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Hie Everyone!!
As by my account status, and discovering of forums, I am fairly new to the idea of crossdressing. I like wearing female clothes and was drawn to this idea when I was 17-18 years old.
I mainly came across this platform when I was surfing the net and wanted to make friends with people having similar persona.
Let me tell you, I am barely passable, as I said I am fairly new to the idea of wearing female clothing. I was able to come forth to my sister reading my feminine side and she took me in! I was thrilled to have someone to open up to!
I am yet to go out as a female and is scary for me as of now. Might be possible I go out year later when I have all things ready.
I am a good listener and also have a big story of my own, and I'm more than happy to listen about your story and tell-tales. Feel free to message me or connect with me however you deem fit.
To the new beginnings!!
Hey Max welcome to CDH!
This is an awesome site! You're going to hear that a lot. The girls here are friendly and engaging and happy to help. CDH just might change your life!
Jump in! Forums and Chat are good places to start.
The Members Directory is a good place to find girls in your area.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/participants/
Glad you're here!
/LK
@emilyalt
Thank you for welcoming me and showing me some guidance Liz, glad to be here. Let's see how much I change here ☺️
Regards
Max
@maximusmax Welcome to CDH, Max!
Something to keep you in the mood and to change perceptions of your femme persona, you can pick a more feminine name, unless Max is based on something like Maxine.
Participate in the forum topics and / or the chat and you will fit right in.
@harriette Hey
I couldn't think of feminine names that would suit me so I picked out Max, but now that you mentioned it Maxine does sound good, too good for me to pass. So do you mind if I steal this name from you 😂.
Thank you so much!
Regards,
Maxine
@maximusmax Not at all! I am happy to inspire you.
I couldn't tell if Max was shortened or not, so I guessed. My mother's name is Harriette and my dad frequently called her Harrie, so one never knows.
Ahh!! Understood, although thanks for giving me inspiration for naming, and also Harrie is anice name 😁.
Best
Maxine
Hi, Max, and welcome to this truly amazing community!
Liz has said that this place, and the support and encouragement you'll find here can change your life. That's not an exaggeration, there are many here who will tell you the same thing because it has changed ours.
Engage (to quote a certain starship captain) fully in the forums and other areas of the site and you, too, will be amazed at how much things can change for you.
So, enjoy being part of the global family!
Allie
I certainly getting the good feels about this forum past few hours I have been here. Thank you for making me feel welcomed and hearing me out.
Regards,
Maxine
Hi Maxine, welcome to CDH.
This is the best and safest place on the net to chat about all things crossdressing. You have lots of like-minded sisters to share your experiences with, and if you need advice then it will be freely and happily given.
Take a wander around the site to find out what it has to offer, and join in as much as you like. Have fun!
@maximusmax I first began going out at 17. I was extremely excited about doing it and had planned it for so long. But when I had everything together and it was time to show my impersonation to the world, I was very nervous. I almost didn't do it.
But somehow nerve and excitement intervened. It was the most incredible experience. Each time out, I would try to get more adventurous and bolder. In a few months, I was walking near people, going into stores, browsing and buying femme items.
A year later, I got my own place, dressed often and went out a lot. My neighbors saw me femme all the time. I met other crossdressers at a college Halloween Party and often partied with them. When I didn't have classes, I often dressed femme and sexy like some of the girls did and walked around the campus.
I was often in femme mode when not in class. When I went to class I changed into guy mode. What I was doing back then was considered quite taboo. I think if attitudes were liie today, I probably wold have enrolled femme and stayed that way.
Feels good to come out being a girl isn't it ☺️. I'm glad you decided to, one day I will to, though is far away but is gonna happen... Planning for it as we speak. Anyways, Thanks for letting me know. It's kinda exciting when you wear femme garments underneath the guy attire when you go to classes. It kinda wakes you up, each step you take, each breath you take, all remind you for little secret underneath, and also pantyhose/stockings makes it even better.
I will share my first experience in detail someday.
Best
Maxine
@maximusmax It was an amazing experience and the realization of long time dreams and fantasies. To be around people, hoping I'm presenting to them the sexy girl I see in the mirror was such an incredible thrill.
And it's not like my first time was the ultimate, and any time after that was OK but fell short of that first time experience. As I got bolder, and my outings became more adventurous and daring, I had many experiences that far exceeded the thrills of the first time/
Yes i understand, but for me the first times were special because my sister helped me and that made me feel special in my own way. And there has been other moments that I was with her, these were the best, but rest assured, the next times will be bolder and more daring than the other, that's for sure.
Best
Maxine
@maximusmax First times can be special, especially if you had a great experience. With me, as I got bolder and more adventurous, I sort of added a lot of new first times. Liking walking near and among people, going into stores and walking around and even riding escalators and climbing stars to show off my legs to those behind me. Browsing girl's clothes and eventually buying pantyhose. I thought it would be really exciting to be wearing pantyhose while buying pantyhose. It was. Then I went shoe shopping and modeled shoes for other customers, getting them to comment on my choices.
Wearing a super short and sexy dress with stiletto heels to a college Halloween Party where my classmates didn't know who I was and looked at me with disbelief when I told them. Meeting other dressers and partying with them and others who like girls like us.
Seeing some girls dressed incredibly sexy and dressing like them and walking around the campus when I didn't have class.
Every one of these evens had a first time and they often were amazing experiences. But second, third and many times after were awesome experience too.
Hi Max,
Welcome to CDH. Sounds like you have a very caring sister.
Alice
@aliceunderwire Yes she is. I wouldn't know where to start of it weren't for her. Although signing up for this forum was not run by her. I am party exited to tell her when I meet her next.
Lets see what she thinks.
Thank you Alice
Regards
Maxine
A big warm welcome to CDH Maxine! 🙂
hi Maxine nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so may ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So girl when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Maxine as she travels down her own girly path in life,, Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Hey Stephanie,
Yes I recently just edited an article, it's under review and may be posted soon. I shared my first journey there, and in process to edit the next article. I'm so glad to find such supportive and enthusiastic people here and thank you for making me feel welcomed.
Best
Maxine
Also I'm down to chat more if you want, just post how did you find your calling for this in my wall and we will continue from there. Or I could post something on your wall and could continue. What do you think?
Maxine
Hi Maxine
Just a heads up that any chats you have via your Wall will be visible to all members.
If you want to have a private conversation, visible only to you and whoever you are talking to, you'll need to do that via a private message 🙂
Ellie x
Hey Ellie,
It was my understanding that I need to be a Duchess to do that, was I wrong?
Maxine
Hi Maxine!
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
