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Becoming the real me

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Lady
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(@rach123)
Active Member     Sydney, Australia
Joined: 8 years ago

Hi everyone

let me introduce myself. My name is Rachael (not Rachel- thanks auto correct). I have know about my female side from a young age, and over time this element of my life has grown. I have come to a point in my life where I feel that I am living a bit of a lie and that not being true to myself is ultimately being dishonest. I would love to reach out and chat to others who have been on the journey of transition. I am currently seeing a councillor about transitioning, (which to be honest scares me, but also give me great warmth). I feel that I am at a cross roads in my life and need additional  support in this journey. Being ultimately on my own in this journey is so hard and if any one out there can help me, no matter how small I would love to chat.

big hugs

Rachael

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Duchess
(@stacyannmay)
Trusted Member     Atlanta, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Rachael! I wish you the very best on your journey!

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Baroness
(@egirl)
Estimable Member     Tucson , Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Rachael,

It’s wonderful to meet you! Like yourself and many of us here, I am experiencing my female side becoming stronger with age. It’s to the point now that I feel the need to let Ellie out. So you are most definitely not alone! And the girls on this site will be very supportive.

Hugs and Kind Regards

Ellie Hope

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Rachel,  welcome , it’s wonderful that you have joined our family. We’re always happy to help our new girls and offer our advice and tips and were here to chat about anything you have on your mind. Sharing experiences is so helpful and fun to explore more as you get comfortable with being here. Very nice meeting you and the best to you on your transitioning  looking  forward.

Stephanie 🌹

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(@Anonymous)
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Joined: 1 second ago

There are a great many ladies here - and we're all here for you.

It's like having your own private army of counsellors, mostly trained by direct experience.

Love Laura

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Lady
(@soyangela)
Estimable Member     San Diego, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Rachael,

Welcome to CDH. I'm fairly new here as well. You will find there are many supportive ladies here with a wealth of knowledge.

Angela

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(@mnewman111)
Famed Member     Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome Rachael!

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Lady
Topic starter
(@rach123)
Active Member     Sydney, Australia
Joined: 8 years ago

Hi everyone

Thank you for all your very kind words. Having an outlet to discuss is really helpful.

I know I am not the first or the last but my main issue is that of my relationship with my partner, and kids. I love them all dearly and never want to hurt them, but knowing that my feminine side is getting stronger is making things oh so difficult. Having now been with my councillor it is clear that this is my “wall” to transition. I know that if I was single I would be well on my way or if not already transitioned. I don’t want to impact their lives with my own situation, but on the other hand I don’t want to live a lie and let them live in it too. Wow this is so hard.

My councillor said in our recent session that I should create a transition timeline of all the steps I want to take and rank them in order of time. Can I ask, have any of you girls done the same and if so did you find it helpful?

thanks once again for allowing me an outlet to discuss my situation

Rachael

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(@Anonymous)
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Hi Rachael , so many positives here on CDH , hope you get to enjoy yourself xx Tiff

I'm from Australia also ☺

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Lady
(@delora)
Reputable Member     Torbay, Newfoundland and Labrador, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Hey Rachael,

You have come to the right place. I have only been here a week or so and I have to say everyone here is so nice and really helpful. I very recently decided to accept my crossdressing and come out to my wife. She has been fantastic, but I have so many questions and was seeking peer support. there is no peer support group in my community, so I was thrilled when I found CDH.

If you ever want to chat I am here.

all the best on your journey!

 

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Duchess
(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Rachael !

Welcome to CDH !

Great intro. You are soooo lucky to have a supportive wife. To get the most out of CDH use the three Ps.......

Participate

Participate

Participate

The more you do the better we all get to know each other.

Hugs

Autumn

 

 

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Duchess
(@985anythinggoes)
Noble Member     New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi, hello, and welcome to CDH! You have just arrived at the best and greatest CD site on the web! CDH has tons of very helpful crossdressing information, and support from real people just like you! We highly encourage new CDH members to ask questions no matter how trivial you think they may be, as we are happy to answer to the best of our ability. We also love a well written profile, this helps everyone to get to know you better as the beautiful woman you are! We hope that you enjoy your stay here at CDH, as we are happy to have you as a part of our wonderful community.

Thank you, Samantha Roarke

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