Advice

M Me, that’s a difficult question to answer.  In the situation you describe, you may just have to be satisfied with maybe having a few small items that can be easily tucked away, like some panties or nylons and you will then have to decide whether that satisfies your urges.

You may be able to stop for a while, but speaking from personal experience,   it’s not likely that they will go away, completely.

If having just a little stash is not enough, you are faced with the decision of how to continue.  The big decision being whether you come out completely or maybe just confide in someone close.  If there is anyone who might understand, a girlfriend, or relative, you may be able to have them keep more for you and dress at their place.

Otherwise, you will have to wait until you have a place of your own.

You have some tough decisions ahead, but many of us shared your struggles starting out.  I wish I could help more, but all of us here, will provide at least emotional support, if you keep in touch and reach out when you need us.

Much love,

Raquel

Hi

Reading between the lines, it sounds like you have privacy issues? If the old locked-suitcase-under-the-bed isn't an option, then clearly you don't have the privacy you need.

All I can do is to repeat Raquel's post. Hang in there, make do with the minimum until you can find a place of your own. The tendency won't go away.

Sorry!

Connie

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Can I ask another question in terms of panties what is the equivalent in terms of large medium and small mens underwear in terms of panties

For panty sizes, the best recommendation is to browse panties online. Just about all of them will have a size chart that tells you your panty size based on your waist.

M Me, I wear a size 34” waist men’s pants (although I’m slimming down thanks to my dieting). I find that a size 7/8 panties usually fit.  However I do prefer them a bit snug. If they only have S/M/L/XL, sometimes it’s a medium, sometimes a large.

Hiya and welcome M. You say that you used a service a while back. Did you provide the clothes or did they have a selection to choose from that they supplied. This would seem the obvious to contact them and ask. I see you are in Gwent, Having a quick look there doesn't appear to be anything in that part of Wales down to Cardiff,Newport area. There is something I saw in Bristol. If you have access to the internet then you could look for yourself.

You have been given some sound advice in looking for alternative places to place your clothes. Not knowing your circumstances, there are companies that rent storage space that you could look at. There's a Safestore in Newport.

Hope this helps.

Thank you it was a service in the Cardiff area they provided the clothing there ive read through the posts here and taken on board a lot of the advice how do storage solutions work btw

I'd be interested to give this a try. I live in Cardiff and cannot find anywhere.
Do you have the contact details/ web site etc? PM me if you'd prefer.

Cerys

Can I inbox you

Of course.

Hi M,

Welcome to CDH.

As others have posted check the measurement tables or while shopping in a store.  Sure it’s scary but you’ll enjoy shopping for yourself immensely.  You can underdress in a cami or vest and panties to start.  Some men’s underwear looks very much the same as women’s so check your local stores.  As the adage goes hiding in plain sight.

Alice