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(@maurice69)
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<p style="text-align: left;">Love this site....has given me the courage to speak up and see how other crossdressers face the day.</p>
My story started when I was a teenager and I wore my sister's lingerie when I was baby sitting. Through the years that was suppressed and I really never dressed but the thought was always there.

i divorced my first wife and remarried. What a change. About 3 yrs. ago my wife stated that it's too bad that men wear clothes that seem like sandpaper.  She said they should be able to wear soft clothes too without the stigma attached. That kind of opened the door. I slowly purchased stuff I wanted and have shared a lot of her clothes.

Wear lingerie whenever I can but wearing it where I live is very challenging. That said, last week we spent 3 days in Provincetown to see a show. She asked me if I'm going to come out there and dress. I was very excited and sort of scared.....we were going to see Randy Rainbow on Tuesday night. I decided that I would dress up. I wore gartered stockings, breasts and a bra, black sexy shorts and a tight top. No wig yet....no makeup...best I could do

When I first stepped out I was a little shy..no eye contact but it only took a few moments and I felt liberated and free. No one judging me...safe and happy.

Now to do that here at home....wish me luck!!

 

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Chandra  welcome . Going out certainty a big moment and hopefully in time I to can experience it. Your wife's quite right wearing softer clothes does feel so much better and beats drab anytime. Enjoy your stay and have a wonderful journey with us.

Stephanie 🌹

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Lady
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(@maurice69)
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Thank you for your support and I hope you are as successful as I have been so far. A friend is coming over today and I'm going to tell him in front of my wife..

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Wow   Outstanding!!!   Break a leg hun!!

 

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Lady
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(@maurice69)
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Thank you for your support mwah

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(@bizarresuzanne)
Eminent Member     Lake Ridge, Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Welcome here Miss Chandra, here you will find those loving gurls who care, who love what you love, need what you need...advice and care and maybe even help in what you love, maybe even meeting others who love what you love....without condemnation!

 

I actually have come out only here and a few other sites online.  I have never been out as such dressed up, but have been out on my back porch and out on the sidewalk, self-bound and gagged in fetish garb (discovered that in Amsterdam, Holland years ago!) but VERY LATE IN THE NIGHT when the neighbors are in bed hopefully...

I have been married twice (both deceased) but only my second (who had been in show business, loved costumes and makeup and more) would dress with and for me in my bedroom...and she is the one I miss!

Welcome and enjoy the freedom to be who you are!

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(@sabinaf)
Active Member     Santa Clara, California, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Thank you for sharing your inspiring story  Chandra!   ❤️. Sabina

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Awesome Chandra!!

Your wife is magic for you and that must be a wonderful feeling to know she shares your life so lovingly. My wife is very accepting and supportive of me and I am in heaven when I can dress up and be me, Danielle, and just relax with her. One day at a time dear. How did the conversation with your friend go dear? Could you post how it went? TTFN💋👠

Danielle

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Lady
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(@maurice69)
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You are so sweet!!!) mwah!!

thank you for your support and love ...will post what happens

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