nice frontal 'shape' without too much bulge, great when you are wearing denim shorts or jeans.
fiona xxx
I have one more vid for you Girls
A warm shower and a bit of moisturiser when first starting out helps. Being relaxed and not erect also is the way to go or when it shrinks you get the pain from it pulling/shrinking back into resting position. At first there is a little discomfort with tucking your balls into the cavity as the cavity has obviously shrunk a little and your balls have grown a little since last being acquainted. Once they are put back into the cavity reach behind and under and pull your penis between your legs, thighs or bum depending on how big you are. After a little discomfort and adjustment you will find it a breeze and not need a gaff. I no longer need or use one and just wear whatever panties I like. Funny enough some over the extra skin from my sack now look a little like lips which is an added bonus. Hope that helps good luck practice and persistence and you will be rewarded
I’ve been tucking forever. I first learned about it when I was maybe 10? Idk. Ive never been well endowed in that region. I mean, average but no way am I reaching cheek level of tuck lol. I do yoga and can run all over my office and house all day and never have discomfort. I use very good quality gaffs when I’m out. When I’m home, panties hold the extra parts back just fine. I’ve been doing it for 18 years now. At some point, gender confirmation surgery may be an option, but right now, not my first concern.
Delia’s diagrams were especially helpful, Carrie!
I have gotten a lot of great feedback. The videos were helpful. I also didn't pull back as far as before. Just tried too hard to make it flat in the area. I want to thank all of you for helping me. That is why this site is so very important for all of us!
Thank You
Robin
Robin, it's crazy, I was just going to ask the same question. I started tucking just this year...after years of just dealing with "the bulge". I occasionally feel like it's too tight down there, leading me to believe I'm tugging my "trunk" too far back. LOL! There have been a lot of great suggestions posted here, and video was a HUGE help. Thanks, all! And, thank you, Robin, for asking the question!
The very thought of tucking gives me the heebeejeebees at the moment - but the video is excellent!
I ordered a gaff when I first saw this thread, and wow!
It's a single thin slab of silicon that stuffs down the front of reasonably tight underwear, and feels lovely.
The one I bought, not one of the cheapest, but relatively inexpensive, looks realistic too - looks amazing in sheer underwear, as well as giving the correct shape.
As a middle aged person, I don't expect comleye flatness - the slight bulge with the appropriate indentation reminiscent of a certain herbivore's foot adds a whole new level of realism to my appearance.
Here's a link to the specific gaff I bought - warning, not safe for work or intolerant SOs - my word, it is startlingly realistic - better in real life.
https://rover.ebay.com/rover/0/0/0?mpre=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ebay.co.uk%2Fulk%2Fitm%2F362451754341
Laura
I’ve never tucked: tried it but prefer the straight up approach: I usually wear Lycra support lingerie so even with a tight skirt nothing shows other than the pleasant tummy curve of a GG.