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(@lilianna)
Eminent Member     Sacramento, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Its great to be here.

I have felt so alone in my transgender journey. I have been ashamed and embarrased by my femme side as the youger of 3 boys, no sisters. I was the cry baby and the sensitive one.

Now I am an older MTF crossdresser that has lived the secret for many years. Only in the last 7-10 years have I been starting to explore.

My SO is not supportive and verbalizes her disdain which has pushed me deeper into depression and feeling alone.

I'm looking for fellowship, compassion, understanding and support.

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Liliana nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. So girl when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Liliana as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away from you .. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better.. Once again Liliana nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@celestecd)
Reputable Member     Colorado, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

You are in the right place.  Welcome.  Explore and you will find warmth, support, laughs and practical advice plus a whole lot more.  Enjoy

 

Celeste

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(@fred96393)
Honorable Member     Burien, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

You're in the right place. You'll draw strength from us. Tell her it's part of you, and not something to be ashamed of.
Hugs and Kisses,
Fredrika Jones

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(@alluera)
Eminent Member     Broomfield, Colorado, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Welcome Liliana,
I'm pleased that you joined, you'll find a lot of great girls here and support. I've been in your shoes (high heel shoes 😉 ) with an ex wife who was not so supportive and called it an addiction which now I'm learning was not an "addiction" but now a way of life for me. I'd love to hear more as getting out your frustrations to a supportive group is always helpful. Hope to hear from you soon!

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Lilianna,

Welcome to CDH.  No need to feel shame.  CDing is fun and exciting.  So sorry your wife is non supportive.

Alice

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(@helenrh)
Estimable Member     Canterbury, Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Welcome to CDH Liliana, you're in the right place. I've only been a member for a little while and it is such a lovely supportive place with everyone so kind and sharing their experiences.

Like you my wife views what we do with a combination of hilarity and disgust, and so I know there is no way I could ever come out to her. So I've been dressing in secret for years.

But with the support of friends I've made on here since I joined I'm going out tomorrow fully dressed for the first time!

Take heart from everyone on here, you are most definitely not alone any more.

Love

Helen xx

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(@lilianna)
Eminent Member     Sacramento, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Thank you, Helen. Have fun, because we deserve the best!

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(@lilianna)
Eminent Member     Sacramento, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Alice, thank you for your knidness. I know my heart is true.
xoxo
Lily

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(@lilianna)
Eminent Member     Sacramento, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Alluera Belle,
What a cute name. Can we be friends and talk sometime?
xoxo
Lilly

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(@wandaovahear)
Prominent Member     Washington, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Good to have you here, Liliana. It’s a great place to decompress and just be feminine.

Hugs & kisses,
W.

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Liliana

welcome, your among many all here to help you in many ways . Never worry about being alone no more,  besides that one person who knows now you have a whole community . Just ask many if these ladies for advice and you’ll receive full understanding and support. I too am and somewhat still closeted. Just my wife knows after opening up to her this year. What I’ve learned and discovered here has truly help me understand these urges and reduce the confusion and slowly help me show what this means and most of all to cope with these feelings and to embrace it in a positive way. I hid these thoughts for many years by now with support of this amazing site and most of all my wife I’ve starting to open up in so many ways. Feeling good about myself and importantly not caring  any more about what Society and others think. Yes dear enjoy your passion girls here understand so now stand proud and wash those fears away. Look for friends as there  are everywhere and chat with others,  I’m happy you have joined us and would chat if you need to. Now relax,  take a deep breath, your journey is now sailing in calmer waters.

 

Stephanie 🌹

 

 

 

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(@Anonymous 89174)
Estimable Member
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Liliana and welcome to the CDH family. I'm so glad you could join us. Know that we are here to support and help one another. Reach out as often as you can, especially when you feel the need.

Rose

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(@blondsherri)
Honorable Member     Missoula, Montana, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hello Liliana, as you have heard from all the others responding here you are in the company of good friends that are here for you to reach out to if you wish. Welcome to a place you can call home and feel accepted. I wish you happiness on your journey ahead.

Sherri

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(@christineth)
Noble Member     Brussels, Brabant, Belgium
Joined: 2 years ago

Dear Liliana
I am saddened to hear your story, but from what I understand it is not so uncommon. I hope your wife can come to terms with your need to dress. In the meantime, you have come to a very supportive and helpful site, where you wont be judged, you can chat with other ladies and share experiences and find advice. And hopefully with time your involvement at CDH will eliminate any sense of embarrassment you have about dressing. I know it is a common feeling, but if you can get over it you will find it enjoyable, you will relax more as a person and you will grow in confidence. This will enhance you relationship with your wife.
Good luck with your journey. Hope you enjoy CDH.
Hugs
Christine

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