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A Late Hello & Intro from Western Australia

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Lady
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(@asteena)
Eminent Member     Perth, Western Australia, Australia
Joined: 1 year ago

Hello I am Asteena

I joined in February and wished to read and look for a while before standing up. 
Have been crossdressing since a child, and my wife has been aware for over 20 years (I am in my 60s) but she is not supportive. 
I saw a therapist recently who advised to accept myself as having my female side, which wasn’t what my SO wanted to hear. 
I had a small hidden quantity of apparel which was found and I had to discard most, leaving only one pair of shoes, makeup and three outfits. It is hard to get alone time to dress up but do put on nail polish occasionally to clear the fog. 
Thanks for the honesty everyone as this helps me feel more confident and normal. 
best wishes from down under. 
Cheers Asteena

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@asteena 

Hi Asteena

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You've know by now what a warm and accepting community this is. The girls here are wonderful, and it's a great place to make friends and find support.

I look forward to hearing more about you here on the Forums 🙂

Hugs

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2212

@asteena 

Hi, Asteena, if you've had a good look around, you'll know what an amazing community this is. You are definitely among like-minded friends here, you'll also know how many of us share very similar backgrounds to your own.

Good to see you joining us on the forums!

Allie 

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Lady
(@kyrabrooke)
Joined: 9 months ago

Reputable Member     Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Posts: 148

@asteena Hi Asteena...welcome and it's very nice to meet you! Thanks for sharing your feelings and story and go onward honoring yourself! I wish you an awesome week ahead and continue being authentic! Big luv, Kyra

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Lady
(@darbygirl)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 22

@asteena Good morning Asteena,

Darby here and I certainly know the feeling about the SO not approving and certainly the therapist's reaction and immediately after the look and reaction of my wife!

It is certainly what some of us have to endure, as hard as it is honey and truth be we told... I thought I was going to be in divorce court. I'm 66 myself but I do have days to dress as I work from home but that will come to an end as the wife is retiring soon.

Anyway, just wanting to say hi and welcome. It is a nice place!!

Hugs for now

Darby

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Baroness Annual
(@fembecky)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 602

@asteena 

Welcome to CDH, and thanks for the very honest introduction. You know you will get lots of support and encouragement here. I know in my case I was sure for many years my wife would be totally unsupportive, but a year or so ago things began to change and now the situation is very different. I hope that in the future you will find more opportunities to be the real you.

Hugs

Rebecca xxx

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Guest
(@Anonymous 96727)
Joined: 8 months ago

Active Member
Posts: 6

@asteena Hi Asteena,

Your story is similar to many of us here. Keep being amazing and know deep down , you are a wonderful woman.

kisses from east of you in Adelaide

xx

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Lady
(@susiexd19)
Joined: 2 years ago

New Member     Perth, Western Australia, Australia
Posts: 2

@asteena  Hi Asteena, 😀 It is lovely to hear from another Perth girl. Yes, we all have the same stories about this beautiful need that we have. I also have a wife who knows but is not really supportive. I have a nice collection of dresses, lingerie and shoes and dress at every opportunity. I am in joondalup but often dress and go to Morley and Nollamara shopping centres where it is less likely to meet someone I know. I am also  hitting the big 60, but this femininity keeps me young. ❤️  Take care and talk soon. Susie.

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Duchess
(@innatelyindi)
Estimable Member     Lorton, Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 9 months ago

Hi Asteena !  Welcome to CDH.  I am new here also and have found it to be an invaluable resource.  I hope to see you around and chat sometime.

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Lady
(@mary)
Noble Member     Sydney, New South Wales, Australia
Joined: 4 years ago

Welcome. Hope you and your wife can work out a manageable plan. 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Asteena nice to meet you as you have been here for a bit thank you for introducing yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. we all love a good chat so please don't be shy really girl we don't bite Well a few girls do be careful (ha ha ) just kidding girlfriend .. Have fun girl and hope to see you sometime soon ..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Asteena,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Baroness
(@ryanpaul)
Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 7 years ago

Hello Asteena from "over east"

Caty Ryan here with fond memories of business trips, (cum weekends at Margaret River and staying out at "Scar Beach". Plus holidays "down south" through Denmark and Albany.

Have a squiz at my profile and photos and if you like what you see PM me for more chat.

 

Caty Ryan.

 

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