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Lady
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(@kendragirl)
Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 8 months ago

Hello everyone. My name is Kendra and I'm excited to be on the forum. I've been interested in women's clothes since I was a little kid, and have dressed fairly often over the years. About a year and a half ago I started a new relationship and my partner has been nothing but encouraging about dressing and even gave me my name. That was about 2 weeks ago which felt like a giant bandaid on my soul. Since then I've been feeling more free about this and thought I would reach out to others for friendship, advice and girl talk. I have not be out in public yet (at least where anyone could see me) but hope to soon. I haven't done makeup yet... only lipstick. Anyway, thanks for listening and I look forward to exploring the site and community more. 

xox Kendra

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5189

@kendragirl 

Hi Kendra

Welcome to CDH - this is THE best support site for the CD/TG community on the internet.

You'll find that it's a very warm and supportive place, perfect for making friends, seeking advice or just chatting. The girls here are wonderful; spend any time here at all and it will begin to feel as though you've gained an extended family.

There's LOTS to explore. Have fun doing that, and if you need any help finding your way around just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@ellyd22 Thank you so much for the lovely welcome!

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Guest
(@Anonymous 96682)
Joined: 8 months ago

Active Member
Posts: 13

@kendragirl Kendra!!!! Welcome! I am relatively new here too and would love to chat sometime! 

Chrissy

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@chrissy0605 Hi Chrissy, thanks for the nice welcome. I'm still learning how this site works (I've only been on about 10 minutes!) but I think I can chat with my basic plan.. I hope!

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5189

@kendragirl 

Yep ... you can definitely send private messages with 'Lady' membership 🙂

Here's an indication of what it includes:

Membership Levels – Crossdresser Heaven

Ellie x

 

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@ellyd22 Thank you! I need to upgrade one level to post photos right?

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5189

@kendragirl 

Nope ... you can post up to five public photos (maximum three a day) with the 'Lady' membership 🙂

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@ellyd22 thank you. I'll have to try again! Of course I'll need to upgrade because 5 is just not enough!   Wink

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5189

@kendragirl 

Just so you know, when you upload a photo to your public gallery it goes through a vetting process before being published. That means there's always a delay before it appears on your home page 🙂

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@ellyd22 I can't even find where to upload photos Trepidation

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1709

Kendra, just go to the CDH main page, select Photos and you'll see a button saying Upload Photo. We'll look forward to seeing you hun xx.

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@chrisfp99 Ah ha! I was looking in my profile settings. Thank you so much.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5189

@kendragirl 

Thanks to Chrissie you seem to have got it figured out now ... I spotted one of your photos in the 'Pending' files 🙂

That just means that it's uploaded safely and is awaiting moderation.

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@ellyd22 It was denied because of nipples under my dress. My profile picture has the same dress and you can see nipples... what's the difference?

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1709

Kendra, they're quite strict here! Anything in public photos is vetted. You'd be able to post in private photos but I think you'd have to upgrade your membership. I've fallen foul of this, so I upgraded to Baroness so I could load a couple of slightly risqué pics xx.

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@chrisfp99 seems odd that I have the same outfit on in my profile pic and it got accepted. Anyway, it’s their site and obviously they make the rules. Not a great introduction to the club but oh well. I’ll still keep my account but I’ll go back to my other site where my style fits in more.

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1709

Kendra, rules are rules. I'd be surprised if you can find a more friendly, accepting and supportive site than this. Personally I'd advise you to reconsider for your own well-being xx.

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@chrisfp99 I appreciate your response very much. I can see this site has a very supportive community which is wonderful. The other site I'm on has that as well, but allows me to be me. I'm not saying I'll never be back. It was just a really sad way to start my membership. I'm trying not to sound pouty but I had no idea nipples were so offensive even under clothes. Thanks again for the welcome and thoughtful messages.

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1709

Kendra, just out of curiosity are you prepared to say what this other site is? No prob either way xx.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1793

@kendragirl Welcome to CDH! I definitely recommend giving makeup a try. It can be a fun and rewarding part of a pink day.

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@annaredhead Thank you Anna. My girlfriend is going to help me soon. She did her makeup in front of me yesterday and told me about all the different elements. It really is an art form!

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1793

@kendragirl yes, it is art. It's fun learning about different colour mixes and blending, from there you can gain confidence. Get it wrong and you can always wipe it off and try again.

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Baroness
(@kendrawhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Kansas, United States of America
Posts: 110

@kendragirl Welcome! Love the name 😉 It's awesome that you have a supportive SO! This community is amazing, so be sure to check out everything!

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@kendrawhite Thank you Kendra!! Heart

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Baroness Annual
(@fembecky)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 596

@kendragirl 

Hello Kendra,

It's lovely to see you here. This is a great place to make friends with like minded folk.

I made a slow start here, not interacting much at all for the first 2 or 3 years - that was a shame. But this last year or so I have been far more engaged and that is the way to hugely benefit from (and contribute to) all this site and the community has to offer. So I would encourage you to get stuck in and have fun!

Rebecca xxx

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@fembecky Thank you Rebecca! I'm also a member of Club Sissy (although I'm not much of a sissy) and have found the most fulfilling things are chatting with other girls. I expect this site will be much the same! Thanks for reaching out. 

 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2177

@kendragirl 

Hi, Kendra, welcome to the family!

You'll have all the help you need here. I think you may be surprised by just how many of us have very similar stories, it was nothing short of a revelation to me! Many of us spend our lives hiding our secret from others and, consequently, feeling very alone. This wonderland, the girls and the team that run things, give us the opportunity to share our stories in safety.

This is just as true for the difficult times as it is for the happy ones, we celebrate each other's joy and support one another through painful stuff. A look through the forums will demonstrate this.

Become who you are 😊 

Allie 

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@alexina Thank you Allie. I deeply appreciate the welcome. I look forward to making friends here and feeling a bond with one another.

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Lady
(@candycross)
Joined: 9 months ago

Honorable Member     Queensland, Australia
Posts: 313

@kendragirl welcome kendra l am Jane,  l have not been out however my wife and l intend going out once the weather in Australia warms up, we are in winter right now. I hope you enjoy this site, it's friendly and safe and the girls will help you out if you need advice or just to chat. Xx Jane

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(@tubbydullard)
Joined: 2 years ago

Honorable Member     Citrus hills, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 333

@kendragirl  welcome to.the self emerging in you ! Dress in femme, go out shopping feel the rush. Enjoy, life is short.

 

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@kendragirl 

Hi Kendra, welcome to CDH.

I'm sure you'll have found your way around by now, but if there's anything you're still unsure of, just shout up. You're among a lot of like minded sisters here, and we do love to chat about what we do. And if you're still relatively new to makeup, there's plenty of advice to be shared here. Have fun with your exploring!

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@jacquelinelarkspur Thank you very much Jacqueline, I appreciate the welcome!

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Lady
(@paulapantyhose)
Estimable Member     western part of state, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome to our little corner of the internet.  Here you will find lots of ladies to chat with about all manner of fem things.  Clothing, the ever increasing need to dress fem, how to do things to help with your presentation.  Most importantly someone to pick up your spirits when they are low. 

Welcome and I hope you find all the great things I have found here, these ladies are amazing.

Paula

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@paulapantyhose thank you Paula. I really appreciate the welcome!

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

If you're looking for makeup advice Kendra, how to take those first steps out or just to make girly friends and hang around in a community where you can be yourself then you've come to the right place. Prepare to be overwhelmed with greetings and friendship xx. 

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Lady
(@kendragirl)
Joined: 8 months ago

Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 18

@chrisfp99 Thank you so much Chrissie!

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Posts: 470
(@kimberlyannvictoria)
Honorable Member     milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Welcome to CDH Kendra!!! We are glad you are here!!! Smile Face  

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Lady
Topic starter
(@kendragirl)
Eminent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 8 months ago

Heart

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Kendra,

Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Kendra nice meeting you and happy you found and joined us girls here so when looking around do some reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. Now girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also..  So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Kendra as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now girl as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@tubbydullard)
Joined: 2 years ago

Honorable Member     Citrus hills, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 333

@fishingr8 I love ❤️  your welcome to kendra!

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