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Hi CDH girls I’m Julianne just signed back up because I know how wonderful this site and all the people on it are. The encouragement and support one can get here is so amazing already had some girls reach out to be friends and I thank you for that! A little back ground I was a member about maybe 4or5 years ago I had just come out fully to my wife of 30 years at that time she knew I enjoyed female attire but not to the extent of Julianne unfortunately I got a little overzealous and rushed things along to quick and scared her and almost lost her so I promised to stop and if I was having trouble doing so we would talk about it so I purged and sent Julianne back into the closet. Well we all know how that works out nobody puts Julianne in the closet at least not for long Lol! Fast forward another problem arises and we go for counseling and for the first time ever someone else knows about my cross dressing. The best thing to have happened so far! My wife and I talk after I have a private session with my therapist and he assured me that I’m not broken and Julianne isn’t going away and we need to figure out a way for both of us to live comfortably with her. Long story short my wife has agreed to allow me to wear certain things in her presents but doesn’t want it in our bed.so it’s a start I have started buying Julianne a few new things and that makes me very happy I’m able to wear work out gear and yoga pants around the house so I’m taking it very very slow this time as I know she is very scared that she has opened Pandora’s box. So that is why I am back cause I need you girls for that support that I know we give on this site. And I am so sorry to those friends that I abandoned when I left in the middle of the night last time! Thanks for listening to my ramblings! Julianne
Welcome back Julianne!!! Thanks for reintroducing yourself. Really nice meeting you.
Love, Stephanie 💖
Julianne welcome back.. and no your not rambling at all..much of what you have said is faced with similar situations including myself. I opened to my wife after 38 years married and it caused problems at first. The mistrust certainly was a huge issue and still only now she's cautious about it. Taking it slowly but not without her agreements going forward. Sorry about your wife’s lack of acceptance. Many face this troubling ordeal but be asured you have that support and help from everyone here. Girls here are wonderful and very helpful so relax and start experiencing the true feelings that are now here. Friendships are so exciting to make and has help me accept who I am. Very nice meeting you and love to talk and share about our experiences . Hugs!!
Stephanie 🌹
Thank you for your support and as always the girls here are amazing thanks again!
Hello and welcome (back) Julianne! Sounds like you have put a lot of thought into how to make this work for you and your wife. I love the advice from your counselor, “you’re not broken”. That’s a really important thing to learn. Hopefully you will take your own advice and take things slowly and keep the lines of communication open.
Yes thanks hearing him say that helped me considerably I knew in my heart I wasn’t but the trials of dealing with trying to save a marriage to someone you love more than life itself and her not being able to understand it makes it very difficult it tears you apart inside because you feel like she doesn’t love all of you! It hurts but I know most of us have felt the same way! Thanks and you know I just realized you are the first person I have ever said that to.that’s why I love it here it is the one place where most if not all have felt everything that I feel and there is no judgment. Again I ramble sorry.
Welcome back. Very familiar story. Thank you for sharing. Hope to see you around CDH
Holly
Hi Julianne,
Welcomeback to CDH.
Alice
Welcome back Julianne!
